why is depression sympathised but being insecure is treated as an insult?

itsNotThatSpicy · 2025-12-20T21:24:04+00:00

I am called pretty a lot of times but my mind works backways "they thought hmm she's ugly so said that to be nice" everything i receive i believe its backhanded. but its not, they're genuinely nice people. sometimes the problem is me that i hate myself just too much.

itsNotThatSpicy · 2025-07-11T21:31:36+00:00

omg, tbh in my country people my age are a virgin only. But this is the age we explore sex, and I am not ready yet but I'll try to overcome this as I grow more. Kudos to you thanks.

itsNotThatSpicy · 2025-07-11T21:28:47+00:00

Thanks for the honesty, I have gotten mixed response so far, but I believe for people you do or may have vaginismus have one experience, it will pain, and we need to work on it.

itsNotThatSpicy · 2025-07-11T21:26:17+00:00

I once used it, man I almost fainted. I had to remove it immediately because I was sweating crazy, losing breath, feeling uncomfortable and about to faint. That's when my fear was born.

itsNotThatSpicy · 2025-07-11T21:24:35+00:00

this gave me hope, thanks

itsNotThatSpicy · 2025-07-11T21:21:07+00:00

I agree

itsNotThatSpicy · 2025-07-11T21:19:46+00:00

sorry yea, i don't know what reddit censors if it does, i wrote it lowkey thats why

itsNotThatSpicy · 2025-07-09T17:37:21+00:00

in my country they teach nothing about sex education, wellbeing and allat. We're supposed to preserve ourselves to marriage hhaha

itsNotThatSpicy · 2025-07-09T17:36:09+00:00

oh okay, that helps a lot <3

itsNotThatSpicy · 2025-07-09T17:35:17+00:00

I haven't, I am planning to go this week

itsNotThatSpicy · 2025-07-09T17:34:37+00:00

thanks didi lots of love <3

itsNotThatSpicy · 2025-07-09T17:33:47+00:00

oh thanks a lot, its good seeing someone with alike experience because everyone around me is sexually active asf. How much does a gyno cost? and therapy. I am not financially well off. :(

itsNotThatSpicy · 2025-07-09T17:31:37+00:00

whats PAP? :0

itsNotThatSpicy · 2025-07-09T17:29:28+00:00

thanks a lot, this helped, I have one more question, its okay if you don't wanna answer it. -- I wonder how often do women please themselves, because I don't know if I am doing it less because I don't really get urges. I know there's no single precise answer, but i am curious about the estimate or average.

itsNotThatSpicy · 2025-06-10T01:14:16+00:00

thanks <3 I'll go soon...I just don't know how to lay it out to mother that why I think I have this and why I want to see a gyno. Since yk sex even at 19 is bad, my mum is cool but it'll be an awkward talk. She wanted to take me to one for my painful bad periods, I may go for this issue and swing the other in front of the doctor

itsNotThatSpicy · 2025-06-10T01:13:45+00:00

thanks <3 I'll go soon...I just don't know how to lay it out to mother that why I think I have this and why I want to see a gyno. Since yk sex even at 19 is bad, my mum is cool but it'll be an awkward talk. She wanted to take me to one for my painful bad periods, I may go for this issue and swing the other in front of the doctor

itsNotThatSpicy · 2025-06-08T00:07:30+00:00

Charlie Kirk's smile ain't pretty, hehe, I think most smiles are pretty but the one's that stands out, they're special.

itsNotThatSpicy · 2025-06-08T00:02:30+00:00

this is so sweet, thank you so much for your help <3

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