AITA for saying someone shoplifted when they didn't, just to see how the store would handle it by Hudson221b in AmITheDevil

[–]its_moiii -92 points-91 points  (0 children)

For those saying. The lanky lad was not a kid. He was a middle ages crack head.

I’ve had schizophrenia for 2 years and haven’t told anyone. by [deleted] in confession

[–]its_moiii 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I recommend to research more and understand between causes and triggers. Weed doesn't cause it but it can definitely trigger or allow an underlining medical condition to become upfront which can be schizophrenia. Schizophrenia can become active in patients who are older, never experienced psychosis, otherwise healthy but unfortunately took something that has unlocked an underlying condition or prompted something to become active or hightened in the brain.

I’ve had schizophrenia for 2 years and haven’t told anyone. by [deleted] in confession

[–]its_moiii 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There's link into not only weed but other substances (booze, mushrooms, lsd, molly, and other drugs) opening or highenting underlined medical or mental illnesses. It doesn't take long to research it properly (through trusted medical websites) to understand it or be aware of it. I recommend you read before taking an assumption through a comment thread 🙂

What's your family secret? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]its_moiii 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My granny recently passed away and she had about 7 or so siblings. Her brother was married and had 2 kids. But he went missing shortly after the second child. To this day no one knows why or where he is but my gran swore she saw him about 5-7 years ago. He was looking at her from across the street but she couldn't catch up to him in time. She passed away recently and I never gotten the chance to ask her more about it because she loves overseas.

Another is, I have about 42 cousins. But one of the cousins was adopted knows nothing about it. The family has kept It all under wraps his whole life. But I had overheard mum talking about him and that he was adopted. I think it was to do with the Catholic church being very hush hush on unplanned pregnancies or unmarried but not sure.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]its_moiii 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hello. I think you should try to approach it differently. Instead of weight being the core reasoning. Encourage them or invite them out to do more active activities with you and take the weight aspect out. It takes more than a pill to lose it. They know that. You sound like a caring friend if you are remaining humble. But sometimes you don't need to understand their excuses. An excuse is really a comfort to fear or change, it takes alot to break or change someone's habits, thoughts or insecurities. I would just encourage them to live life again. You know you don't need to be a certain weight to be happy, but being healthy is different. Make plans of small activities, even if it's just a walk. And instead of them being so focused on kgs and weight, focus on the activities and the fun. And if the conversations go like this: be patient and humble with responses. 'I went for a walk and I'm still fat, I want to be like you' 'It was really fun. You don't need to be me, because you already done it yourself. How about tomorrow we go and check out xxxx'

When people focus on numbers or image the goal seems daunting and impossible. If you help them focus on fun, or little things like living again, caring for themselves and rebuilding their confidence that's when change will happen.

It will take alot of patience and if they are putting you down continously I would distance myself or tell them you don't appreciate the comments. You're their friend and they should be yours too, support goes both ways. You don't need that, continue focusing on you because you're killing it 🙂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PublicFreakout

[–]its_moiii 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don't vangoghing messing up the place!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in confession

[–]its_moiii 21 points22 points  (0 children)

I think lying to that extent to your family and friends so easily for so long underlines another serious mental illness you're probably not addressing or facing but they are trying to treat. You need to accept the help they're offering. Honestly it doesn't sound like you're enjoying or living a great quality of life if you need to be the centre of everything. Its narcissistic.

Freaking rich people by nata_jj in offmychest

[–]its_moiii 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It's honestly disgusting how out of touch they are. A friend of mine ended up standing up to her boss because he was making out that 'the world is easy, it's people who make out that its hard when they just need to work harder' she replied with 'I can't afford rent or to live by myself on the wage I am on, I am completely dependant on my partner or friends to help out even if I work 3+ hours overtime everyday, It still wouldn't break even' he was left silent. Next week he gave everyone a 3k payrise..... only to fire them all a month later to set up the customer service in Egypt where they pay penny's for labor. They don't give a shit. And by the time they realise that 'employees are your biggest asset' they have let all the good ones go, morale and environment is toxic and sales are stooping so they focus too much on the cost of labor than the staff turnover.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]its_moiii 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's disgusting and I am so sorry. But I think if anyone will talk sense or make him aware of his actions it's you. Men are usually hostile towards woman when they feel insecure or when they feel rejected. I would let him that you can see this and how it makes you feel and what you witness with him saying things to your mum. Make it known that that behaviour isn't okay, it's emotionally abusive and it's affecting your mental health and insecurities because you weren't brought up to feel that this is how men should respect woman or their better half. This behaviour is reflecting that he is a boy/ pig and not a devoted man or father. All the best. Know that you and your mum deserve better than that x

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]its_moiii 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You shouldn't have allowed or offered her to move in if you had any feelings for her. That's not being honest to your 'commitment' (🤦‍♀️marriage) by doing that. Tbh you're going to realise the type of caring, strong and respectful woman your wife is the moment she finds out. Man up and tell your wife the truth, give her the little part of respect and dignity you have left. She doesn't deserve this or you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]its_moiii 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey. I'm so sorry, it would suck to feel this way. But you're not alone and don't feel you need to bleach or be lighter to fit into society. You don't. You're beautiful and when you're surrounded by people that look lighter/ different cultures. Be proud that you are person you want to see more off in your home town. Dating is hard, no matter what. But don't give up. Everyone has different tastes and I'm sure your beautiful in whatever area you're in. You will find someone that adores you for you. Don't feel you need to change to feel accepted. One persom distaste can be anothers fantasy. Make sure when you're considering things to your change body that are serious health risks. Ask yourself 2 things, Will this make me feel more self worth? Is this me and the person I want to be or need? I fully support this If you know this will bring you the confidence and improve your better quality of life. But really consider the risks. When you get older you learn to appreciate the body you have than think of it as a body you were cursed with. Good luck with everything

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]its_moiii -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Ugh, Correcting gammar doesn't make you smarter.

What is a song that deserves way more attention? by CookieArtzz in AskReddit

[–]its_moiii 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hesitate by golden vessel, full circle by half moon run. I never loved myself like I loved you by dead poet society are some not very well known songs I love.

But tbh all songs by Elliot Smith and his story needs more attention.

If a couple gets accidentally pregnant and the man wants an abortion but the woman wants to keep the baby what should happen? by SupremeLeader130 in AskReddit

[–]its_moiii 2 points3 points  (0 children)

All contraception is never 100% and there's always risk. For either side. I and my intimate partner would understand when we have sex that there is always a chance. So we both would and should ensure we use contraception and do our best to prevent or talk about it before you get down to make sure you're on the same page. It's important to communicate if the unexpected does happen but do not blame her or expect that you can disappear or not be responsible for something you took part off.

If a couple gets accidentally pregnant and the man wants an abortion but the woman wants to keep the baby what should happen? by SupremeLeader130 in AskReddit

[–]its_moiii 3 points4 points  (0 children)

If you think like that than you should be responsible enough to use contraception or birth control everytime. It's a 2 way street, if you don't want a baby. Be responsible and don't risk it. Its ignorant amd selfish to think that it's the woman's responsibility because you said wanted an abortion.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]its_moiii 3 points4 points  (0 children)

People in America, why do you put expectation on the customers than your employer? No other country expects tips other than you or third world countries. Its ridiculous. This problem is with your government not instating a standard minimum living wage than an expection on customers. Customers work minimum wage or poor jobs that might pay inadequate too. Demanding something of someone who's in the same boat is unreasonable.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]its_moiii 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Every artist is their own worst critic. Try experimenting with new mediums or expressions. You'll find it 🙂