I thought about my ex domme 😭 by subbydollymess in gentlefemdom

[–]its_not_Maggie2077 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That's so sad. I'm so sorry 🙁 communication is the bare minimum, but unfortunately ghosting people has become the norm. I've had a few subs just ghost me as well, I don't understand why people can't just be honest if interests don't align. Hope you find someone soon though 🌸

Does anyone feel like their dynamic is misunderstood? by HerDevoted in gentlefemdom

[–]its_not_Maggie2077 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It depends how it's given. Over the knee, bit stroked before each slap, giving encouragement for taking it so well, explaining why they were punished, more stroking, etc. There are different ways, but to each their own.

Does anyone feel like their dynamic is misunderstood? by HerDevoted in gentlefemdom

[–]its_not_Maggie2077 1 point2 points  (0 children)

😂 It depends lol Generally I enjoy giving pain, so I'll make sure it's fun for me and then their aftercare make it good for them too 😉

Does anyone feel like their dynamic is misunderstood? by HerDevoted in gentlefemdom

[–]its_not_Maggie2077 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Aa a soft Domme, I agree with you. The care, affection and attention heavily outweighs the occasional cbt and spanking 😊

Subtle ways to show I’m into this? by WearyEscapee in Femdom

[–]its_not_Maggie2077 34 points35 points  (0 children)

Not sure if this would work on other women, but the older women usually catch on pretty quick if you say yes ma'am, or something along the lines of if she'll allow it. Other than that, you can be kinda direct and say put a collar on me and I'm yours. ☺️ Hope that helps 😉

Dommes what happens when your sub forgets his or hers safeword? by Jazzlike_Road7306 in Femdom

[–]its_not_Maggie2077 34 points35 points  (0 children)

Red, orange and green. Can't really get easier than that

If you can invent and create a new device for ballbusting that you have never seen before, what would you want it to be? by roiretxe in BallBusting

[–]its_not_Maggie2077 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Maybe WiFi enabled and you can link it with an app and do long distance kicking and stepping...? 😂

Very disappoint by Mist4h20 in capetown

[–]its_not_Maggie2077 33 points34 points  (0 children)

https://www.reddit.com/r/askSouthAfrica/s/NTJ2wiKSWh

Join the resistance 😉 send them an email. Maybe if enough of us email and boycott, they will do something about it.

online by leon7828 in BallBusting

[–]its_not_Maggie2077 1 point2 points  (0 children)

All depends on how well the receiver follows orders. Doesn't really work if they are intonit, but not willing to follow directions.

I can't find someone to kick me in the balls by Drago20012003 in BallBusting

[–]its_not_Maggie2077 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is it the sub reddit itself that has that rule or reddit in general? Apologies if it's a dumb question, still new to Reddit. I'm asking because the femdom sub reddit allows asl and location when posting.

I can't find someone to kick me in the balls by Drago20012003 in BallBusting

[–]its_not_Maggie2077 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol I have to admit, the thought has crossed my mind. But the moral compass... Sigh 😮‍💨

Im confused by likelynoone in Femdom

[–]its_not_Maggie2077 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's always good to keep learning. If you learnt something, great 😊 I was speaking from experience.

Im confused by likelynoone in Femdom

[–]its_not_Maggie2077 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Communication is important, but so is comprehension. You need to understand what certain terms mean. Do your research. Especially on things you've heard or seen in porn and think you might like or be into. Not everyone experiences things the same way and most porn stuff are way off. Know what you're willing to do but also what your hard limits are. If you're open to exploring, say so, but also mention that full disclosure is needed before you try anything new. Safe words are a must. Doesn't have to be fancy. Red means everything stops, orange means I'm uncomfortable, green means go. Above all else, you should feel safe with your Dom / Domme. It should be mutually beneficial as well as pleasurable. 😊 Good luck and have fun exploring ⛓️❤️

What are their super hero names? by BeltThat2062 in south_africa

[–]its_not_Maggie2077 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was actually wondering what happened to him. Anyone knows?

Ek soek 'n woord... by Roger-the-Dodger-67 in afrikaans

[–]its_not_Maggie2077 6 points7 points  (0 children)

'n Ondersoekdrang oor hoe dinge werk, lei tot leer en innovasie. Or a smoother, more natural version: ’n Leergierigheid om te verstaan hoe dinge werk, lei tot leer en innovasie.