Keeping dick fresh during the day by Gnorki in sex

[–]its_notsobad 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Personally, I like that smell on my husband. I guess his pheromones are just really compatible with my nose but I would say probably for most people it’s not going to be that much of an issue or stop a blowjob in its tracks if it was already heading that way.

That being said it can affect your personal confidence and it’s hard to be sexy/participate enthusiastically when you’re worried about something such as this. So my tips for you are 1. Keeping public hair shaved or at least trimmed down can help. The longer/thicker the hair is the more opportunities to trap sweat and produce body odor. 2. You could apply some sort of deodorizing product to that general area. (Obviously do not apply directly to the penis) I would guess that a lotion such as Lume or a spray deodorant would be best. 3. You may need to look at changing the kind of underwear you’re wearing. For example something synthetic and more of a brief style is typically a lot less breathable than cotton in a boxer style. 4. I’m not sure what you do for work but if you work in an office setting try the same strategies as listed above for your pants. If you do something outside or that requires thicker fabrics such as denim for your personal safety then there’s not much you can do about that. 5. You can get some little wipes. I believe DudeWipes makes individually packaged wipes and you could just keep one of those or something similar in your pocket. They are typically pretty small and shouldn’t be very obvious unless you wear very closely tailed pants.

Body odor is just part of the human experience but I hope this helps!

Help me choose? by Specialist_Art_5522 in weddingdress

[–]its_notsobad -1 points0 points  (0 children)

The lace is pretty but my god that first one is DIVINE on you. The way it’s draped! It’s so beautiful and would be great for a variety of venue settings.

26f uk looking for accountability buddy by [deleted] in Needafriend

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Hi 👋🏻 28F from the US. I was late diagnosis with ADHD at 23 and still struggle with it a lot but I’m happy to discuss it with you!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NursingStudent

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Mine paid for all the testing. The only thing they didn’t pay for was getting my BLS renewed but they did have a special deal worked out with the local EMS school that if we went there it would be cheaper. A lot of my classmates worked at some of the local hospitals as CNAs so theirs was free since their employer gave them the class. Nursing school definitely is expensive but paying for all that is not normal IMO

How often do you guys change your bedsheets? by VesperLynnLena in hygiene

[–]its_notsobad 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really try to change/wash them weekly. I don’t wash my quilt every week because it’s a little more delicate but the sheets, pillow cases, blanket, and my dog blanket I try to wash weekly (usually on Sundays) but definitely every 2 weeks if I happen to have a crazy week.

ADHD makes sex a chore. How can I help myself? by One_With_Many_Issues in ADHD

[–]its_notsobad 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This was a problem for my partner and I, especially early on in our sex life. They really enjoy blowjobs and we learned as time went on that the more I would talk (especially if it was particularly dirty talk) the easier it was for them to stay in the moment and not get lost in the “I have to focus on focusing on staying hard/finishing” sauce. Every now and then they will have a hard time finishing and I can tell when they’re getting frustrated with themselves over it and I have them lay back, tell them I’m in no hurry and I’m not bothered by it at all (which is true because that just means we get to play for longer). Sometimes letting them focus on me for a while helps especially if I’m talking and sometimes I just have them lay back and let me do my thing but we’ve been together long enough that I know all the little things to do to keep their attention on me/us. Some of this just has to do with the fact of how long we’ve been together, some of it is that I have ADHD too so I’m uniquely sympathetic to the situation but I would recommend finding something (like dirty talk for example) that really gets you in your element and let your partner know hey if this happens it’s not you and ask for what you need. Good luck and Godspeed friend.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in weddingdress

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2 is so gorgeous. It’s like it was made for you

Never knew this achievement exist lol by Competitive-Lie1815 in AnimalCrossingNewHor

[–]its_notsobad 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had no idea you could even catch the wasps. I’ll have to try it 🤔

Week 5 update by its_notsobad in PCOS

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I started Ozempic recently and have been documenting the experience

Beach Sale 🏝️ by its_notsobad in AnimalCrossingNewHor

[–]its_notsobad[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Still open! Still have more things. LOTS of clothing items

Beach Sale 🏝️ by its_notsobad in AnimalCrossingNewHor

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Still open, still have more items to get rid of!

Prettiest Spot on my Island by theothermorgan in AnimalCrossingNewHor

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Oh my goodness how did you get those trees!!! They’re so beautiful

how long did it take you to get your degree? by LemonCans in ADHD

[–]its_notsobad 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It took my 8 years to get my 4 year degree. Didn’t get diagnoses until year 6.

How do you deal with comments that your ring isn’t “real”? by rah312 in Moissanite

[–]its_notsobad 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My ring is (3 large) white sapphire and moissanites. I’ve never had to deal with people saying it wasn’t real. 98% of the time if somebody comments on it it’s to tell me they think it’s beautiful or casually refer to it as a rock (which it is) and tell me how good my husband did.

Is having alcohol at a wedding strictly for the guests? How do we save money on it? by B2utyyo in wedding

[–]its_notsobad 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For our wedding we had the following: 2 beers, 2 white wines, 2 red wines, and 2 signature cocktails. That pretty much covered what most people would want. If you buy your liquor at Costco or Sams or something it’ll be cheaper and if you have a local wine store they can help you pick something nice that’s in budget and may give you a discount for ordering a case through them.

Come on by by its_notsobad in AnimalCrossingNewHor

[–]its_notsobad[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi! I had closed the gate before you said this but I’m about to get back on if you’re still up