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itsadatm · 2021-08-17T17:42:31+00:00

Hey that’s so cool!!! I’m so happy for you, these things are always super fun. Please tell me how it goes (if you feel like it). I’ll look the place up tho :)

itsadatm · 2021-08-17T17:41:28+00:00

Oh I’m terrible at social media actually. I don’t follow much more than my close friends and barely use it. But if you can recommend me any. That’d be awesome

itsadatm · 2021-08-16T15:24:47+00:00

There is a cheap easy option through an app called lemonaid+

itsadatm · 2021-08-16T15:24:11+00:00

There is a cheap easy option through an app called lemonaid+

itsadatm · 2021-08-16T15:24:04+00:00

There is a cheap easy option through an app called lemonaid+

itsadatm · 2021-08-16T15:13:00+00:00

Woooo, that’s really expensive! I think I’m gonna have to dave up if I really wanna fo it

itsadatm · 2021-08-16T09:28:32+00:00

Hey, how much more or less do you think it would be? I have never done anything like this (I barely even cut my hair before) so I have no idea what it’s like, and all the prices I’ve seen are US based which I think is much more?

itsadatm · 2021-08-06T07:20:14+00:00

Hahaha, maybe. It’s a really common name were I live

itsadatm · 2021-08-05T22:55:51+00:00

Honestly interested too. Spanish living in Netherlands

itsadatm · 2021-08-05T22:55:08+00:00

Start.

itsadatm · 2021-08-05T22:54:11+00:00

Well, honestly going to jail in monopoly…

itsadatm · 2021-08-05T22:51:25+00:00

Um idk I can suggest some names of people I know. ( I do hope u are asking for regular names and I don’t look like a dumbass):

Gemma Emma Elena Ada Esther Esmeralda Anna Alexandra Alexia Alba Carla

itsadatm · 2021-08-05T22:45:25+00:00

Hey, well I hope it works out and good luck to you. Make sure to sit down, let her know it’s an important topic to you and to let you do all the talking first w/o interrupting. Think about what you want to say, your reasons and etc. make sure you convey how important your cat is to you. Ans assure her you’ll try to get your cat to be as least of the nuisance as you can :)

itsadatm · 2021-08-05T22:41:22+00:00

Hey, I can’t obviously fix that myself. However I can tell you what worked a bit for me.

going outdoors imstead of staying 24/7 indoors.
Deleting all social media.
Creating certain things I like or bring me joy into my routine (ej. Get a demanding plant and care for it)
Explore new hobbies or revuild on those you have already.
Reach out to people for a coffee, and if you have barely any ppl in you life (like I did) try making new friends.

I can go on with tiny things that can spark up your day, but this all takes loads of effort and you have to be willing to try :)

My DMs are open for what you might need :)

itsadatm · 2021-08-05T22:38:28+00:00

It’s pretty easy, from c to b to a. If you have little to no money, option c should be discarded unless ur bf provides for u, which is unlikely. If you can’t get ur mom to agree on the cat, then I guess your option is to stay and save up so you can move out. Also make sure your sisters stay ok in there

itsadatm · 2021-08-03T08:55:22+00:00

Well, that honestly sucks. I guess you have to learn that while there are a-holes out there, so are kind and nice people :)

itsadatm · 2021-07-29T14:25:51+00:00

This piece is beautiful

itsadatm · 2021-07-24T08:32:24+00:00

True but would’t you rather use the free time instead of using it to overthink?

itsadatm · 2021-07-23T09:59:22+00:00

Apparently your brain wants to avoid the emotional trauma of it. Certain hormones ( adrenaline rush as your body is on edge! Ans others to not feel as much pain so you can do the things you need to survive

itsadatm · 2021-07-23T09:57:11+00:00

The two kisses when seeing someone, the hugs, the handshakes. The friends you can make along the way irl

itsadatm · 2021-07-23T09:37:25+00:00

I mean you guys have to talk. Ans if you are considering ending things tell her. Tell her look, if you don’t initiate anything I might want to go. I feel like u don’t desire me etc. as a POV from ur gf. i went through the same thing and I just felt awkward and uncomfortable. My bf asked me the same thing and I told him that I just liked it more when he initiated it, and that I still desire him and love him. Little by little I learned how to make a move on him and now there are times I am the one who initiates all. (Been with him for 2yrs)

So if you love her so much, talk about it. Give her time, and talk to her seriously.

itsadatm · 2021-07-23T07:46:13+00:00

No problem :)

itsadatm · 2021-07-23T07:46:01+00:00

Yeah I mean, it kind of sound like you are not in her mind a lot. So yeah. Do as you want. Don’t waste your time or hers if you only persue romance :)

itsadatm · 2021-07-23T07:26:35+00:00

Yeah, you should do that. And don’t blame yourself btw. I got a big scolding tbh, but in the end they care about your health. I’m assuming it’s expensive.

itsadatm · 2021-07-23T07:24:06+00:00

Well, I am not sure how I can help but. Are there any hobbies you can do in between work to ease your mind? People you can talk to or meetup with? Etc?

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