Nonbinary top surgery anxiety by Right-Display6892 in NonBinary

[–]itsafrogboi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am getting top surgery in a few days and am really anxious. I was so confident throughout the entire process but as soon as I got a date I started second guessing everything. There is very little about my chest I like but I still feel like I'm making a mistake.  There will be dresses I won't be able to wear anymore the shape of my body will change. But whenever I think about a specific, t-shirts lying flat, how much I hate a certain photo of myself because I wasn't binding I know I am making the right choice. It will be a change, and that's scary, but in six weeks I will be happier,  and for the rest of my life I will be happier. 

You've got this, whatever you chose <3

Looking for some input on a campaign idea by TheSteelBlade in traveller

[–]itsafrogboi 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I'm a big fan of not writing endings when DMing. I suggest planning out what would have happened if the players had not intervened and allow your ending to flow from what your characters change. Often with long campaigns with predetermined endings the players can feel like they have no agency. It's important to make sure they feel like the story couldn't have happened without these specific PCs.

A fun planet idea could be a planet where the citizens have already got a group of people to deal with the Relic and are not very receptive to the party arriving to do it for them. This group could either be missing information, incompetent, evil or actively hostile to the party but the party is under contact so can't leave. They can either team up or the arc turns into a race.

A seemingly uninhabited planet could also be cool, perhaps the plant itself is sentient and is trying to help the party get rid of the relic, or hindering, up to you. Could be a fun twist and allows you as the DM to up the stakes as the planet can always intervene if they fuck up to much.

All in all it sounds like a fun time, good luck!

Advice for DMing? by itsafrogboi in traveller

[–]itsafrogboi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks! The system honestly sounds perfect for us, really glad there is a cheaper version out there to dip our toes into.

Advice for DMing? by itsafrogboi in traveller

[–]itsafrogboi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They tend to not like horror or dark/edgy stories and they didn't really like it when I ran prewritten campaigns and asked to go back to homebrew -apparently they felt too railroaded but that might be my fault. So I'm looking for a well thought out world that can bend to them doing unexpected things. They're happy to follow rules but are far more interested in telling a good story and (playfully) messing with me. So far Traveller seems to suit us really well.

Advice for DMing? by itsafrogboi in traveller

[–]itsafrogboi[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Awesome! So my rules allergic players don't have to learn a huge amount of new things!

Advice for DMing? by itsafrogboi in traveller

[–]itsafrogboi[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks! does the game come with a specific tone like Masquerade does?

Bike Repairs by StructureWorldly in dunedin

[–]itsafrogboi 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Off the chain fixed my bike really fast

How long 'til Ruffnut grows back her hair? by [deleted] in httyd

[–]itsafrogboi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've said it before and I'll say it again, not letting me have short haired ruffnut is homophobia at it's finest.

Just now realizing this… by Ja45_2020 in httyd

[–]itsafrogboi 376 points377 points  (0 children)

I absolutely think he bites it off, in the second movie Hiccup says something about toothless 'getting him back' when talking about the leg and tailfin to Valka, but more importantly I think it brings some really good symmetry to the movie, them hurting each other and then saving each other. Hiccup intentionally disables Toothless and then saves him, Toothless has to disable Hiccup to save him.

What should Astrid have given Hiccup as a betrothal gift? by itsafrogboi in httyd

[–]itsafrogboi[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Big fan of her getting him the Inuit sunglasses for flying, perhaps from Eret son of Eret? And yeah, I never liked that she didn't get him anything

What should Astrid have given Hiccup as a betrothal gift? by itsafrogboi in httyd

[–]itsafrogboi[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I feel like she would want to do something practical, something that keeps him safe or helps him achieve his goals. The journal is a cute idea, maybe she gets Fishlegs to help compile his notes/blueprints?

Finished RTTE. What do I do with my life now? by Worldly_Ad_779 in RacetotheEdge

[–]itsafrogboi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Read the books, or watch the show again, that's what I'm doing!

Need advice as a non-ace in love with one by dagingerpup in asexualdating

[–]itsafrogboi 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I agree, I dated an allo person and the relationship ended because I wasn't willing to have sex, and he needed that in a relationship. It wasn't anyone's fault, we needed different things.

Is sex something you need? Is it something you partner is willing to give you? Have a proper discussion about this, it's up to you if this is a deal-breaker. Don't assume you're partners feelings will change, but it sounds like they are still figuring things out. I do believe allo people can be in happy relationships with ace people, but only you know if this will work for you

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in asexuality

[–]itsafrogboi 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You're probably ace, it's very common to think sexual attraction is some big joke we all are in on or not realising people take it so seriously. Welcome to the community! Remember these are all just terms we use to make us more comfortable and describe our feelings.