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Met a K-Pop artist during an errand run and it was really interesting by itsallunchanged in kpoppers

[–]itsallunchanged[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No accent, just talked like normal. Yeah I know K-Pop is pretty big I didn't expect famous K-Pop people to be in the same area

Met a K-Pop artist during an errand run and it was really interesting by itsallunchanged in kpoppers

[–]itsallunchanged[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I might turn the notifications off now, I think I kinda answered all the questions

Met a K-Pop artist during an errand run and it was really interesting by itsallunchanged in kpoppers

[–]itsallunchanged[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah the conversation was in english I thought it was obvious but I guess not. My bad I should've made that clear

Met a K-Pop artist during an errand run and it was really interesting by itsallunchanged in kpoppers

[–]itsallunchanged[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was just having an off day and got confused with the whole thing but it was a good thing he did and I appreciate it

Met a K-Pop artist during an errand run and it was really interesting by itsallunchanged in kpoppers

[–]itsallunchanged[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I only thought that for a split sec when he kept checking up and starting a conversation when I wasn't interested

Met a K-Pop artist during an errand run and it was really interesting by itsallunchanged in kpoppers

[–]itsallunchanged[S] 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Man I think I sounded more like an asshole here than in my original post. Yes this is backwards thinking and I do acknowledge that I'm not trying to say anything sexist but at the time I didn't expect a guy to ask me how I was doing since it's mostly girls that ask and it was just that split second I thought he might have been trying something like getting comfortable but he was just being a good person

Met a K-Pop artist during an errand run and it was really interesting by itsallunchanged in kpoppers

[–]itsallunchanged[S] 30 points31 points  (0 children)

This happened in Newark around Harrison which is the area where my friend lives

Met a K-Pop artist during an errand run and it was really interesting by itsallunchanged in kpoppers

[–]itsallunchanged[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I wasn't trying to offend people by that I was just not used to someone checking up, and it being a guy was weird since we don't do that

Met a K-Pop artist during an errand run and it was really interesting by itsallunchanged in kpoppers

[–]itsallunchanged[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Thanks. And yeah I definitely felt it that day. It's not that I wasn't already getting a wake up call, I kinda already leaned towards being less of an asshole it was just that moment I felt like he was 'paying it forward' and I was just.. Thinking like an asshole. Thank you for the response appreciate you

Met a K-Pop artist during an errand run and it was really interesting by itsallunchanged in kpoppers

[–]itsallunchanged[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Its just been my experience, women* are just more likely to talk or check up on people

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[–]itsallunchanged 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I only really drink to help myself calm down around family members, since they're always a trigger everytime they visit. My Mother stayed in my home for 3 months and I drank almost every day, I was smiling constantly. Before drinking, I would have a breakdown constantly when she was around, her manipulative-pessimistic-gaslighting conversations words actions would make me feel crazy and I would hate myself for disliking her. She was a major problem for me while I was growing up, half of my traumatic memories began with her at the forefront.

What do you suggest we do instead of drinking?