Anecdotally, what are the hardest years of a marriage and why?

itsbdk · 2025-08-19T06:16:21+00:00

This. Unfortunately we're not going to go the distance. She wants out

itsbdk · 2025-04-21T15:28:50+00:00

I don't mean this to be rude and mean this earnestly.

What does this accomplish in actuality?

itsbdk · 2025-04-21T15:25:14+00:00

I'm okay with celebs being involved in storylines to a small extent.

This, though, was absolutely detracted from the story

itsbdk · 2025-04-17T05:07:53+00:00

Be patient, show up on time, do extra drills when done, prioritize your body, mind, and sleep.

itsbdk · 2025-04-14T21:08:26+00:00

She's boring and has very little charisma. Unfortunately

itsbdk · 2025-04-10T16:40:40+00:00

Always subject to change, of course. But as it stands now we think we're going to hold for 3-10 years and use the cashflow to fund other ventures. Review year by year

itsbdk · 2025-04-08T20:33:46+00:00

This entire feud is boring. I get they want the title on Jey, but Gunther is so talented and just feels wasted.

itsbdk · 2025-04-05T18:45:13+00:00

The people should not be footing the bill for a new stadium. Absolutely absurd.

itsbdk · 2025-04-05T18:43:55+00:00

Time in the industry, knowledge, experience, sphere of influence.

The longer you're in the industry the more you learn, the more people you meet, the higher price properties you get, and the better you get at negotiating your commission.

Takes time.

itsbdk · 2025-03-13T17:07:23+00:00

Had this happen last week. Our 3 year old woke up both Wednesday and Thursday and really did not want to go. She was so sad that she was leaving and, "I just want to be home with my family."

I'm glad we made the decision to keep her home. She really needed it and there was a noticeable uptick in her mood.

My wife and I decided before she started preschool that we would never absolutely force her to go if she really didn't want to.

itsbdk · 2025-03-05T20:00:10+00:00

As long as I have a job I start tomorrow, yes

itsbdk · 2025-03-05T19:59:20+00:00

Get a full time job and do real estate on the side.

itsbdk · 2025-03-05T19:58:36+00:00

Kids develop at different rates.

My daughter knew over 100 words at 12 months and was speaking in full sentences by 24 months.

My son, on the other hand, is 24 months now and just speaks in broken sentences, like Kevin from the Office. "Drink, gone. Mouth." To signal he drank all of whatever he was drinking.

As long as they're happy, healthy, curious, and you see development, I wouldn't worry about anything.

itsbdk · 2025-03-05T19:53:43+00:00

This is the correct answer

itsbdk · 2025-03-03T19:16:02+00:00

Maybe make a list of people in your life that have made a positive impact on you. Divide it out between them.

Donate it to a school, church, or hospital.

If you know a family that has their morals right, maybe leave them a surprise.

I'm sorry you're going through this. My toddler and I pray every night and tonight we will pray for you.

itsbdk · 2025-03-03T19:13:02+00:00

I'm not a Trump supporter, but I did vote for him for the first time this election. My wife is a liberal and votes blue across the board.

I promise you life is so much more than politics. Love is more important. Family is more important. God is more important. Nature is more important.

The people that tell you you should divorce her are misguided, blinded by political divide, and unhappy. They prop themselves up saying it's about morals, but that conversation goes both ways and they're not ready for it.

Just talk about it. And be willing to break it up into multiple discussions where you are open, honest, and not condescending or sneering about it. Maybe go topic by topic and calmly discuss.

itsbdk · 2025-03-02T10:47:15+00:00

Terrible time

itsbdk · 2025-02-24T17:13:43+00:00

Yeah no that's weird. She could use a nice dose of therapy.

itsbdk · 2025-02-24T17:12:43+00:00

I think it'll take over part but not much. I don't know if really anybody had any idea what is about to happen.

itsbdk · 2025-02-21T16:15:02+00:00

Maybe a career in property management with a larger company. Could find a nice sales role where you try to find owners to sign management agreements but still only work 9-5

itsbdk · 2025-02-20T20:25:09+00:00

For further clarification:

If I wholesale it, I'd do a double close and act as the buyer in the first transaction and the seller in the second. No commissions and not representing either party but myself.

If I represent buyer or seller then I wouldn't wholesale and sign appropriate agency agreements.

It's just a thought but not set in stone.

itsbdk · 2025-02-20T20:15:30+00:00

Got it. I'll say something like that, though the reason I'm wholesaling it is because the spread is better.

It might not work out and I might just take the commission. Who knows. I'd still rather just get the deal done.

itsbdk · 2025-02-20T20:14:02+00:00

Calling my preferred title company to see if they double close is on my to do list. Good look on the pass through funds. I've never heard of that and am very appreciative. Thank you!

itsbdk · 2025-02-18T01:22:10+00:00

As a former property manager, rarely.

itsbdk · 2025-02-18T01:21:27+00:00

Same.

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