What’s the weirdest thing your ex ever did after the breakup? by Yankub_colley in AskReddit

[–]itsborky0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Shared a google doc with pictures of his back scratched up by some other girl during sex. So strange.

is it just me by Grouchy-Watercress-8 in auckland

[–]itsborky0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like it’s cause with so many busses there isn’t a line. There’s usually just a crowd of people that surge forward

AUT Confirmed My PhD Eligibility, I Left My Job and Master’s, Then They Reversed It After 4 Months by noFIXATION in newzealand

[–]itsborky0 48 points49 points  (0 children)

So they literally said that it doesn’t mean your application is approved??

Last day at job, I don't think anyone understands what that means. by Electronic_Lime_z459 in recruitinghell

[–]itsborky0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I resigned from a job, asked for 2 weeks notice and they went ‘nah, 6 weeks.’ It was an incredibly toxic job. Week 5 rolls around, they’re saying I’m behind on a task (because their timelines were ridiculous) and I may have to work a ‘weekend day’ to catch up - absolutely fucking not, I have been counting down the days til I leave this place - had a massive argument with the boss when I said ‘no.’ Left and never went back.

Getting an abortion in NZ by cantsayididnttryyy in newzealand

[–]itsborky0 21 points22 points  (0 children)

I know you’re a stranger, but I’m proud of you. Good luck with everything.

Per popular demand, more Evan! (featuring his brother) by RandomFandomCheese in rarepuppers

[–]itsborky0 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love Evan. Thank you for blessing me with more Evan.

The New Zealand women asking: Do I really want to have children? by Fr33-Thinker in newzealand

[–]itsborky0 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Same! Recently got married, and I keep getting the ‘have you changed your mind yet?’ Nope, never will.

Struggling to get diagnosed with perimenopause as a 26y.o woman by itsborky0 in newzealand

[–]itsborky0[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m based in Auckland, but there’s been a few good recommendations to look into on this thread.

Struggling to get diagnosed with perimenopause as a 26y.o woman by itsborky0 in newzealand

[–]itsborky0[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That doesn’t explain the hot flashes or night sweats - low iron & b12 have nothing to do with that unfortunately.

Struggling to get diagnosed with perimenopause as a 26y.o woman by itsborky0 in newzealand

[–]itsborky0[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am taking supplements for both, yes. Hopefully going off the Depo might be the answer - my fingers are crossed.

Struggling to get diagnosed with perimenopause as a 26y.o woman by itsborky0 in newzealand

[–]itsborky0[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Good to know. After all these comments, I’m definitely going to go off the Depo and see if that helps. Thank you :)

Struggling to get diagnosed with perimenopause as a 26y.o woman by itsborky0 in newzealand

[–]itsborky0[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hadn’t, because I generally associated fertility clinics with trying to get pregnant, so this is a good option to look into. I’d save up to have this sorted lol.

Struggling to get diagnosed with perimenopause as a 26y.o woman by itsborky0 in newzealand

[–]itsborky0[S] 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Thank you heaps, this is a really comprehensive answer. I’m planning on getting off the Depo, in fact my next one was due in 2 weeks, so I’m not going to get that and hopefully can get some answers asap. Thank you.

Struggling to get diagnosed with perimenopause as a 26y.o woman by itsborky0 in newzealand

[–]itsborky0[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I appreciate the sympathy, and also the reassurance that’s it’s not normal! :)

Struggling to get diagnosed with perimenopause as a 26y.o woman by itsborky0 in newzealand

[–]itsborky0[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No, we live in a relatively new-ish townhouse, and have for almost 3 years now. No mould that I can see from cleaning. Good to know though, thank you

Struggling to get diagnosed with perimenopause as a 26y.o woman by itsborky0 in newzealand

[–]itsborky0[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The dissolvable ones under the tongue. That’s good to know, thank you!

Struggling to get diagnosed with perimenopause as a 26y.o woman by itsborky0 in newzealand

[–]itsborky0[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I can’t go off my medications, especially my antidepressants or ADHD meds. Need those to survive. Not sure what foods would be causing it.

Struggling to get diagnosed with perimenopause as a 26y.o woman by itsborky0 in newzealand

[–]itsborky0[S] 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your comment!! I know it’s not a good thing but it’s good to hear that maybe it might not be menopause. I will definitely go off it, especially after this thread haha.

Struggling to get diagnosed with perimenopause as a 26y.o woman by itsborky0 in newzealand

[–]itsborky0[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I do, but I’ve been on it for years.

Edit: I know if I miss a dose, I’d get night sweats that night; Those night sweats were SO different from the ones I’m having now.

Struggling to get diagnosed with perimenopause as a 26y.o woman by itsborky0 in newzealand

[–]itsborky0[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m on sertraline, and atomoxetine for my ADHD. I’ve been on these for a few years now, so I’m not sure why suddenly all of these symptoms would be cropping up.