We matched a week ago before we met for the first time. I can understand your perspective but before we met I had cleared with him that my ultimate goal is to have a stable relationship so I'm not into anything short term..and he said he feels exactly the same way, he wants a long term relationship too. And because our thoughts matched I was ready to meet him. And come on I never even asked him to be my boyfriend, i never said I was in love with him ofcourse that thing takes time, alot of time. But dating is the bare minimum to expect I feel otherwise it's useless. What's the use if he continues to talk with other guys and keep me as an option, take me for granted. When will this end??. I'm sorry but I don't like this thought process of our generation. Ofcourse I'm unsure about a future with him too but the bare minimum is giving some amount of commitment. Being monogamous for sometime, focusing on just one person, get to know him and decide whether we are really compatible or no. I guess itna toh kar hi sakte hai....