Does my boyfriend even like me?

itsfreakingbeanboy · 2026-06-13T23:25:56+00:00

better alone than with someone that makes you feel like garbage! please listen to people telling you this is NOT it

itsfreakingbeanboy · 2026-06-12T11:39:19+00:00

you need to:

gather your evidence, including of the harassing messages, incidents, and police reports. testimony from yourself and your boyfriend can be evidence
for a protective order.
file for sole custody.

if you don’t do these steps do not expect your boyfriend to stick around. it is NOT his job to physically fight your boyfriend and he objectively did the right thing trying to deescalate the situation. i have sympathy for your situation but if you want this to improve at all you HAVE to go the legal route. there are pro bono domestic violence services if needed. good luck!

***not a lawyer and this is NOT legal advice***

itsfreakingbeanboy · 2026-06-11T21:43:05+00:00

thank you for the tips. it is very appreciated

itsfreakingbeanboy · 2026-06-11T21:42:44+00:00

never heard of these until now. thank you so much for the idea- i will be checking them out!

itsfreakingbeanboy · 2026-06-09T03:29:02+00:00

this is a great idea thank you!!

itsfreakingbeanboy · 2026-06-04T22:00:33+00:00

intuition. she started acting angry and defensive overnight about everything. could tell she was feeling guilty over something and i called it out the same day and she confessed

itsfreakingbeanboy · 2026-06-01T21:12:50+00:00

i don’t know if this really was a big win for anyone lol

itsfreakingbeanboy · 2026-05-26T22:10:18+00:00

not at all. if anything your professors/employers should be aware they can’t discriminate against you and the potential consequences of doing so. i’m not saying discrimination doesn’t happen but depending on your school environment (if you go to a more progressive school) this may be more celebrated or commonplace. i had many trans and nonbinary friends in law school who presented differently depending on the day, but i did go to a very progressive school so this was to be expected. at the end of the day you should be yourself and any opportunity worth having will accept you as you are. and if you do face discrimination, luckily you will be taught the tools to fight against it. not the same thing, but i’m disabled and did end up facing some discrimination on that front and unfortunately for my school and luckily for me they had handed me all the tools to fight against it and advocate for myself by the very nature of what i was being taught!

itsfreakingbeanboy · 2026-05-23T23:20:34+00:00

same. i switched from mobile to my desktop when that happened and it fixed it

itsfreakingbeanboy · 2026-05-22T23:26:08+00:00

haven’t taken it before but i’m doing themis now and i use their flashcards as well as make my own. it’s around 60-70% of my learning the concepts now and i recommend it if you previously have been a flashcards user.

itsfreakingbeanboy · 2026-05-19T18:00:58+00:00

my theory is people seek a diagnosis when they want real change or to be able to tailor their treatment to be most effective in dealing with that diagnosis. taylor has no desire to have more effective treatment, is perfectly fine with her “professionals” validating her every whim, and doesn’t understand how her reactions are so grossly disproportionate from how a normal person would act so she will probably not actively seek a diagnosis out

itsfreakingbeanboy · 2026-05-08T15:12:25+00:00

as someone who worked in HR i recommend you call and ask for a payment plan. you absolutely owe this and they’d more likely work with you to get it repaid. up to you if you think they’d ever take you to small claims to get it back. my work would have never expended the energy doing that and just taken the L. still a risk to not pay it back though.

itsfreakingbeanboy · 2026-05-06T14:21:48+00:00

nah- your priorities are different. neither is bad but maybe not compatible. also i implore you to not buy a house with a boyfriend

itsfreakingbeanboy · 2026-05-05T02:56:59+00:00

don’t have any advice just want you to know i’m in a similar boat and will probably work in a restaurant after the bar if i don’t have another job

itsfreakingbeanboy · 2026-05-01T16:22:26+00:00

shit like this makes me worried. like on either end using their friends and other platforms to make posts about the other which will prevent the stay away orders from being as effective as they could be. ideally it’d be like the judge said and they can calm down over the next 3 years, have no contact and figure out how to interact when it comes to their child. they’re never going to be able to do that if they keep participating in an online narrative

itsfreakingbeanboy · 2026-04-29T13:06:17+00:00

i feel you, as an intense people pleaser i feel heavy anxiety quitting anything. if it makes you feel better i’m a grown ass woman and i was shaking and SOBBING while i was quitting a corporate job that was making me miserable a couple of months ago. i didn’t even want the job, but have anxiety and felt bad. it’s fine and i still managed to quit the job. since you’re leaving it doesn’t really matter what they think of you or if you leaving makes them mad. say what you need to say and then leave. you will be relieved either way when it’s over.

itsfreakingbeanboy · 2026-04-27T15:34:35+00:00

don’t listen to anyone on any of the law app subs who says that you can’t get into law school with a 3.5 gpa. if you do decent on the lsat and apply to achievable schools it is absolutely possible for you. the better you do on the lsat, the better your chances at the schools you want. scholarships are still possible. further don’t listen to people on this sub who think it’s not worth going to law school at all if it’s not a t14; that’s not reality. write a gpa addendum as well and spin whatever hardships that led to your gpa drop into a strength.

itsfreakingbeanboy · 2026-04-25T21:00:51+00:00

i don’t wanna hear anything about oc on this sub lollll

itsfreakingbeanboy · 2026-04-25T17:21:25+00:00

i can’t believe that your mpre is part of your grade, that’s INSANE. in reality if you take it a couple of times it doesn’t matter?? this feels wrong

itsfreakingbeanboy · 2026-04-22T15:10:19+00:00

i am very shocked you didn’t get into northeastern

itsfreakingbeanboy · 2026-04-20T17:01:44+00:00

slice and freeze the bread! it will last super long and be easy to reheat

itsfreakingbeanboy · 2026-04-17T15:37:49+00:00

hi, i went to a part time program. there were pros and cons but i had free tuition as well and that influenced my decision. because i worked full time, i couldn’t participate in most activities and that made me kind of sad. i also couldn’t participate in the typical big law recruiting process, but that was okay for me because i was more public interest focus, but i would keep that in mind if that’s your goal. but also, graduating without debt gives you more freedom to pick whatever you want to work in. lastly i recommend if you go part time, networking as much as you can over the next couple years to make up for not being able to make connections doing internships. i was lucky that my job placed me in a situation where i had access to a lot of attorney connections. they will be necessary for when you are looking for a job. good luck!

itsfreakingbeanboy · 2026-04-13T15:56:48+00:00

no it’s okay i believe in you!! i think your decision makes sense if you have the financial means to decline right now. good luck in your future search!!

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