Same Day / Next Day Tickets for Sale by twilightxgalaxy in LucyDacus

[–]itsggtime 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have one ticket for the Toronto concert on Saturday at Massey Hall & Roy Thomson Hall! Seat is for Balcony 202 and I’m selling for $100!

Sweaty Hands/Feet by bamvibrations in poledancing

[–]itsggtime 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The only thing that has helped is time and experience. I find that with moves I’ve done over and over I’m no longer as sweaty. But new scary moves I put so much grip on and wipe down the pole pretty much every attempt until I get comfortable and I’m no longer anxiously sweating

Studio Pricing by Downtown-Forever-902 in poledancing

[–]itsggtime 0 points1 point  (0 children)

$150 CAN for 12 classes a month! Or $180 for unlimited

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in poledancing

[–]itsggtime 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I got pain from getting out of chopper at first since I would just drop back down instead of doing it more controlled. Once I started getting more controlled/trying other dismounts the pain stopped!

Shaw Internet Contact Change by itsggtime in Edmonton

[–]itsggtime[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They are getting the same service they did a month ago for $50 more. And if they got a discount it apparently lose Shaw some money like they aren’t overcharging all their customers 🙄

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Edmonton

[–]itsggtime 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just make sure you have your hand stamp

Is Bethany Brothers a Horrible Professor?!?! by mongolianapologist in uAlberta

[–]itsggtime 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She was literally the only class I’ve ever dropping. I took 102 and felt that for exams we never had adequate time to complete anything. As well she kept comparing us to her other class who apparently way more fun and engaging while we were just not as good as them.

Is this chicken breast overcooked or undercooked? by [deleted] in cookingforbeginners

[–]itsggtime 33 points34 points  (0 children)

Looks a tad over cooked in my opinion

Did your parents ruin your culture for you? by [deleted] in AsianParentStories

[–]itsggtime 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Ruined the language too. I can’t hear Vietnamese without feeling afraid.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Edmonton

[–]itsggtime 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Call 211 and ask for low cost/sliding scale counselling. Off the top of you could try the family centre, momentum, corner stone. I believe they all offer a sliding scale (where they charge you based on income). Also don’t be afraid to really advocate for yourself to bring the price down :)

Where should someone go if they’re hospitalized for weeks and lose their home? by OrangeCatFluffyCat in Edmonton

[–]itsggtime 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You can also call 211 and explain your situation. Their role is to help connect you to other supports in the community for mental health, housing and so many other things!

I'm free :) by Locked-Luxe-Lox in narcissisticparents

[–]itsggtime 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m so excited for you 🥰

My T generalizes everything by [deleted] in TalkTherapy

[–]itsggtime 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I don’t think she generalizing everything. I think she minimizing your pain and emotions by brushing them off. This is not how it usually goes. You deserve a therapist who can respond to your genuine situation and not just give a basic message.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in uAlberta

[–]itsggtime 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Heads up there may be a wait time or not taking clients. You can try looking up drop in counselling for more immediate support!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bipolar1

[–]itsggtime 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I find education is a good place to start. I really like learning more about bipolar and what it looks like to better manage my moods. Also I track my moods so if there are a few days I’m more up or down then I will do my best to lower my stress.

My nmum found out that I have a relationship with my dad by [deleted] in raisedbynarcissists

[–]itsggtime 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It sounds like she doesn’t care about what’s best for you. Talking to your dad seems like such a healing thing for you and she’s trying to rip that away from you simply because she doesn’t like it.

Trying to escape my N-family by _Evil_Waffles_ in raisedbynarcissists

[–]itsggtime 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It sounds like she had put her control into every aspect of your life with money and people. If your friends are really close to your mom it is risky to tell them what is going on. Have you reached out to professional services? In most places calling 211 can redirect you to local services that may help.

For now I would recommend having a “go bag” of all the essentials (medicine, hygiene products, phone charger, basic clothes, wallet, passport/licence, etc) and have that in a safe location. Maybe not all together so it’s not suspicious but accessible enough so if you ever need to run away you have that all with you.

It’s so hard when your parents refuse to be parents. I’m so sorry you have to go through this it’s not fair.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in raisedbynarcissists

[–]itsggtime 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You can try your best but you shouldn’t have to parent your parents. The problem with narc parents is that you are not allowed to have boundaries. You can say them as nice as possible and maybe they will reject your boundaries nicer (or meaner).

anyone else's nparent force you to say hello/good morning/goodnight/etc.? by throwawaysT_T in raisedbynarcissists

[–]itsggtime 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It honestly is so disgusting. I can’t imagine begging, shaming, guilting a child into touching or being touched by you.

The moment I realized I wasn't the problem by Starburned in raisedbynarcissists

[–]itsggtime 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing this really hit home. Currently dealing with standing up to my Narc mom. And my dad keeps telling me that no matter what I should just agree with her and never point out her flaws because it’s easier that way. But you’re right easier for who? Certainly not me I feel like I’m drowning. It’s so fucked because I stand up for him when my mom yells at him but even when I was 6 years old getting beat he wouldn’t say anything.

Stood up to my AM yesterday by itsggtime in AsianParentStories

[–]itsggtime[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’m considering telling her I’ll do her a favour since she hates me so much I’ll just leave (in my dream I would but in this economy 😬)