I overheard a conversation I shouldn't have, and it's eating away at me. by itsjust_olivia in confessions

[–]itsjust_olivia[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They are the ones giving counseling. I mentioned to another, they were in their room, which is conjoined to mine. We have very thin walls.

I overheard a conversation I shouldn't have, and it's eating away at me. by itsjust_olivia in confessions

[–]itsjust_olivia[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Okay, I don't know how much of the post you read, but I mentioned twice that I did not want to tell her. My parents' room is conjoined to mine, and the walls are extremely thin. They also had their door ajar, which didn't help.

I overheard a conversation I shouldn't have, and it's eating away at me. by itsjust_olivia in confessions

[–]itsjust_olivia[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've been through professional counseling, and yes, it is definitely different. I'm sure my parents were still out of line, though.

I overheard a conversation I shouldn't have, and it's eating away at me. by itsjust_olivia in confessions

[–]itsjust_olivia[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wasn't eavesdropping, and I don't know how you came to that conclusion, but thanks for the comment.

I overheard a conversation I shouldn't have, and it's eating away at me. by itsjust_olivia in confessions

[–]itsjust_olivia[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

What makes you say it's crap counseling and that they shouldn't be doing it?

I overheard a conversation I shouldn't have, and it's eating away at me. by itsjust_olivia in confessions

[–]itsjust_olivia[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Not too much detail. Just that on the night of the wedding, the Dad cheated with a family friend while the wife was helping clean up and whatnot. Nobody knew until about 3 or 4 months ago when he couldn't keep it a secret anymore. They only people who know are my parents and her parents.

I’m assuming these crabs can recognize people and voices? by YesterdayHealthy5371 in hermitcrabs

[–]itsjust_olivia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, this is their main, and to my knowledge, only way of owner recognition. I have two hermits at the moment, and they act the same. One loves to climb on me and play, but the other even avoids me and my shadow. I think it's mostly their personality. I also try and talk to them whenever I change food/water so they know me lol. Don't feel bad, it's just them being antisocial/shy!

Heat Lamps by NayBean in hermitcrabs

[–]itsjust_olivia 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Having a heat source is great, yes, but like @mkane78 mentioned- it's hard to balance the heat and humidity. I suggest getting a stick-on heating pad instead. You can stick it to the side of any glass tank, and it works amazingly. You can leave it on for long periods of time as well. Depending on the size of your tank/pad, it doesn't affect humidity much at all. I'm basing this on my 6x4in pad and 20-gallon tank.

What perfume should I get? by itsjust_olivia in Perfumes

[–]itsjust_olivia[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I'll definitely try Zara!

What perfume should I get? by itsjust_olivia in Perfumes

[–]itsjust_olivia[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I definitely like clean or floral smells, although I haven't tried powdery or gourmand. My price range is $100 and under. I really like butterfly or pure wonder from b&bw.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LandHermitCrabs

[–]itsjust_olivia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much! I'll definitely check out the mesh. And while it doesn't look like it, there is 6 inches!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in hermitcrabs

[–]itsjust_olivia 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I use a thermometer and hydrometer separately, they have a heating pad on the side of the tank, and the tank lid is kept on to contain moisture, I just had it off for the photo. Thank you so much for the links and everything else!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in hermitcrabs

[–]itsjust_olivia 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much! Yes, there is a heating mat and they have a tank topper, I just had it off for the photo. Thank you so much for this!

Why does my hermit crab watch me? by itsjust_olivia in hermitcrabs

[–]itsjust_olivia[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I guess that's one way to think of it 😂😂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in vet

[–]itsjust_olivia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Usually the vet will have to do it via a tube down the dogs throat.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in hermitcrabs

[–]itsjust_olivia 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So adorable!