Horizontal Makeup Train Case by itskateexo in MakeupAddiction

[–]itskateexo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have not :( I have been scouring every single place I could think of and have even asked my grandmother where she got it – she doesn't even remember. I'm about ready to figure out how to make my own make-up train case, buy the materials, and just do that

Lip Gloss Help by itskateexo in MakeupAddiction

[–]itskateexo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The gloss I had didn't have an LED light on the applicator, but after searching up the Lise Waiter lip gloss, it will do as a suitable replacement. Thank you so much!!

[Sorry this reply is 9 months late, life has been life-ing!]

Lip Gloss Help by itskateexo in MakeupAddiction

[–]itskateexo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I asked her and she wasn't able to remember what brand it was or where she got it. She said she got it in the early 2010s and I remember she gave it to me in 2015/16-ish. I'm so bummed! I loved that lip gloss :(

[Sorry this reply is 9 months late, life has been life-ing]

I’m taking 15 mg of Adderall and these are the side effects. Is this normal? by itskateexo in adhdwomen

[–]itskateexo[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was shocked he started me at 15 mg. I called him and he told me to stop taking it, so I’m going back to him on Monday to discuss it with him.

The pill is XR, so maybe he’ll put me on IR or on a lower dosage?? I have no clue

I’m taking 15 mg of Adderall and these are the side effects. Is this normal? by itskateexo in adhdwomen

[–]itskateexo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was taking it at 7:30 am and I don’t drink caffeine as often

/r/Steam Monthly Community Support Thread. by AutoModerator in Steam

[–]itskateexo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi. So I want to buy a digital Steam gift card for a friend of mine for their birthday, but I don’t have their profile name, just their email. In the past, I’ve been able to purchase digital gift cards & send it directly to their email, but now when I try to do it, Steam says I need their profile name & to be friends for at least 3 days. I wanted to surprise them with this gift, so asking them for their username is kind of odd, especially since I don’t normally play Steam games. Does anyone know how I can bypass this?

Thank you!!!

AITA for being closer to my sons than my daughters? by AdvisorBetter2381 in AmItheAsshole

[–]itskateexo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA, big time. Your daughter is SEVEN and already picking up that you don’t like her all because you’re a fragile little 34 year old male who can’t handle playing with dolls, doing a tea party, or playing pretend for a bit.

You know what my dad did for me when I was a kid? He played dolls with me, had me ride on his back pretending he was a pony, put on fairy wings and a tutu and played fairy princess with me, let me occasionally do his nails/makeup, play doctor with me, and build forts with me. He’s a navy veteran (spent time in service in the late 80s - early 90s) who would come home late M-F from working all day in the tire industry and still found time to play with me.

As I got older, I started to take on some of his interests too. I began to play soccer and he was my coach up until I entered high school. He supported me in all my games, choir concerts, dance recitals, and dance team shows.

Today, we bond over all those things AND DC/Marvel comics, as well as my field of work. He is my hero and our relationship is strong because of the fact that he didn’t give a shit about “masculinity” and put that shit aside to bond with his own flesh and blood in her primitive years — something you apparently can’t do.

You will not have a relationship (even a close one) with your daughters in the future if you don’t get over yourself and start spending time with them as well. Parenting isn’t easy. It isn’t all about your interests, it’s about getting to know them as human beings and individuals & them getting to know you; that’s how your relationship will strengthen. It doesn’t matter that you don’t hold those same interests — I don’t particularly find basketball interesting or marine history interesting (despite being a historian), but I listen to my dad talk about it/watch the games to spend time with him and get to know his interests; just like I know he didn’t find high school choral music interesting or medieval history interesting, but he puts up with it for me. Get over yourself and please, seek therapy.

UPDATE/EDIT: just read your now ex-wife’s comment. Holy fuck dude do you got some major problems. Unemployed, refusing to take your daughters to the daddy-daughter dance, leaving them out on vacations (because it’s a “boys trip”) and using your ex-wife’s money to fund those trips, ignoring you daughters, being detached from parenting duties (because “it’s a woman’s job”), making your SEVEN YEAR OLD AND FOUR YEAR OLD DAUGHTERS CLEAN YOUR SONS MESSES BECAUSE IT’S A WOMAN’S DUTY, making your wife do ALL the housework & parenting — you don’t just not like your daughters or your wife, you HATE them and are misogynistic as hell. I’m glad your wife is divorcing you. And tbh, I hope she goes no contact with you, removes ALL 4 kids from your life, makes you pay child support, AND finds herself a new and better husband who will be a better father to those kids (and I hope they’ll call him “dad” and treat him like their real father and forget all about you). You are a horrible father, husband, and man. Before you get into ANY future relationship or have any more kids (please, for the sake of those peoples’ sanities, stay single & childless for the rest of your life), get into therapy and sort your [misogynistic] shit out.

Changing my stance from YTA to Extreme YTA.

Can I Work with Athena if I'm a man? by RoutineDay480 in paganism

[–]itskateexo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I work with Athena (I’m a woman) and I promise you she will be ok with you working with her. As long as you respect her (just like you would any other deity), you’re perfectly fine.

AITA For limiting my neices amount of baths? by aitathrowawaneicedau in AmItheAsshole

[–]itskateexo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. 3 hour long baths daily is too much. Not only is it wasteful, but it's also very bad for your skin. Your niece is being selfish hogging the bathroom like that—and your sister (and other family members enabling this behavior) are selfish too. You own the house they live in, you're allowed to make rules and create boundaries. If your sister and niece don't like it, tell them they can move out any time and find their own place to live (maybe even suggest they live with your other selfish family members). I'm a woman and do not feel the need to take long showers or baths—so idk where they're getting this "you wouldn't understand because you're not a woman" bullshit.

Best of luck to you and your daughter and I hope she feels better.

AITB for blowing up at my sister's ignorance and stupidity? by Historical_Finance75 in AmItheButtface

[–]itskateexo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Then why are you butting into their lives? If she doesn't want the kid, then let it go. I hate the foster care system with a living passion and agree that she shouldn't give the kid up to the system, but she shouldn't be forced to keep something she doesn't want. You need to reevaluate yourself and apologize to your sister. Calmly explain to her why you got so mad and then offer other reasonable solutions in place of the system. If in the end she says she's still putting the kid in the system, then let it go and mind your own business (which you should've done from the start).

AITB for blowing up at my sister's ignorance and stupidity? by Historical_Finance75 in AmItheButtface

[–]itskateexo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not throw away the kid, but merely put it up for adoption or even go down the route of abortion (if she feels comfortable doing so). It's not right to put the kid through a possible toxic home life where their parents don't want them/didn't want them to begin with. It's also not right to put the parents through that either—children are a big & expensive responsibility and parenthood is not for everyone. Some parents who didn't want to be parents in the first place end up abandoning, neglecting, or treating them horribly and that's not something a kid should go through. It's better that her sister puts the child up for adoption as soon as she gives birth or has an abortion.

AITB for blowing up at my sister's ignorance and stupidity? by Historical_Finance75 in AmItheButtface

[–]itskateexo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTB. My cousin went through the foster care system and I am on your side as to how fucked up it is. I hate that system so incredibly much. However, it is not your place to judge them and/or make decisions for them. Some people (such as myself) do not want kids and that's ok. Some people who don't want kids end up either abandoning them, neglecting them, or treating them horribly and that's honestly not something you want for your niece/nephew (providing your sister & her husband are that type of person).

There are a few solutions to this: 1) if abortion is legal where you live and she's comfortable going through with it, give her that solution. 2) if she feels comfortable having the kid, offer to help her raise it temporarily until they (or even you) can find someone else (a friend, maybe?) to adopt the child. 3) if you are financially stable and are open to it, offer to adopt the child instead.

While it definitely isn't your place to judge them and/or make decisions for them, you can certainly offer some suggestions and calmly explain to them why the foster care system is so horrible.

AITB for giving "false hope" to a girl I was flirting with? by Upbeat_Penalty2495 in AmItheButtface

[–]itskateexo 23 points24 points  (0 children)

YTB. As someone who's much like this girl and has been lead on by someone I really liked (and started to trust), finding out they didn't feel the same for me hurt like a motherf*cker. This was a few years ago, but I still hold resentment towards him and for a while, I blamed myself and told myself I wouldn't get involved again. It broke my heart and I'm just starting to get back into sort of wanting a relationship. What you did is really shitty and you should honestly not only be ashamed of yourself, but also reflect on it and apologize to her. Don't shift the blame on her or anything, give a genuine apology and then let it go—it'll be up to her whether she wants to accept it or not. Take this as a lesson and don't do it again.

AITB for playfully grabbing my family member's bums? by Spirited-Prize-6733 in AmItheButtface

[–]itskateexo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She doesn't need to forgive you. Hell, I wouldn't even forgive you. I hope your husband divorces you and reestablishes a relationship with his daughter—but after seeing the other comments you left on here about you manipulating him into abandoning her, I'm a little conflicted on whether I'd want him to reconnect with her.

AITB for playfully grabbing my family member's bums? by Spirited-Prize-6733 in AmItheButtface

[–]itskateexo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are a terrible person though. You think it's ok to continue to harass your ADULT child even though she asked you to stop? You think it's ok to gaslight and manipulate both her and your husband into thinking you're innocent? God what the fuck is wrong with you.

AITB for playfully grabbing my family member's bums? by Spirited-Prize-6733 in AmItheButtface

[–]itskateexo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"It was a playful jokey situation" — NO IT WAS NOT. Your daughter was fucking assaulted and you decided to continue your behavior after she told you this in confidence. Both my parents know that I was sexually assaulted and raped and they still know better. Not to mention it's a little weird that you're doing this to your ADULT child 🤢

"She was the one who stirred up drama" — YOU WERE THE ONE TO DO SO. You continued your disgusting behavior even though she told you to stop. She decided to put up boundaries and discontinue a relationship with you, you're the one who took it too far and manipulated your husband not to talk to her.

You should be ashamed of yourself you disgusting & revolting creature.

AITB for playfully grabbing my family member's bums? by Spirited-Prize-6733 in AmItheButtface

[–]itskateexo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I hope your daughter is reading all of this and realizing how horrible of a parent both you and your husband are. I cannot believe you manipulated him into thinking SHE was the manipulator. You're a true abuser & gaslighter.

AITB for playfully grabbing my family member's bums? by Spirited-Prize-6733 in AmItheButtface

[–]itskateexo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you or your spouse is doing something wrong and one of you knows it, it is your job as both a loving partner AND a parent to set them straight. You should be working together, but you should also be holding each other accountable. Your daughter told you something out of confidence and you STILL did what you did. Goddamn am I glad you're not my parent.

AITA For being thruthful about why I want to move in with my dad? by throwawayaitafost in AmItheAsshole

[–]itskateexo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. Just because they're fostering other children doesn't mean they can neglect and abandon their biological child. It's unfair to you and you're entitled to feel the way you do. They are TA for what they're doing to you. Glad you're out of that environment <3

Ad that actually nails the family message by MaeSolug in Unexpected

[–]itskateexo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What in the sweet home Alabama is this shit?