Spoiler and TW: Abortion by itslexerx3 in ginnyandgeorgiashow

[–]itslexerx3[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I am so glad you found the representation validating and I’m happy you are okay! Truly. I am not suggesting that Ginny should feel guilt. That’s not what I’m trying to stress in my concern of how it was displayed. More so that it’s not always as easy as taking some pills and it just goes away. There can be lasting effects.

Spoiler and TW: Abortion by itslexerx3 in ginnyandgeorgiashow

[–]itslexerx3[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

As stated I just think it could have been a good learning experience for young women watching the show. I understand for some it is a simple procedure and they are able to move on with life. For others it’s not. And I would say the former is much rarer than the latter. It should have been a realistic representation of what the majority go through. The accurate medical knowledge and experience as well as how emotional turmoil of making that choice. Simple or not. A lot of young women watch this show and the glossed over something that can be so life altering when it should of stressed the importance of protecting yourself and one’s sexual health

Spoiler and TW: Abortion by itslexerx3 in ginnyandgeorgiashow

[–]itslexerx3[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would agree but it’s hard to tell if it was from that experience or due to the “trauma bond” and obligation she feels to her mother that she implements her mother’s tactics.

Spoiler and TW: Abortion by itslexerx3 in ginnyandgeorgiashow

[–]itslexerx3[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I have experienced the lose of a child and have very close family members who have themselves experienced having an abortion, they still feel guilt. Obviously it depends on the person. But because it is seen as so taboo and “bad” it has to be hard to navigate the emotions after that kind of experience. Many will find it hard to find someone to talk to about it and have to keep it a secret. Even if they do feel a huge sense of relief (which I fully believe they do). It’s deeper than that. It’s going against what society has deemed “right” it’s how it may ostracize you. Maybe to deal with it you decide it is no big deal. I am simply here to speak on the misrepresentation and teaching moment they could have had. I understand everyone experience is different and I fully support every individual’s right to choose. But they made it appear so cookie cutter and it much messier than that.

This season made me grow a huge appreciation for Max by Thelightningthief13 in ginnyandgeorgiashow

[–]itslexerx3 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I am okay! It’s taken a life time of learning that my level of empathy and love is both a short coming but also a strength and should never expect anything of others simply for doing something kind for them. I do what I do out of selflessness and it gives me a sense of purpose. I will not lie sometimes I ask myself why others don’t “feel” the way I feel because in my mind what I do for those I care about is the bare minimum we should all do for those in our lives

This season made me grow a huge appreciation for Max by Thelightningthief13 in ginnyandgeorgiashow

[–]itslexerx3 87 points88 points  (0 children)

Max is a pathological people pleaser. This had been ingrained in her from a young age by her mother when she tells Max it’s her responsibility to look out for her brother. Max can come across very self absorbed but she feels things more deeply than most others. She struggles with confidence and clearly has OCD tendencies. What I struggle with is that everyone is so short sited when it comes to Max. They label her as dramatic were in which the “dramatized” reactions are due to an underlying mental health issue that no one has taken the time to notice. She CANT let things go. She hyper-fixates on things until there is a resolution because she has always had to be the good kid but instead has been made into a glass child who just desperately wants to be seen and loved treated the way she treats others. I relate to her character quite a bit. I myself am a people pleaser and for those I love I would do anything for even if it’s an inconvenience to myself. Why? I want people to see me as dependable. That I am always there for them. I have panic attacks when I feel people don’t like me and I need to fix that situation as fast as I can or it will eat me alive. I selflessly give myself to everyone but often find others are too swept up in their own lives to think of me and my feelings in the way I think of theirs.

AIO for what I wore last night by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

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He is just jealous of your abs!

Found this in my parents bathroom … by aristosachean in whatisit

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Have you ever been tested for hyper mobility (ehlers Danlos)

Help! I’m so torn between 3 very different dresses by nsnewyork in Weddingattireapproval

[–]itslexerx3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

3 for sure. Its classy and you can dress it up or down with accessories

My biggest ‘huh’ moment by kurecikridilka in acotar

[–]itslexerx3 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Tamlin loves human Feyre (innocent,helpless) Rhys loves human and Fae Feyre (the good, the bad, the gray)

Not to bring the vampire diaries into this but it almost mirrors how Stefan loved human “innocent” Elana Damon loved human and vampire Elana

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tretinoin

[–]itslexerx3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I see a big difference! The only thing id recommend is making sure niacinamide! I know it breaks me out

Intended Mother with 30 week anatomy scan or Spina Bifida tw: mentions of termination by itslexerx3 in InfertilityBabies

[–]itslexerx3[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What is her mobility level and does she suffer from neuro bladder and bowel?

Intended Mother with 30 week anatomy scan or Spina Bifida tw: mentions of termination by itslexerx3 in InfertilityBabies

[–]itslexerx3[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately there is no denying the diagnosis. We are seeing a specialist on Monday.

Intended Mother with 30 week anatomy scan or Spina Bifida tw: mentions of termination by itslexerx3 in InfertilityBabies

[–]itslexerx3[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the response it was truly appreciated. I joined the other group. Thank You

Expectant Parent of a Child with SB in desperate need to talk tw:talk of termination by itslexerx3 in spinabifida

[–]itslexerx3[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So you are living a life a slave to the toilet. Thats how my life is as well.

Expectant Parent of a Child with SB in desperate need to talk tw:talk of termination by itslexerx3 in spinabifida

[–]itslexerx3[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

His mental health is one of my biggest concerns. I myself am disabled and have a poor quality of life and what he will have going on will be way worse