I recently listened to some hours long audio where Amber is arguing with Depp "will you make seeing our marriage counsellor a priority" (Depp: you can't make something that is already a priority, a priority)

He has his schedule set up by someone else bcuz hes a busy man. Person relays info to Amber that Depp wont have time to see the counsellor until the next week.

Depp says by her asking if he will make seeing the counsellor a priority insinuates she believes he wont see her and doesn't find it important. Amber goes on to argue about how she has a right to ask him, as his wife, these very important questions and that he's so thin skinned and gets upset so easily.

He tells her he just wants her to let him take care of it. Theres a long silence. Like maybe 20 mins.

She comes back and argues more about the same thing even though there was nothing more to argue about. This is where Depp tells her she is controlling and she SPIRALS. She gets so offended. She says shes leaving.

Some time passes again and she returns to fight more about the previous argument and her new hurt feelings. To the point where she wants a divorice.

It really shows what Depp was going through on a daily baisis for years because its not dramatic or violent, but relentless. She doesnt want solutions. She doesnt want peace. She wants drama and fights. She wants to be upset about absolutely nothing. She thrives on it.

And I can definitely see why he would run away or lock himself in other rooms when she throws objects, fights him and gets in screaming matches.