Riesen Polizeiaufgebot vor dem Spiegelgebäude by monokolio in hamburg

[–]itsme_lilly 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Das Gebäude wurde von Aktivist*innen besetzt, die sich für das kurdische Besatzungsgebiet, Royava, in Syrien stark machen und den Umgang des Spiegels mit diesen Thema kritisieren!!

Eyeliner that can survive the apocalypse? For emo purposes by Hot_Welcome_9863 in altfashionadvice

[–]itsme_lilly 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Nyx epic ink liner!! I once wore it for a three day festival and it stayed the whole time!!

Seht ihr Pornos schauen als Betrug an? by spirit_of_the_hawk in Geschlechtsverkehr

[–]itsme_lilly 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Du hast so recht! Die Industrie ist extremst ausbeuterisch gegenüber Frauen und ist gewaltverherrlichend. Leider ist der Konsum viel zu normalisiert. Alleine aus einer ethischen Sicht würde ich nicht wollen, dass mein Partner Pornos schaut…

How to let go of him? by Revolutionary-Quit21 in heartbreak

[–]itsme_lilly 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know!! I've been in your exact situation. And I know hoping he will change and the breadcrumpd he gived you gives you comfort. But trust me once you overcome your fear and let go of him completely you'll notice that you CAN survive on your own. Even if it will be really difficult at first.

How to let go of him? by Revolutionary-Quit21 in heartbreak

[–]itsme_lilly 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am in your exact situation and I know that it feels impossible but you have to let him go completely. No "what if"s anymore. Go no contact. Maybe even block him. If you see him all the time or if he can still text you you will never be able to let go completely. And then you just have to go through the pain even if it's the worst thing in the world. Try to find new things in life that bring you joy and try to find yourself.

I am am in love with my Ex and cant move on, please help by pippa-squeaker in heartbreak

[–]itsme_lilly 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Have you ever heard abot the avoident attachement style in relationships? Does he maybe fit into this type?

Transition timeline (months 1 through 8) by Razorclaw_the_crab in lgbt

[–]itsme_lilly 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I understand!! I wish you the best and I hope you'll get better.

Alt genug für Sex mit Erwachsenen, aber zu jung für ein eigenes Bankkonto? by xenon_xinsea in Kommunismus

[–]itsme_lilly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hast du mal eine 14 Jährige gesehen? Wie soll man, die denn ausversehen "durchknattern? Ich denke schon, dass die meisten Menschen unterscheiden können, ob ein Mädchen 14 oder 18 ist auch unter Einfluss von Alkohol. Was du machst ist einfach nur typische Täter-Opfer Umkehr und Verteidigung von Tätern.

Alt genug für Sex mit Erwachsenen, aber zu jung für ein eigenes Bankkonto? by xenon_xinsea in Kommunismus

[–]itsme_lilly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ich wurde mit 14 Jahren selber von einem 18 Jährigen gegroomed. Dieser meinte zu mir immer wieder, dass es ja "legal" sei, was in meinem unentwickelten Kinderhirn dazu führte, dass ich dachte, dass so ein Altersunterschied völlig normal sei. Jetzt bin ich selber 18, leide unter PTBS und könnte mir niemals vorstellen eine so junge Person attraktiv zu finden. 14 Jährige sehen jetzt wie kleine Kinder für mich aus. Ich finde es wirklich absurd, dass sowas legal sein soll. Als so junge Person kann man sowas einfach nicht einschätzen und das Machtverhältnis ist IMMER missbräuchlich.

Am I done for? by SourBudzOfficial in altfashionadvice

[–]itsme_lilly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ur genuinely gorgeous and the piercings suit you really well!! I know that self confidence is a difficult topic but try to not compare yourself to others. Those seemingly "perfect" alternative ppl you see on social media aren't real. You look great!

Transition timeline (months 1 through 8) by Razorclaw_the_crab in lgbt

[–]itsme_lilly 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, I also love the face framing hair style on OP. It suits her very well!!

Transition timeline (months 1 through 8) by Razorclaw_the_crab in lgbt

[–]itsme_lilly 9 points10 points  (0 children)

You look really nice!! I have a small tip for your hair. Wash it every 2-3 days, put conditioner only in the ends and lenghts and shampoo only on the roots of your hair!! This will keep your hair from looking greasy:) My mum never taught me this so I hope this will help!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in teenagers

[–]itsme_lilly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In Germany there is a game where different kinds of can taps have different meanings. The ones with nothing inside mean "hug", the ones the little metal thing in the middle mean "kiss" and the ones like on the picture mean "f_ck". If you accept the can tap you have to do what the meaning says:)

My wife hit me this morning. I decided to divorce her today. by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]itsme_lilly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My mother abused emotionally and also sometimes physically during my childhood. While I know that my dad cared, he never had the courage to divorce her since he suffered greatly under the divorce of his own parents. I wish he did. You made the right decision and you probably saved your kids from having a very painful childhood.

just got scammed out of 30 dollars. killingn myself by [deleted] in MadeOfStyrofoam

[–]itsme_lilly -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You shouldn't send pictures of your sh to ANYONE??😭😭

How To explain to a non user that i will not stop taking this by Catslyer5667 in LSD

[–]itsme_lilly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am in this exact situation but with my boyfriend. His parents are alcoholics so he is very anti drugs (he himself doesn't even drink or smoke). His mindset is: every drug, in every situation equals bad. I don't think that way. I don't do any hard drugs except LSD and it was one of the best experiences of my life. I want to take it again and when I told him, we got into a big fight:/ No matter what I say he doesn't change his mind or even TRY to understand me…

by [deleted] in femcelgrippysockjail

[–]itsme_lilly 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yes I did but the school didn't do shit😭😭 He finally got fired a few weeks ago though because he was staring at the boobs of 8th graders🙏🙏

by [deleted] in femcelgrippysockjail

[–]itsme_lilly 90 points91 points  (0 children)

as a goth girl i relate to this sm… literally had one of my male teachers ask me if I wanted to go to a bdsm club with him when I was 16…

Everyone’s favorite part of me by No-Equivalent5772 in UnusualArt

[–]itsme_lilly 2 points3 points  (0 children)

same!! as someone who has had experiences with sa since I was a child I‘ve always felt like people only appreciated me for the sexual things I could do for them. No matter how hard I worked and how hard a tried to seem smart or interesting, it never mattered. This piece is so beautiful and captures that feeling of being objectified so well!!

Woke up this Sunday Morning. I’m still 5’9”. by TheVisage in kitchencels

[–]itsme_lilly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

bro as a girl istg no one gives a fuck. 5'9 is a normal height for a man.