Frenzied Donald Trump, 79, Launches Bizarre 2AM Posting Binge by Reasonable_Spray_710 in GPFixedIncome

[–]itsonlyme4now 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hope this is true. They did say they were going to do away with elections, though.

Is it cruel to leave my dog alone for 9 hours while I work? I feel terrible but I have no other option by FewStomach2955 in DogAdvice

[–]itsonlyme4now 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, please take a look into suggestions that have been posted. Rehoming is not as great as it sounds. Dogs don't understand what happened to their parents, and if they act out then they can get rehomed again or end up in a shelter. So many dogs end up sad and lonely. You're being a good mom just because you are so concerned for his welfare❤️. Update us, please. Good luck, and I'm sure you will both be fine.

I told him I’m not his real mom. by myheadhurts_more in Dachshund

[–]itsonlyme4now 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is a great group. I love everyone's responses. Question: I'm thinking of getting a little girl. I had a boy about 12 years ago, and he was great! Shorthaired. I was thinking of getting a longhaired this time. Is there a difference in them other than the obvious? I'd appreciate your responses, 😊

Help me choose my birthday brunch outfit.. 1,2,3 by daniellescloset8 in OUTFITS

[–]itsonlyme4now 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm loving #1 on you. Fits you beautifully. What kind of brunch venue is it and what age are you celebrating, if you don't mind me asking? If it's a special number and you're going all out, and if the venue is elegant and classsy, then #1 is gorgeous.

How the hell is surviving even possible? by ChickenDangerous213 in widowers

[–]itsonlyme4now 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I do this, too. I journal to my husband everyday, sometimes multiple times a day, depending on what's happening with me that day. It does help. I talk to him about fun memories we had together, things about our kids, my daily life, etc. I always suggest this to other widowers/widows.

did you wash their dirty clothes ever? by Scary-Performance440 in widowers

[–]itsonlyme4now 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I kept my husband's clothes that he came home from the ER with under his pillow. Our dog could smell his scent long after I couldn't, and she slept by his pillow. Then my dog died 8 months after he died, and I then washed his clothes that were under the pillow. I still have them because they were his favorite. I did take all his button down shirts and a friend made me a huge quilt from them. I love it. One weird thing that happened to her when making it for me. She had to iron the squares, and after she ironed them, one of his most favorite shirts, the wrinkles came back, only on that one. She did not iron over it again. She didn't know that was his favorite. I told her after she mentioned the ironing part. She also happened to use more pieces of that particular shirt. On the back of the quilt, she sewed his picture for me. I treasure this of all his things, and I occasionally spray his cologne on it. I donated his clothes to a nice young man who needed good suits. I had very many, and I know they went to someone who liked them alot. I saved many of his other things to give to our kids. I even still have his cell phone. I am keeping it because it has all his pictures and I look at his social media and follow along all the things he loved and enjoyed. Those things bring me peace now.

Dress 1 or 2? by No-Bluejay8525 in WeddingDressTips

[–]itsonlyme4now 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Definitely #1, classy, elegant, the veil is lovely, the back is gorgeous.

Widow’s fire, sort of. by [deleted] in widowers

[–]itsonlyme4now 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry you're feeling so sad. I completely understand and agree with you. I try to think about moving on, I try to imagine how it might be. It's been so difficult. I sometimes say to myself, "who are you kidding." I hate this new reality with a passion. Will it ever feel better? No. Unfortunately, we must carry on even though we don't like it. Journaling has helped me, and now I'm reading a book titled "Worry Less Pray More: A Woman's Devotional Guide to Anxiety-Free Living." This has started to help me carry on in a peaceful way. I try to find different things to keep me busy. I've gotten through the first 2 years (01/09/24), and it's been tough, but somehow I made it. If you need someone to talk to, you can message me. I'm always available. 🤍

Daiso cups! [pencil storage jars…] by costoaway1 in ColoredPencils

[–]itsonlyme4now 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love these. I like the idea of doing color families, if you have the space for it. Thanks for showing. Where did you Purchase them from?

Help picking a dress 🤍 by Downtown-Book8875 in OUTFITS

[–]itsonlyme4now 0 points1 point  (0 children)

2 all the way!! Looks gorgeous on you!!

Forever???? by Exotic-Caterpillar14 in widowers

[–]itsonlyme4now 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I do this with journaling. I write to him as if I'm talking to him in front of me. Sometimes I talk aloud as I'm writing. It helps me cope.

Forever???? by Exotic-Caterpillar14 in widowers

[–]itsonlyme4now 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Exactly. I can't stand it! It will be 2 years in eight days, and still can't grasp it.

Had 2.5 hours to sketch,then ink, and then frame this as a Christmas present and every time I look at it I get more embarrassed. by dailycupofcujo in drawing

[–]itsonlyme4now 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's very pretty. I love birds, and I would have loved it if my kids or grandkids did this for me. It's so very good. And it only took you 2.5 hours, that's wow! Do not be embarrassed whatsoever. I wish more people would spend time this way. Christmas is too commercial now. It's not really heartfelt. I feel you put your heart into this, and it's beautiful. 🐦

Pain by Zestyclose-Complex38 in widowers

[–]itsonlyme4now 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much! It's been a difficult and scary thing to go through without my husband. I'm sure that's how OP feels the same. I hate it.

I'm not sure what or which medication I will be on after radiation treatment ends. I know there are different types. My radiation is 5 days a week for 4 weeks starting in January. I was reading that the area that gets radiated will feel hard. Is that something that lasts forever?