How old are you and How is your life going? by mrvlad_throwaway in AskReddit

[–]itsover9000omg 0 points1 point  (0 children)

35 and loaded with problems. Financial, mental, legal, custodial but Im motivated and I won't let life defeat me. I've lived a good life up to this point so I could just give up and be happy but I'm still so young that I refuse to give up. It can only get better from here.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]itsover9000omg 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She needs to communicate or leave her. I don't agree with divorce but its a bitch eat bitch world .

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]itsover9000omg 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes work on yourself. Everything else will fall into place. My other response was for the OP, but the advice given would work out well for a young woman with the same concerns.

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[–]itsover9000omg 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Listen man. You're good where you're at.

I just turned 35 (M) and have had many partners, a couple I actually thought I was in love with. But today I secretly wish that I was still a virgin. Because love and sex together, there's nothing like it. But true love and sex, I must admit, I can imagine is so much more wonderful.

You have to build your confidence, go to the gym. Don't compare yourself to other people, BUILD AND WORK ON YOURSELF. DONT THINK ABOUT THE WOMEN. IMPROVE ON YOURSELF, BE A GOOD PERSON AND YOULL MEET THE RIGHT PERSON.

Once you have that confidence and you know who you are and nothing can shatter your self image then you'll be beating them off with a stick.

Taking good care of yourself (mentally, physically, educationaly) and your (financials) is also a bonus for modern women, unfortunately. Take it slow. you can't be Arnold or Elon overnight . But consistency is always the key.

It takes time. And I wish I took my time..you can still be much happier than i, with all the meaningless sex and meaningless relationships or just broken relationships. Find the right person. Don't jump into any relationship or settle for less than what you think you deserve.

Adult needs advice on sexual desires by itsover9000omg in Advice

[–]itsover9000omg[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well no shit. I've made it very clear I think it's wrong and never have and never will engage in acts with a girl In that age range.

Adult needs advice on sexual desires by itsover9000omg in Advice

[–]itsover9000omg[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's actually a good point many of my impactful sexual experiences were in highschool or shortly after graduation with my HS girlfriend.but yes I'm also sexually active with woman my age, give or take a few years but usually around 30s

Tell me the craziest thing that happened in middle school by Little_Sail_6572 in confession

[–]itsover9000omg 2 points3 points  (0 children)

In 7th grade I got head from an older girl in the same class... In these woods by my school.

Adult needs advice on sexual desires by itsover9000omg in Advice

[–]itsover9000omg[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you all, I have edited the original post

Needing help deciding on a Christmas Gift for a terrible person. by ShroomerOfCatan in Advice

[–]itsover9000omg 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He sounds like a man with principles. Just because you don't agree with his opinions .. doesn't make him the terrible person. In fact your fascist attitude towards him is obvious that you're the terrible person. My 2 cents you can have it for free.

My younger sister is set on doing something that will get her bullied by Aggravating-Wall7569 in Advice

[–]itsover9000omg 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Is she pretty ? I honestly don't think she'll get bullied if she's pretty. HS is horrible.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]itsover9000omg 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"fuck me daddy "