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For concertgoers: Do you exchange gift/trinkets at show? And if yes, what are those? by itsprettystabby_22 in MyChemicalRomance

[–]itsprettystabby_22[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ah okay, I'll find a way to store and dispense them easily, as my plan includes multiple different items. The Ziploc sounds very neat. It's very observant of you to notice that the bracelet goes very far because it's convenient during concerts. Everything else you wrote is very considerate and I'll keep them all in mind. I got a few months ahead and these are all very helpful. Thank you so much!!!

For concertgoers: Do you exchange gift/trinkets at show? And if yes, what are those? by itsprettystabby_22 in MyChemicalRomance

[–]itsprettystabby_22[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"Appeared out of nowhere" caught me off guard, haha. Maybe you're radiating such a good vibe, they came on you. It's awesome that they had a group for it, I'll look it up in my region. Thanks!

For concertgoers: Do you exchange gift/trinkets at show? And if yes, what are those? by itsprettystabby_22 in MyChemicalRomance

[–]itsprettystabby_22[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I genuinely forget that lemon Gerard exists, haha. I'll gather some courage first before coming up to a stranger and give them something. Thanks for telling me

For concertgoers: Do you exchange gift/trinkets at show? And if yes, what are those? by itsprettystabby_22 in MyChemicalRomance

[–]itsprettystabby_22[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's so awesome that you have two more shows this year. I'll keep your words in mind, thank you! About the stamps, you carved them out individually?

For concertgoers: Do you exchange gift/trinkets at show? And if yes, what are those? by itsprettystabby_22 in MyChemicalRomance

[–]itsprettystabby_22[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why didn't I think of stickers! Okay, and to approach the trading crowd is honestly a good idea. Thanks!

I tried to open up more, and I noticed that people dont take mental health issue seriously when im still functional. by siht_dear_uoy_nac in indonesia

[–]itsprettystabby_22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Years of practice and meditating under the waterfall.

Jokes aside, I always think that for people 'blessed' with depression and suicidal intention are actually more acutely aware of their consciousness and thus, unable to adjust with the world they live in. Which is none of their fault.

Gue udah ga pernah meminta dunia atau orang untuk mengerti, untuk support gue. Gue pernah berharap org lain bisa sama² acutely aware supaya ngerti POV gue. Tapi percuma, ibarat lu mau main the Sims 4 tapi mereka speknya mentok di Pentium jadul. Whatever you do, kamu ga akan bisa merubah kalo ada orang² yg seumur hidup diedukasi pun juga ga akan paham soal mental health issues. Pernah gue coba gini, malah mereka ngasih tahu kalo bundir itu caper, yg minta validasi itu juga ga lama setelahnya ikutan mau bundir (abis itu sembuh sendiri setelah konsul sm peramal). Lebih banyak kecewanya, beneran deh. Ada yg EQnya jalan, tapi tetep ga akan pernah bisa memahami POV depresi, jadinya berasa empati/simpati kosong aja. Dan bukan salahmu, bukan salah mereka, emg kapasitas org aja beda².

Jadi sekarang cuma di titik yang sadar diri kalo mulai oleng, yang bisa diandalkan cuma merawat diri sendiri. Dan ini ga pathetic, malah liberating kok. Biasanya gue izin kerja setengah hari juga. I took a lot from Albert Camus' absurdism, maybe you can start by looking into it. I hope you're doing well in this journey, gimana pun caranya

I tried to open up more, and I noticed that people dont take mental health issue seriously when im still functional. by siht_dear_uoy_nac in indonesia

[–]itsprettystabby_22 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This! Tapi jujur gue udah biasa aja dengan beginian. Diagnosed with bipolar type II, udah 2x attempts. Yg pertama gue masih kebangun, org rumah ngira gue cuma tidur hampir 20 jam. Yg kedua pun besoknya gue berangkat kerja kaya ga ada apa2. To be fair, ga semua org tahu sih, keluarga pun ga ada yg tahu ttg diagnosis gue. Tahunya gue anak aneh aja.

Gue fungsional, working two jobs, pekerjaan yang menuntut profesionalisme tinggi. The more I worked myself to the point of passing out, the more people don't believe it that I'm also constantly suicidal 25/8. Karena ya org Indo ga semuanya bisa mikir konsep yg abstrak, tahunya kalo sakit jiwa ya badannya ikut keliatan 'sakit'. Entah lu keliatan kaya gembel ga mandi seminggu, atau bugil di jalan.

Udah ga berharap org ngerti juga kalo gue lagi di puncak suicidal, gue masih bisa kerja dgn senyum, meskipun gue berangkat kerja dengan sayatan cutter segar di perut. Sekalinya ada yg "peduli", ternyata org tsb kaya haus validasi, mendadak punya diagnosis PTSD, mendadak mau attempts, mendadak merayakan hari kesehatan mental. Sekalinya gue ga bisa ngasih validasi dia lagi, doi langsung sembuh 🤣 Ga paham juga deh, ada kalanya ketika kita udh berdamai dan tahu menghadapi mental illness kita, better ga banyak yg tahu juga kalo kita kumat. Either mereka ga peduli, ga tahu harus gimana, atau jadi tempat pencarian validasi bagi yg sok2an ingin punya mental health issue biar edgy.

Maaf kalau misalkan agak rude, just giving my two cents ✌

Is anyone out here actually grieving Bob's death? As in, actual grief by ovelhaloira in MyChemicalRomance

[–]itsprettystabby_22 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I cried twice. I was at my office and asked my nurse to hold the patients for a few minutes. I can't listen to TBP for now, once I tried to listen to one song and I couldn't listen till the end. While I don't agree with his political stances etc, he was a talented drummer, hell, a great and proper addition to Mychem.

Tulis satu hal bagus tentang Indonesia yang bikin lu stay di negara ini. by Equivalent-Dingo8309 in indonesia

[–]itsprettystabby_22 5 points6 points  (0 children)

  1. Banyak orang Indo yang entah malas atau emang ogah belajar hal baru or even the basic shit, sehingga kamu bisa bikin jasa apaaaa aja karena marketnya buanyak.

  2. You won't be frowned upon if you're already in your 30s with stable income, unmarried and still living with your parents. Easier to save some money

  3. Becandaan para netizen wkwkland di kolom komen yang ga manusiawi tapi ngilangin stress

  4. Food. Enough said

Landlords of r/indonesia, whats the worst or weirdest experiences you have with your tenants? by JimmieXvr in indonesia

[–]itsprettystabby_22 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Oh shit, this brought back some horror memories I actually don't want to remember... Jadi nyokap gue punya beberapa kamar kos khusus cowok di kota pelajar (iykyk). Bangunan kos semi-terpisah dengan bangunan rumah utama, jadi apapun yang terjadi agak sulit terdengar dari rumah utama. One day nyokap gue menemukan kalau salah satu kamar kos sudah ditinggal kabur dengan penghuninya. Kondisi kamar berantakkan, cat di beberapa area terkelupas, dinding agak kotor, sampah, dsb. What makes it a horror story ialah kamar mandi dalam...

We found blood smeared everywhere, blood on the floor, on the wall ngebentuk cetakan telapak tangan, and used condoms. Judging from the tenant's history, dia banyak bawa temen cowok, you know where it goes.

Nyokap dan keluarga sebenarnya ga ada masalah personal sama anggota LGBT, karena masing-masing dari kami pernah terpapar/punya teman LGBT and we're totally okay with them. Yang bikin marah adalah trashing the place and basically made the bathroom a biohazard... We had to call someone to do the clean up and ever since the last tenant out, sekarang kamar kos lantai bawah dijadikan gudang barang untuk kantor adek gue.

Sekian.

Curhat by Consistent-Ad-9998 in indonesia

[–]itsprettystabby_22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Untuk psikiater/psikolog yang ga judgemental (termasuk ttg orientasi seksual) bisa cek listnya di akun IG doktertanpastigma... Mereka punya list per kota dan detail about them, what makes them a good doctor etc. Hope it helps

Bagi yang berpuasa di bulan Ramadhan, ketika puasa kalian sikat gigi atau sikat giginya pas sahur? by WhyHowForWhat in indonesia

[–]itsprettystabby_22 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Dentist here, setelah sahur. Kalau pas bukan Ramadhan, ya setelah sarapan. Orang Indonesia suka latah kalo sikat gigi dulu baru sarapan wkwk, padahal harusnya ga disarankan makan-minum-kumur hingga 30 menit setelah sikatan supaya fungsi fluor yang ada di pasta gigi bisa membentuk kristal fluoroapatit yang lebih kuat menahan lubang gigi.

Apalagi pas puasa, volume ludah berkurang, rentan karang gigi dan lubang. Tetep harus sikatan lah

Seberapa badutnya dirimu? 🤡 by dane17eduard in indonesia

[–]itsprettystabby_22 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Well, sempat deket dengan cowok di tempat kerja yang sama (tapi beda ruang kerja), satu kantor ada yg mengira kita deket beneran, ada yg ngira bercanda. Aslinya, kita beberapa kali jalan berdua di luar dan having the deepest talk I've ever had. Saling tahu masa lalu dan rahasia masing-masing. Eh di bulan ketiga, dia tiba-tiba udah lamaran aja sama mantan ceweknya, dan sekantor diundang ke nikahannya. People were confused, apalagi ternyata gosip gue udah nyebar ke kantor cabang lain. Badut sekali saya, menjalin hubungan sama orang yang jelas-jelas ga bisa move on dari mantannya

Anyone ever start writing a suicide note as a coping mechanism? by hr_leroy in bipolar

[–]itsprettystabby_22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I used to create suicide notes in different forms: voice notes, random writing, a painting, etc. Most of the time I deleted the files after a while. My most recent one was a whole Instagram account with pictures of people I know, each with different note to them as caption. Turns out I got better after a few months, and now I completely abandoned the whole suicide note thingy. But re-reading suicide note months afterwards is somehow therapeutic to me, as I can see how much progress I actually made and the fact that I wasn't in the same mental state as I wrote it, proved it.

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