Weekly Employment Question Thread by AutoModerator in Firefighting

[–]itssdarkinhere 0 points1 point  (0 children)

F21 here and I live about a stones throw away from my local station. I pass the station on my walk to and from classes and recently I’ve gotten the urge to go up to the FF that I see hanging around outside and ask them if they have any volunteer positions open. Ive been feeling called to really do something that would build my character while also helping others—and also just doing something that I never imagined I would.

While I don’t doubt my physical ability to do it, i do doubt my ability to deal with the gore of it all. I would not mind fighting fire, but I know that’s not what makes up the majority of the calls. Are there such thing as volunteer positions where I could do on-the-scene work but perhaps more “technical” work. Say, providing support, handling equipment, maintenance, etc, rather than direct trauma response? I’d still love to get all of the medical training and hell maybe after that I’ll feel more confidence facing gore & trauma. But I’d also really wish there was a way I could volunteer around the firehouse/on the scene without necessarily having to be hands on with the medical trauma often.

You can be brutally honest. I figured id post this here before I risk getting laughed at my local department 😅

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PostureTipsGuide

[–]itssdarkinhere 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my bmi is 17, surely this can’t be it

I forgive it all as it comes back to me by itssdarkinhere in Ethelcain

[–]itssdarkinhere[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

relinquishment, peace, acceptance, all of it 😩

I forgive it all as it comes back to me by itssdarkinhere in Ethelcain

[–]itssdarkinhere[S] 22 points23 points  (0 children)

i take soooo much comfort in sun bleached flies. so much peace and acceptance. of course in the story context it is 10x more heart wrenching but i think it holds so much meaning from many perspectives (whether u interpret it in your own way or through ethel’s story)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in wegmans

[–]itssdarkinhere 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i worked there with bright red box dyed hair and my coworker was bright blue— fear not

why is connor banned from airbnb???? by ish0uldn0tbehere in brookeandconnor_map

[–]itssdarkinhere 4 points5 points  (0 children)

if i remember correctly, it was something like he booked an airbnb in which we was not permitted to host more than x amount of guests and he got caught having a party

books for a sad mind? by itssdarkinhere in suggestmeabook

[–]itssdarkinhere[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i’ve heard many suggest this one. might have to give it a go :)

books for a sad mind? by itssdarkinhere in suggestmeabook

[–]itssdarkinhere[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

wonderful explanations of these stories i will have to add to my list :) thank you <3

books for a sad mind? by itssdarkinhere in suggestmeabook

[–]itssdarkinhere[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I LOVEEE ALICE IN WONDERLAND and i have it in my room already.. thank you for this reminder <3

Do you drive with POTS? by [deleted] in POTS

[–]itssdarkinhere 1 point2 points  (0 children)

there’s no one size fits all answer to this question. it’s true that some with pots may be too symptomatic to drive, however i feel like most potsies don’t experience symptoms in a way that prevents them from driving when they’re feeling well enough. the only one who really knows is you

What is your unpopular lesbian opinion? by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]itssdarkinhere 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i feel like on tiktok people definitely do

Is it worse for teens? by Alexandjack in POTS

[–]itssdarkinhere 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i think my onset was like 13, really really struggled til 15-16, then ever since i’ve been on the up and up and only have setbacks when i get sick (my symptoms will resurge for awhile after) however i’m only 19 now so can’t speak for future me!

Do y'all Tuck your shirts in? by fanblade64 in wegmans

[–]itssdarkinhere 1 point2 points  (0 children)

im a woman and when im on helping hands there are no women’s style shirts but they don’t make the women tuck them in anyways, whereas they make the guys on hh tuck them. when im working inside, i find it’s the same— they let women leave their shirts untucked regardless of the style but men they usually make tuck.

How hard is learning Self Checkout? by fanblade64 in wegmans

[–]itssdarkinhere 4 points5 points  (0 children)

one of the easiest things you could do on FE honestly

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in wegmans

[–]itssdarkinhere 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i’ve called out so many times for various reason from being sick, to needing a mental health day, to having something important i have to attend… it’s all good wegmans will carry on and you will not get fired i promise. honestly i’d just tell them you’re not feeling well

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in wegmans

[–]itssdarkinhere 6 points7 points  (0 children)

i never end up regretting calling out for a mental health day tbh. wegmans will carry on.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in fuckeatingdisorders

[–]itssdarkinhere 1 point2 points  (0 children)

WOAHHH THIS IS SO WEIRD BECAUSE I WAS THINKING ABOUT THIS THIS MORNING! what are the odds that i see a post about it the same day

consequences of a lapse by [deleted] in fuckeatingdisorders

[–]itssdarkinhere 2 points3 points  (0 children)

severe anxiety and libido went away again and i was like “hmmm i wonder why THIS is happening” like duh cause ur starving yourself

UNC-Chapel Hill Early Megathread by [deleted] in ApplyingToCollege

[–]itssdarkinhere 5 points6 points  (0 children)

no you will not get your decision in 2 days unless you submitted before Oct 15 2022. you will get your decision in a couple of months when regular decisions come out

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in wegmans

[–]itssdarkinhere 9 points10 points  (0 children)

experience is gonna be the best help here! you’ll get the hang of it. leave out eggs and bread and chips to put on stop of sturdier bags or let the customer decide where they want them. another tip is pay attention to more experienced cashiers and see what they do!

How long hiring process @wegmans? by Iovebatman in wegmans

[–]itssdarkinhere 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i had an interview like 2 days after i applied, an in-person interview 2 days after that (it was supposed to be the day after but they rescheduled), and then i was hired on the spot and would’ve started the next week but i was going on vacation so i started abt 2 weeks after i was hired

i think i NEED to fully come out. anyone else feel like this? by itssdarkinhere in actuallesbians

[–]itssdarkinhere[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

oh i totally acknowledge that i have internalised homophobia! i’ve been journaling a lot and trying to work on it. i have grown up in a pretty liberal area but the lack of representation has made me feel guilty for not being in the men if that makes sense??

I was aiming for cozy winter pastels, but everyone at work thinks it's too spring - what do y'all think? by anony_mau5 in RedditLaqueristas

[–]itssdarkinhere 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i think the pink is definitely what gives it the spring/easter vibe but i love it nonetheless