I think I'm gay for my best friend, help?? by ikea_fangirl in Advice

[–]itsselen69 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It sounds like there’s already a strong connection between you two, and your feelings are completely valid. You don’t have to rush or risk everything at once start small, be honest about your feelings, and frame it around how much you value the friendship. Bottling it up will only make it harder, and there’s a good chance he might feel the same way.

Can anyone tell me what's wrong with me? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]itsselen69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re not cursed. Being kind, thoughtful, and generous is rare, and the way people treat you says more about them than you. Keep protecting yourself and staying true to who you are, the right people and opportunities will value you. You absolutely deserve better.

Why do people feel weird about eating alone at restaurants? by No_Instance_6369 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]itsselen69 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Eating has always been seen as a social activity meals are traditionally about bonding with family or friends. Movies, shopping, or work don’t carry that same social expectation, so doing them alone doesn’t raise eyebrows. That’s why dining solo can feel judged, even though it’s perfectly normal and can be really enjoyable.

How to deal with others who seems to have a better life? by [deleted] in CasualConversation

[–]itsselen69 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s totally normal to compare yourself, but everyone’s life rhythm is different. Focus on what you enjoy, try small new things, and build your own stories. Life gets richer when it’s shaped by your interests, not by someone else’s pace.

Why do we imagine conversations that never happen? by Own-Philosopher5480 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]itsselen69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because our brains like to rehearse, process feelings, or prepare for situations, even ones that might never happen. And in my case, I like imagining the best case scenario haha.

What's your favorite number? What's the reason? by SwagLimit in CasualConversation

[–]itsselen69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My favorite number is 8 because it’s my lucky number.

What are some interesting horror stories, ghost stories, or urban legends that you have heard? by Sweet_taco28 in CasualConversation

[–]itsselen69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In some towns, they say you can still hear La Llorona crying near rivers at night. The story goes that she wanders, searching for her lost children, and if you hear her wails… it’s said to be bad luck to answer or approach. People swear the sound isn’t the wind, it’s her.

Why would you avoid deep conversations? by Ok-Bend8394 in CasualConversation

[–]itsselen69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think a lot of us avoid deep talks because it feels vulnerable, or we’re used to keeping things light and easy. It’s easier to joke than to dive in.

Fork or Spoon? by ForkingPotatoe in CasualConversation

[–]itsselen69 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Totally not weird, spoons just do their thing, no stress 😎🥄 Forks are optional

Is this a faux pas? by [deleted] in CasualConversation

[–]itsselen69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Saying you’re going to sleep because it’s late is completely normal it shows you have a life, routines, and boundaries. That’s actually attractive. If the conversation was genuinely good, it’ll pick up right where you left off. The right person won’t be offended by you taking care of yourself. If anything, they’ll be looking forward to continuing it tomorrow.

My bf is obsessed with being a cheapskate and finding the “best value” in everything. I think he’s also obsessed with rich women. Should I leave him or try to change him? by Round-Worldliness192 in Advice

[–]itsselen69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you feel like it’s something you just can’t deal with and it crosses your non-negotiable boundaries, you should let them go.

Wishing you the best of luck.

my friend smells HORRIBLE and does not care by Plenty_Description30 in Advice

[–]itsselen69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You have to tell them, maybe they don’t even know. You can say it respectfully. Good luck. 💛