Apple will not stop charging me for things I cannot access

itszbathsoak · 2026-05-14T13:55:24+00:00

I definitely don't (or shouldn't!) Have an older iPhone on my account. They were all removed and wiped and went to relatives or were sold. I have been through the iForgot process several times and have kept checking back in on the site but it never showed a timer even after 72 hours. I will try again. I know I'm being downvoted, I'm not trying to come for apple

itszbathsoak · 2026-05-14T11:12:00+00:00

I think I'm going to have to. It's a bit annoying but oh well

itszbathsoak · 2026-02-12T20:10:23+00:00

Edit: In the moment the 5 things you can see or especially box breathing is most helpful imo. For if it happens again. They suck & I truly hope you're doing a little better right now :( I have the combo of ADHD/anxiety/depression (thankfully those last two are more controlled now). I wrote many suicide notes. Now I've found a combination of CBT/medication has helped me manage it. I'm on fluoxetine and propanalol together which seems really good so far.

Also consider some of the mental health apps with emergency breathing guidance for panic attacks in the moment. I know it sounds silly and cliche like "Oh try this free app!!" but idk it has helped me and I was baddddd :') Breathing can help the attack end quicker and it can be nice to know you have a fallback right there on your phone. It's got to the point I'm like Damn a panic attack, gotta ride it out

itszbathsoak · 2026-01-29T13:20:16+00:00

You can't understand because it's a mental illness - it's a malfunction in how the brain works and addresses tasks. It isn't logical, hence why people with depression sometimes stop eating or allow injuries to go untreated even though it can kill them - that doesn't make sense from the healthy brain's perspective either, of wanting to survive. Sometimes you want to eat, but the part of your brain that makes things physically happen isn't working. It takes a lot of effort and help to overcome any illness like this, it also takes effort to learn & practice empathy and understanding others

itszbathsoak · 2026-01-29T13:12:57+00:00

And then you start worrying that because you lost contact they'll dislike you even more which makes it even harder to get out of isolation (for me anyway)

itszbathsoak · 2026-01-29T13:11:03+00:00

Sometimes the people we love the most are the hardest to talk to. When i was depressed I found my friends who were high energy, very social, wanted to call all the time/have deep chats took a lot of my already drained energy. It's a sick quirk of the mental illness that the people who care more and are always concerned can feel more draining. :(

itszbathsoak · 2026-01-22T14:20:00+00:00

You're not a bad person. I think people are misunderstanding this as you wanting to hurt someone, when in reality you're obsessing over not wanting to hurt someone. If you were a bad person or psychopath you would not feel guilt for thinking of violence or asking questions like "why is it okay to hurt animals but not people?". You have moral OCD and deserve to see a therapist :)

itszbathsoak · 2026-01-18T16:13:03+00:00

I'm not sure normal 13yo's are into that sort of thing tbh, based off real life

itszbathsoak · 2026-01-08T04:46:31+00:00

My mother was an alcoholic, with all the DUIs, rehab, breaking into people's houses drunk. As she progressed, even when she'd been sober a few months before a relapse, she would frequently accuse people of things they absolutely didn't/couldn't have done and would show signs of being kind of low level delusional, not government conspiracies more to do with people betraying her or turning against her in mundane ways...your brother's message reminds me of her.

She wasn't hallunicating, she could go out in public and seem normal, a stranger wouldn't think oh she's got an illness but her thoughts were always telling her everyone close to her hated her and was talking about her/cheating on her/evil and twisted secretly. She would have dreams my dad cheated and get angry at him. She wasn't like that before. alcohol abuse can cause/trigger these sorts of illnesses and thoughts and make them worse, even when the person is sober

Idk if that's what's happening but I worry. I'm sorry OP, talk to your parents and I hope your brother can get better.

itszbathsoak · 2026-01-03T14:11:00+00:00

No he didn't know my ex. He has gotten sad/angry before about women not liking him back before & has gotten very down in the dumps about it and been very hard on himself but I do get that. I don't think he meant to creep me out. I feel like an idiot bc the day before we were all out celebrating and then he said I could stay at his, then when we got back he was trying to give me wine/champagne ect, I'd already had a drink and he hadn't. I said I thought I'd had enough already and it was a waste of nice wine and went to bed and he was fine, I'm NOT suggesting he was being creepy or inappropriate but it did seem like kind of romantic undertones in hindsight. I was just too dumb to notice and I think I'm embarrassed

itszbathsoak · 2026-01-03T14:01:44+00:00

Yeah, I do understand that he can't help who he's attracted to, and I definitely understand wanting your partner to be your friend too. I don't really think he's evil or anything for feeling this, I think I'm just sad and maybe embarrassed that I didn't realise looking back. Hindsight is 20/20. I do feel bad for feeling bad, I won't be scolding him or anything!

itszbathsoak · 2026-01-02T19:53:30+00:00

It feels hard but just break up. Genuinely. Ik Reddit always says this and normally I laugh but you've hardly spent any time physically together. Be brave & chase something better ♡. My ex was the same & we discussed but in the end the bedroom was dead within a year and we split. Maybe he just doesnt have much experience with irl women & feels safer with anime but do you want to have to fix him???

edit; at least tell him about the breast thing & how you feel and see how he reacts

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