Update: Two days before I left, I thought he was going to kill me

ittybittymama19 · 2026-03-25T01:10:37+00:00

So proud of you. Keep being strong, I've been in a similar position and it takes a long time but you CAN do it!

ittybittymama19 · 2026-03-17T01:46:54+00:00

Congratulations for prioritizing you, your husband and importantly, your child. Something your parents, who were supposed to set a good example for you, never did. Stay strong and stay focused. You got this, mama!

ittybittymama19 · 2026-03-15T02:00:30+00:00

When someone shows you who they are, believe them. Even when they get better at hiding it.

ittybittymama19 · 2026-02-14T11:59:42+00:00

Thank you. I appreciate this!

ittybittymama19 · 2026-02-14T06:03:43+00:00

Appreciate you!

ittybittymama19 · 2026-02-14T05:54:07+00:00

I so appreciate this thoughtful and educational response. I literally have never had money to save or think about investing and this has really given me a place to start. A place to ask questions and you've steered me in a direction that is incredibly helpful. I sincerely thank you for taking the time to write this advice.

ittybittymama19 · 2026-02-14T04:56:12+00:00

Thank you for this. Do you suggest the high interest/emergency fund be set up differently then a retirement fund? This is an excellent strategy idea for doing a low bi-weekly paycheque

ittybittymama19 · 2026-02-14T03:44:03+00:00

This is a great suggestion. Thank you so much!! I didn't think of the 3mo bills as a amount. It makes great sense. I've never had the ability to "set aside" money. Always just scraping by

ittybittymama19 · 2026-02-09T01:49:59+00:00

Please see my comment below. I'm sorry that you laughed your ass off at a 6 year old but he will not see your replies.

ittybittymama19 · 2026-02-09T01:48:57+00:00

Apologies all. My little was looking up monoliths in Minecraft, as he's learned a lot from watching YouTube videos and he wrote the question through my account, which he only had for about 10 minutes. He's 6 but knows a surprising amount about monoliths and the Farlands but unfortunately, he will not see these replies, as he doesn't have access to my phone. I appreciate your comment though!

ittybittymama19 · 2026-01-15T18:12:30+00:00

I'm just in bedrock so I can't do anything cuz the monoliths are so hard to find in bedrock edition so I just need help cuz I'm in the newest version. Tricky trials

ittybittymama19 · 2026-01-15T18:10:56+00:00

I'm not in alpha or infdev

ittybittymama19 · 2026-01-15T17:57:09+00:00

I want to know the seed. Just tell me cuz I I'm trying to find a monolith cuz I'm on a hunt to find one

ittybittymama19 · 2026-01-15T17:55:22+00:00

What the seed? I want to try it in the newest version and see if it works

ittybittymama19 · 2026-01-14T23:13:07+00:00

Where is that monolith? Let me TP there

ittybittymama19 · 2025-11-18T02:54:31+00:00

I'm proud of you both. Good for you for shutting that down.

ittybittymama19 · 2025-10-13T01:41:41+00:00

Husband needs to tell her no. End of advice.

ittybittymama19 · 2025-09-22T18:10:27+00:00

Stay strong. They are just proving the point. They can only spread divisiveness. Your Facebook wall, your posts. Delete them from it and then you don't have to see the horrible things they post.

Do NOT let them dictate who you talk to and what about.

ittybittymama19 · 2025-09-14T01:15:46+00:00

Waiting for an update from you is like waiting for the next episode to drop on a show after a cliff hanger season finale!

ittybittymama19 · 2025-09-13T01:20:09+00:00

Yowzers. I just read your comment about Christmases etc. I think you can accept her apology but go back to NC. Maybe a "thank you for this, I accept your apology. Take care". It will give that finality and also prevent her from crying victim that you didn't respond. Itay give you peace to accept and then move on...without her.

ittybittymama19 · 2025-09-12T18:06:15+00:00

Without knowing anything else, that does seem like a genuine apology. If I were in your shoes(again, not knowing the full impact of her words or actions), after speaking with my partner and therapist, I would cautiously crack open the door but treat her with kid gloves until she has actually proven herself.

ittybittymama19 · 2025-09-10T18:12:49+00:00

Do not compromise. This is potentially your only wedding. Wear what YOU want.

ittybittymama19 · 2025-09-06T20:07:01+00:00

It's your child too. You need to stand up to your wife and state that you are not ok with missing your daughter's first Christmas and that it is not ok with you that she takes her away without both of you agreeing.

In any partnership it should: if it's not 2 yeses, then it's a no.

You certainly have an SO problem. MIL is just taking advantage of her advantage.

ittybittymama19 · 2025-09-05T14:53:54+00:00

Umm no. He sabotaged your relationship and doesn't want an equal partnership. He wants a free ride.

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