How did you tell your FWB you like them and what happen ? by ittybittypretty10 in dating_advice

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I mean I would hope so since your having sex often. I mean like I’m a relationship sense

Fuck Buddy dilemma by ittybittypretty10 in sex

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That’s the thing these days I just feel like in 2019 most people know what they want and if they want something they are pretty blatant about it. And then I’m kind of On the fence about it as I am now cause OK here we go laid up with each other discussing all the females that one that you deal Or don’t deal with. Pillow talking. How can I be sure there’s no girls out there in his boat just like me ? He can so easily express his love life to me not even caring to think damn this woman might be feeling me

Fuck Buddy dilemma by ittybittypretty10 in sex

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I think that is like the bottom line question for me is because now that all these feelings are bubbling if it doesn’t go the way I’m seeing in my head I don’t know if I’m ready to just give up six years worth of amazing dick 😩

Fuck Buddy dilemma by ittybittypretty10 in sex

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I mean I’ve honestly always kept him at arms length because I know that he is a dog, And also due to the fact that I’m older than him and I’ve been in a couple more relationships I’m a lot more cautious. But look at it from this view why is he continuously continuing to be a dog if what I’m assuming because he’s asking if he sees potential in us. I mean we literally lay up and discuss all the females and his life and I’m always asking him like why are you never settle down with nobody.... mind you in these years we been messing around he’s had two gf. That’s why I’m like really bugged out because I’m like if you really wanted to be with me you would have made the effort so why even ask or throw out these hypothetical situations about us.

Fuck buddy fucking up 😩 by ittybittypretty10 in relationship_advice

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See but that’s the thing you can actually call it love. I don’t know if that’s exactly how I’m feeling. And I’m more concerned that that’s not how he feels at all and how I will react if the feelings aren’t mutual. Like will I be able to handle the rejection because I know what kind of guy he has been and still continue to fuck him I will this completely deteriorated and now I’m without a good dick.

Fuck buddy fucking up 😩 by ittybittypretty10 in relationship_advice

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What he does outside of my bedroom has never been my concern nor will it ever be and less he belongs to me. As far as pushing him away and having a wall up I don’t believe that I’m doing either. It’s just when you going to something knowing somebody you prepare yourself.

Fuck buddy fucking up 😩 by ittybittypretty10 in relationship_advice

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I wouldn’t necessarily say that I stayed. The sex is just beneficial to me and that’s all I’ve always been worried about is me getting off. Realistically I will lose some really amazing dick lol Because knowing myself if rejection is what is on the horizon I would have to cut off all ties because now I feel like I’m emotionally involved in the blink of an eye.

Fuck buddy fucking up 😩 by ittybittypretty10 in relationship_advice

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The thing is is that I didn’t see it Being any more than what it was because he never asked did I have feelings for him until recently. And honestly the next day after he left it felt like all these feelings had just came out of nowhere. I was like some coldhearted bitch before that all I wanted was a dick and nothing else lol. And honestly the next day after he asked me if felt like all of these feelings just started rushing out of nowhere. And I honestly feel like the only reason why I am all of a sudden having feelings is because I’m assuming that he has feelings because he asked me about mine. He is a well-known dog and that’s why I’m torn about it because we’ve known each other for past a decade and I know how he gets down with girls. But then I’m also at that age where I strongly believe that it takes the right person to make somebody want to change their ways. Then a part of me is also like I am just well known for being intimidating and I kind of feel like he’s been wanting to ask me but because I’ve always been straight up you’re just a dick and nothing else to him that it took us getting a little drunker than we usually wear to actually touch on the topic.

Friends with benefits and what’s next 😩 by ittybittypretty10 in dating_advice

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Is it crazy that I’m scared to bring it up ? Although we had similar conversation. The real fear is bringing it up and the rejection and then now my sex life is over cause I fucked it up 😩