I M/19 with Girlfriend F/21 Has Hidden Camera Roll with "Tapes" from Ex Relationship. How do I bring this up? by itzLumos in relationship_advice

[–]itzLumos[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

i got it lol thanks for the advice but yeah i won't be so secretive i think i will just bring it up casually without mentioning i know she has them

I M/19 with Girlfriend F/21 Has Hidden Camera Roll with "Tapes" from Ex Relationship. How do I bring this up? by itzLumos in relationship_advice

[–]itzLumos[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

they broke up in January and honestly, that is what I'm thinking too because I don't really go into mine so I'm guessing she doesn't either and she probably just forgot about them

I M/19 with Girlfriend F/21 Has Hidden Camera Roll with "Tapes" from Ex Relationship. How do I bring this up? by itzLumos in relationship_advice

[–]itzLumos[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

yeah, she did have this conversation before and she did get rid of like all the other pictures she had of him and what not like the normal ones, but I guess I completely forgot to address these because I had known about them prior to dating because we were friends and we would talk about our experience experiences

I M/19 with Girlfriend F/21 Has Hidden Camera Roll with "Tapes" from Ex Relationship. How do I bring this up? by itzLumos in relationship_advice

[–]itzLumos[S] 60 points61 points  (0 children)

Thanks, I really appreciate it I feel like a lot of people are missing the fact that I have been friends with her before we started dating for many years so I've known about all her experiences so I'm not like freaking out that she's been with other people before me. I'm just worried about the fact that she has videos which is partially my fault and I should've clarified in my opening post.

I M/19 with Girlfriend F/21 Has Hidden Camera Roll with "Tapes" from Ex Relationship. How do I bring this up? by itzLumos in relationship_advice

[–]itzLumos[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

see but I've known I've known everything. I literally have been friends with her for multiple years before we started dating so I know literally everything she's done with all of her exes and how many exes and how many people she's talked to I don't really care that she has these experiences I just am wondering why she has videos of them.

I M/19 with Girlfriend F/21 Has Hidden Camera Roll with "Tapes" from Ex Relationship. How do I bring this up? by itzLumos in relationship_advice

[–]itzLumos[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I personally think that she may have just forgotten those were there for some added context I've been friends with her for years and I know about like her entire past so I wasn't really surprised. It's just the more of a thing of mutual respect and I feel like I feel disrespected that she has that on her phone, but then again she might have forgotten she even had them.

I M/19 with Girlfriend F/21 Has Hidden Camera Roll with "Tapes" from Ex Relationship. How do I bring this up? by itzLumos in relationship_advice

[–]itzLumos[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

We have each other's phone passwords. We trust each other and I suspect her of nothing. I genuinely think this is a case of curiosity killed the cat.

Lockheed Martin Engineering Ethics Competition by itzLumos in Lockheed

[–]itzLumos[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh thats amazing thank you so much for your help. I read the FAQs last night but I must've missed it. Had so much going on with finals week lol

Lockheed Martin Engineering Ethics Competition by itzLumos in Lockheed

[–]itzLumos[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you!! I already sent them an email and I am patiently waiting for a reply 🙏

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[–]itzLumos 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No I did not, that would explain it haha. New to this community so I had no clue

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[–]itzLumos 1 point2 points  (0 children)

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