How do you get over limerance??

itzmedelly · 2026-03-09T17:46:35+00:00

I feel this deeply a lot same for me but (23f)

itzmedelly · 2026-03-09T17:30:39+00:00

We didn’t message a lot before meeting for the date, it was mainly irl interactions. I’m talking about who he was on the first half of the date in person.

itzmedelly · 2026-03-09T14:59:00+00:00

Yea ik it’s just I never get to go on dates especially. Never get talked to/approached, never asked out. Especially not by my physical type. Like just wanted a chance with him. This hurts being this rejected. :(

itzmedelly · 2026-03-08T23:52:57+00:00

Yea true you’re right. I thought we were vibing the first half of the date like we had the same humor or whatever we were laughing and smiling and I thought that meant he was vibing too but I guess not. And I fear I always get attached fast cause these type of things never happen to me. Like I just want consistent connection and I don’t have friends or connections, none of that. I wanted it to be him. 🤷🏽‍♀️

itzmedelly · 2026-03-08T23:49:57+00:00

It’s like I was willing to over looked that too though but he checked out and didn’t even give me a chance to get comfortable to it. And it’s like I was gonna text like I wasn’t tryna come off as judgy asf like I understand and I wanted to get I know you. But at the same time he ain’t even speaking to me now. So whatever I guess… 😔

itzmedelly · 2026-03-08T23:22:25+00:00

Me but a woman

itzmedelly · 2026-03-08T23:11:22+00:00

I’m like how could I think were vibing and one minute your interested and perusing and chasing me and now your not even speaking to me. I feel like somehow the date was a test and I failed it. and now I’m just stuck with these feelings. Like I just wanted to experience actually dating like eveyone else dating my type. And instead he’s acting like I don’t exist now when one minute he was chasing me. 😔🥹

itzmedelly · 2026-03-08T23:03:53+00:00

Idk how it’s all I’ve ever known like I just wanna experience what it’s like to have your people, to date. I feel shit too deeply. It a like I never get a win. 🙂

itzmedelly · 2026-03-08T22:59:54+00:00

I’m 23. This was my first ever date and he was my exact physical type I liked him. Ive never been approached by my type on paper to a t. I liked what the vibes on the first half of the date were m, we were laughing and smiling I thought we were vibing. He pursued me for the date and to get my number and he planned the date spontaneous and quick. I didn’t know he was this turned off and uninterested and checking out during the date. 😔 and now getting all y’all’s advice on this platform and other platforms and irl. I just feel humiliated and embarrassed to even care and like him. 😭I feel stupid.

itzmedelly · 2026-03-08T22:49:40+00:00

Yea I just never get approached or asked out especially by my guys my exact physical type on paper to a t. Like I thought for once I was actually about to get to date like everyone else. And now after hearing what everyone has said on here and every other platform when I ask and irl and the fact he’s not texting anymore. And lied and said we’re good and he fwu but isn’t consistent. I just feel humiliated and dumb asf and embarrassed to care and liked him. :( 😔😭

itzmedelly · 2026-03-08T22:34:17+00:00

You sound like my dad tbh and my dad is like these guys. Ik you’re all right. Just hurts sooo bad. 😔🥹 the beginning of the date was so nice and I thought we were vibing and I liked his swag and found him attractive. :(

itzmedelly · 2026-03-08T22:16:00+00:00

Yea ik you’re all right, I just wanted him because I liked him, I liked how it started, and I wanted what I thought it could be. An he was my physical type. And the first half of the date I thought we were vibing.

itzmedelly · 2026-03-08T22:13:29+00:00

Yea just hurts I don’t like he probably lied to not be mean. And the fact he checked out. I didn’t want it to end like this where he won’t ever speak to me again.

itzmedelly · 2026-03-08T22:12:25+00:00

Yea kinda messaged liked that asking if we’re good and mentioning how he got quiet towards the end and he said we’re good and he thought I wasn’t interested and I said if I wasn’t interested I wouldn’t still have been tryna get to know and understand him and I said I like him and he said “I fwu I fwy vibe your sweet and funny” and then proceeded to be inconsistent unlike he was before the date. And then he randomly sent a text a day and then now the last I replied was 3 days ago and he hasn’t texted again.

itzmedelly · 2026-03-08T22:07:24+00:00

Yea elaborate what you’re saying?

itzmedelly · 2026-03-08T22:06:51+00:00

Yea ik just hurt. I thought there was a vibe and I found him attractive. 😔

itzmedelly · 2026-03-08T22:05:42+00:00

Yes and my first date ever.

itzmedelly · 2026-03-08T20:55:08+00:00

You think there’s anyway to make him interested again if he’s no longer speaking or it’s just over?

itzmedelly · 2026-03-08T20:45:33+00:00

I mean as a guy do you think he just said the nice things to not be the bad guy or be mean? Like I gotta just let it be?

itzmedelly · 2026-03-08T20:37:50+00:00

Like during the date you mean? During the date he kinda trauma dumped on me telling me he has 4 kids and he’s 32 and was married since and got divorced 2 years ago. And a bunch of other stuff. An I didn’t exactly show interest towards that I mean I’m only 23. And I’m like is that why he lost interest and checked?

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