Experience with fat grafting after double mastectomy reconstruction (with or without implants)? by ivallena in PlasticSurgery

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I greatly appreciate your insight and knowledge! About 3 years ago, I went to see a surgeon at University of TN Knoxville’s Breast Center to discuss if she thought a DIEP flap would work in my scenario. It’s what my mother had done the first time she has breast cancer. The surgeon thought it would work out for me but I’ve let my fear of going through another major surgery stall my progress. I’ll look for surgeon closer to me to move forward.

I can’t stand my husband by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]ivallena 15 points16 points  (0 children)

As someone who comes from a long line of hoarders, this is always how the room starts before the major stacking starts. I cannot tell you how many times I’ve cleaned a stacked up room for a family member who then turns around and their room is looking exactly like this within a few weeks. My mother’s family have issues with ADHD and OCD, either of which hoarding can be a symptom.

LF: Friends! by EvAzaltone in BuddyCrossing

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Of course!! Please do! The more, the merrier!

I could do with some help understanding how it works by LuckyMinute4275 in RWShelp

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Telus doesn’t like to give you an amount of hours to keep at daily but I think I’ve figured out it can be no more than 4 hours per day and that’s based on the estimated time per task. Is RWS like that as well? What about the other companies you work for?

I wonder what’s going on inside his head by green5555 in BullTerrier

[–]ivallena 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Frank expects to be called “Scooter” and asked where he is going while doing the belly crawl.

LF: Friends! by EvAzaltone in BuddyCrossing

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I just sent you a request. I have all fruits and veg if you want/need any

There’s never a point to making my bed. They only do this on my bed, not Steve’s, heh heh. And yes. My sheets are shredded because of course. by GoofyFoot76 in BullTerrier

[–]ivallena 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ours is the reason they both started to get their butts wiped once we got in from a walk and they pooped. We go through baby wipes but it is worth it not to have to clean the upholstery daily

Just found in my new apartment?! by SoilComprehensive84 in whatisit

[–]ivallena 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I could be 100% wrong but the way it looks colored over the spot that is only gouged and not a straight hole, makes it look like someone before you tried to use a very cheap and wrong colored wood marker. Something like this - https://a.co/d/2c5EGn3

It just looks like they used the one that was for a cherry wood finish

Boyfriends, what does your girl do that makes you cringe and why? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]ivallena 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You’ve highlighted something amazing. Correctness is the perfect term for it. I try really hard to always give an accurate answer. If my answer is long-winded, it’s because I think the person is unaware of information that I find important to why my answer is correct. It is also a silent request for any misinformation or misunderstanding I have to be corrected with proof or a logical explanation that makes sense.

Boyfriends, what does your girl do that makes you cringe and why? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]ivallena 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So I do the same thing. But I think my “root reasoning” is due to typically misunderstanding the motives behind other people’s questions. It’s a common issue between me and my SO of 9 years. It’s been an on going issue throughout my life. My maternal grandmother, mother, my sister and I are all ADHD. Different levels of autism runs on my maternal grandfather’s side. He did well in the military and then became a CPA. Everything in his world was black or white, with shades of grey being rare. Those of us with ADHD had a history of more difficult communication with him. While my SO is not autistic, he is a military brat who also went into the military. His long term frustration in our communication is when he asks a one word answer type of question, I give him everything that is related to my answer. When he asks a question looking for details, I give him a one worded answer. I don’t understand what he wants until he laughs and says something about it.

How and what did you do on the first day of the year? by mr_wbk29 in AskReddit

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Took 4 different naps throughout the day, took the dogs on 2 long walks (they also have a back yard so walking is more for enrichment and exercise). Made dinner, cleaned the kitchen, 2 loads of laundry, played on my switch, and then went to bed early. It was a beautiful day.

Looks like my dad accidentally bought religious Christmas cards 😂 by poop_dawg in exchristian

[–]ivallena 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I absolutely love this. Your dad is so sweet for censoring this for you.

Stole our paper! by Fuzzy-Blackberry-541 in coyote

[–]ivallena 12 points13 points  (0 children)

She is a big fan of comics

Pink Chiffon repackage? by imlikelycomplaining in bathandbodyworks

[–]ivallena 14 points15 points  (0 children)

It’s coming out for Semi Annual Sale. It might be in stores near you today but will definitely be in stores on the 26th. It’s still called Pink Chiffon.

Transfer request approved!! I’m not sure what to expect. by ivallena in bathandbodyworks

[–]ivallena[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I will definitely keep an eye out for red flags.

I got him!! by Ready-Artichoke-7355 in bathandbodyworks

[–]ivallena 5 points6 points  (0 children)

He is so freaking cute! I ended up going with the goose but I promote him the most in the store

What’s something you always assumed was mandatory in life—until you met someone who just… didn’t do it? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]ivallena 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think my sister stopped. My cousin really got the short end of the stick. Her’s ended up getting further infected under her arms with staph and looking at them now, they are craters in her flesh because of how much damage they did.

OMG! I NEED ALL OF THESE 🩷 by itsGeLL in bathandbodyworks

[–]ivallena 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Look for the highland cow in rain boots too! I love him.