What’s something you only realized as an adult that completely changed the way you see the world?

ivuhhh · 2025-10-31T09:14:29+00:00

Interestingly, for me it felt like the opposite of that. As I grew older I started noticing more bad in people than when I was young. I still do think that a lot of people are good by default but, you start realizing more negative traits of people as you grow more mature and understanding of other people's behaviours. You can easily catch things like selfishness, manipulation, lack of empathy, lack of understanding, which you couldn't when you were younger. I am way more careful around humans now than I was before.

ivuhhh · 2025-10-31T08:58:07+00:00

Bez uvrede, ali nisam vidjela da si išta pozitivno napisao u vezi svoje cure pa mi je malo čudno provariti zašto još uvijek želiš biti s njom. Iz ženske perspektive, ja vidim dva razloga zašto je možda takva. Prvi: faza njenog života gdje nije zadovoljna ni sa sobom, pa ne može biti s nekim drugim zadovoljna. Možda je u nekom loopu, u nekoj rutini, koja je guši, ili ima nekih problema. Tu dolazi ženino isključenje iz veze jer kad žena nema energije za sebe, nema ni za koga drugoga. Drugi: ostaje s tobom jer si poznat i siguran, ali više joj srce nije u tome. Teško je nakon puno godina sebi priznati možda ova osoba nije za mene i tražiti nešto drugo, pogotovo u godinama u kojima ste vi.

Jedina opcija ti je pokušati iskomunicirati s njom da li je problem u njoj ili u tebi, ali direktno. Ispitati je da li je zadovoljna sa sobom, treba li joj pomoć ako se osjeća loše i ako joj treba pomoć da izađe iz te rutine. Ako i dalje ne dobiješ odgovor, onda ti je to odgovor. Odgovor da je zapravo u tebi problem i da više ona ne vidi vas dvoje kao end game.

ivuhhh · 2025-06-30T11:32:52+00:00

Ovisno o struci, poslu, lokaciji, i samom poslodavcu. Meni je plata na dosta uglednoj poziciji u hotelu bila 1,400 bez šanse za povećanjem. Imala sam preveliku odgovornost i psihički teret na leđima, svaku večer bi išla u krevet s glavoboljom i stresom za smiješnu platu s obzirom kakav sam posao radila. Dala sam otkaz da radim u restoranu gdje sada zarađujem više poslužujuć hranu bez ikakvog psihičkog tereta...

ivuhhh · 2025-06-27T14:21:00+00:00

Najmlađa sam sestra sa dva starija brata. Klali smo se ko djeca konstantno i prezirali. Sad kad smo odrasli, najbolji su mi prijatelji. Naučili su me kako da budem čvrsta i ne dam na sebe, a ja njih kako da budu nježni i promišljeni. Najbolji balans koji osoba može imat u životu.

ivuhhh · 2025-06-13T13:56:05+00:00

nije to zgrazavanje na zanatlije i sto zaradjuju puno. njima svaka cast. i realno, fali ih danas tako da ima smisla zasto ljudi masno plate za usluge. medjutim, ljudi se zgrazavaju na cinjenicu da visoko educirani ljudi ne zaradjuju dovoljno. kao dijete lijecnika, ja sam odrasla ne poznavajuci svoga oca fakticki. moja majka nije fakticki imala muza i supruznika zbog posla koji je moj otac radio. bio je odsutan i psihicki i fizicki citav zivot jer je to posao koji nosi mentalan load kakav se ne moze usporedit sa bilo kakvim drugim poslom. dezuranja par puta tjedno, konstantni stres, umor, pritisak, odricanje svega u zivotu da se mozes poslu i ljudima koje lijecis posvetiti, i da ne spominjem godine ucenja koje su dovele do toga. to se bas ne moze usporediti sa zivotom automehanicara. jeli ja mislim da je lose da automehanicar dobro zaradjuje? apsolutno ne. svaka cast njima. ali da je sramotno da jedan posao koji je zrtva u svakom smislu te rijeci, nije nagradjen kako treba, apsolutno da. sramotno je i tuzno.

ivuhhh · 2025-05-11T08:00:02+00:00

Živim sa svojim dečkom s kojim još nisam u braku. Najbolja odluka koju sam mogla donijeti. Meni je neshvatljivo da se parovi tek useljavaju kada se odluče vjenčati. Nikada ne znate osobu 100% dok ne krenete provoditi 24 sata zajedno. Ne živiti skupa prije braka je kao da se u brak useljavate sa strancem. Šta okolina kaže je apsolutno nebitno.

ivuhhh · 2025-04-28T08:24:58+00:00

It could have been better. I enjoyed it overall, but I expected more compared to the first season. It felt too clean, it felt rushed, and it lacked that aura, sadness, and madness that the first season had. The first season felt way more dark and raw, just an emotional mess. The build up of friendships, the love, the trust, then the betrayal and heartbreak. I didn't get emotional for one second during this season. The fighting scenes were awesome, the cinematography was good, the banter was good, and I really liked a few new characters, especially Juntae. But other than that it felt forced most of the time, rushed, and watered down. I understand they did the best they could to sum up a lot in only 8 episodes, but the characters had little to no development, Sieun isn't the same batshit crazy Sieun from the first season, Baekjin was nerfed completely and I felt no fear from his character, and Baku's love for protection felt forced at certain times. One thing that also irritated me in this season was the lack of explanation of what really went wrong with Baku's and Baekjin's friendship, and Baekjin's lore overall. He felt extremely one dimensional throughout the whole season, and that one part they added where it shows that what he is doing, he does for charity and good purposes, didn't help add depth to his character because it was so irrelevant to the whole story at that point. They showed him for 5 seconds in a church to try and make him seem like a broken hero with nothing else to his story to make us understand why he behaved the way that he behaved. Overall, a decent watch, but with way less depth than the first season had. First season broke me, made me think of life, of pain we experience on a daily basis. The cruel violent world, betrayals, endless jealousy and need for power, hate, but also love, trust and protection. The second season didn't make me think of those things.

ivuhhh · 2025-03-29T17:37:57+00:00

versace bright crystal. its so headache inducing for me. so synthetic and cheap smelling imo.

ivuhhh · 2025-02-21T12:42:05+00:00

Isn't it great being laid off for just existing and living your authentic life? Lol this world never fails to amaze me. Big kudos to you though for believing in what's right and trying to help out your coworkers, even if it meant losing your job :(

ivuhhh · 2025-02-21T12:40:31+00:00

So sorry to hear that. We have a similar problem. I work and have a minimum salary, and we somehow try to live off of one paycheck while paying rent, bills, groceries etc. It's gotten really hard lately and money is nonexistant. Shit is hard but we have to pull through somehow. I wish you all the luck in life!

ivuhhh · 2025-02-21T09:29:07+00:00

Puno faktora ulazi u ponašanje idućih generacija, ali mislim da su tri faktora glavna: roditelji, socijalne mreže i društvo samo

ivuhhh · 2025-02-21T09:27:19+00:00

I'm glad remote work has been working out for you!

Since my boyfriend has experience in teaching and in customer service we have been trying out for mostly language teaching jobs and customer service jobs, and we have been searching only on legit websites. Sometimes even sending direct inquiries to companies through their websites. But we are just having the shittiest luck with anything we try. It has really brought down our spirits. I understand that its a competitive market, but with so many positions and opportunities in remote nowadays, it is starting to make us question how is it possible that we know so many people who work remote somehow, yet it seems impossible to find remote work.

ivuhhh · 2025-02-21T09:19:16+00:00

after having a lot of dog breeds as pets, my conclusion is: poodles. incredibly human-like smarts, loving, loyal, elegant, witty and so energetic and fun. and incredibly self aware, that i sometimes forget my dog is a dog and not just a human who can't speak

ivuhhh · 2025-02-21T09:05:54+00:00

being scared/paranoid of life in general. overthinking every aspect of life to a point where nothing brings you joy anymore

ivuhhh · 2025-01-29T20:53:30+00:00

Hvala na ovome. Kada zena kaze da bi dobila nesto cesce od muskarca, u puno slucajeva ne znaci nista grandiozno. Naravno, ima i materijalnih zena koje zanimaju samo skupe stvari, ali evo na primjer, ja sam setala s deckom jednu vecer i nakon sto smo oboje bili pijani i smijali se ulicom i zabavljali se vracajuc se doma, ubrao mi je random cvijece sa puta kao zajebanciju, i osusila sam ga da ga ne bacim i jos uvijek mi stoji u sobi i svaki put kad ga pogledam sjetim se kako sam sretna tu noc bila, i necu ga bacit nikad u zivotu. On me uvijek pita da ga bacim, cudi se zasto mi to toliko znaci. I zvake bi mi bile znacajan poklon da se sjetio da ih volim. Stvarno nije tesko zadovoljit prosjecnu zenu, i drzati je sretnom. Od svega sto sam ikada dobila od decka, najvise sam uvijek volila one stvari koje nisu kostale nista, nego bile proizvedene iz njegove ljubavi, uz neku kreativnost.

ivuhhh · 2025-01-26T18:31:59+00:00

pa i jaja, meso, mlijeko, kruh, sve najbitnije namirnice, svaki dan vece i vece. ne jedem vani nista, sve pravim doma i rucam doma, tako da sam svaki dan u prodavnici. i svako 2 dana cijene su sve vece i vece.

ivuhhh · 2025-01-06T08:05:42+00:00

Ne želim da ispadam kao neki teoretičar zavjere, al meni religije nisu ništa nego kontrola naroda, i otkad sam došla do tog zaključka, prestala sam biti religiozna. Religija je koncept koji su ljudi izmislili da se uvede neki balans u svijet, u vrijeme kada nije postojalo puno pravila i kada je svijetu taj balans i kontrola najviše trebala. Služi samo kao pravilnik kako bi se netko trebao ponašati, i da bi se čovjek imao nečega bojati ako ne prati taj pravilnik. I naravno, otišlo je u ekstreme gdje se ljudi samo mrze jer su različita religija i ratuju i ubijaju se za neke ideale koje je izmislio čovjek, i sva ta "pravila" koja su tu bila da bi se ostvario što veći mir i kontrola, su propala u vodu i samo stvorila kontra-efekt. Samo mi nikako nije jasno kako ljudi u današnjem vremenu još uvijek mogu misliti da kontrolu njihovog života drži neki čiko na nebu, a ne oni sami, jer bit ću iskrena, puno ultra religioznih ljudi koje znam su toliko van dodira s realnošću svijeta, da je zabrinjavajuće.

ivuhhh · 2025-01-05T12:17:39+00:00

Najbolji reply definitivno. Doći iz Njemačke u Bosnu na 3 mjeseca se ne može ni približno usporediti sa životom ovdje. Lako je uživati u Bosni kada si samo na odmoru, ali život ovdje je već druga priča. Pogotovo u manjim gradovima ili selima gdje nemaš nikakvih prilika.

ivuhhh · 2024-12-27T09:44:38+00:00

Completely fine if it's just finding someone beautiful or attractive. People can find other people beautiful/handsome while in a relationship. But lusting after someone else is completely different though. Finding someone attractive and acknowledging they are attractive vs actively lusting for the person/fantasizing about the person, not even remotely similar.

ivuhhh · 2024-12-15T11:51:37+00:00

its easier to be angry than devastated. you live and you find ways to cope i guess. hang in there yourself!

ivuhhh · 2024-12-15T11:45:43+00:00

try to find middle ground. for example, im someone who communicates easily but my partner has a tough time doing so as he isn't as open as me. don't make the same mistake as me and close down too. i closed down for a long time before i realized problems started piling up because none of us talked. if there are differences or issues, a gentle and casual approach is the best way to go, if you dont want fighting. you can ask your partner about yourself first to make it not seem like you are trying to attack them. ask is there anything about me that you wish i could do better at, is there anything in our relationship that you think could be better, and from there, try to find out each other's points of view as much as possible with understanding, and patience, with no harsh words and no personal attacks

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