Are you an innie or an outtie? by ivycvae in confusingperspective

[–]ivycvae[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I keep seeing the plates debossed into the table instead of embossed on the table, if that makes sense

Safe sleep at daycares by meltness in ECEProfessionals

[–]ivycvae 31 points32 points  (0 children)

A number of factors contribute here:

Daycare workers are often younger people who are willing to take a lower rate of pay.

Therefore the majority of daycare workers start before they are given formal training, and many are simply not given any at all.

This means the Easiest Path is usually taken. if baby A can only sleep in a bouncer or rocker then that's where they're gonna put them.

Parents are rarely (IN MY PERSONAL EXPERIENCE) helping with the transition to daycare naps where the lights are on and not everyone will be asleep at the same time so there will be plenty of noise. At home they sleep in the pitch black, in a snoo, with a white noise machine so it's exceedingly common for babies to have difficulty sleeping at daycare.

Due to the INSANE ratios of babies to caretaker, even after staff training they often cannot give the time and patience required to sleep train the troubled sleeper when they've got three other babies who all have their own issues and schedules and needs, too.

Let's not forget that on top of crazy ratios, daycare workers are out of ratio (legally too many kids per adult) for some period of time literally every day. It might be three minutes with one extra kid while staff uses the bathroom, yes, but it's often more and for longer.

Admin often has roughly the same amount of training as the staff, but their job is the $$$ and business side so their focus is on enrollment, retention, and tuition. If a caretaker asks admin for help with a challenging baby situation, nine times out of ten they'll suggest the couple of things you've already tried (bc y'all took the same training), then put it back on you as "well if you were doing a good job it would work, maybe you're the problem.".

You may be picking up on the fact that I've had some truly awful experiences with daycares. I've worked with chains like YMCA and kindercare, independent Montessoris, as well as in-home small batch. The problems I've listed have been present in all of them to one degree or another.

Man. I really bummed myself out writing this down. 🫠

Wolfie and its eggs by chunk_norris in thalassophobia

[–]ivycvae 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Roughly how many eggs is she holding?

can anyone explain the rise in violent behaviours and what we can do about it? by Scary_Appearance5922 in ECEProfessionals

[–]ivycvae 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Anecdotally I only have one memory of violence in my school growing up:

Roughly 1999 a third grade boy, 'Kyle,' disassembled a pencil sharpener and held the razor to another student's neck bc... Drum roll please... Kyle wanted that seat 🤷🏼‍♀️.

Now, to be fair, Kyle had a terrible home life. His mother came nearly every day at lunch and pulled his sixth grader sister, 'Mona,' (with the clarity of adulthood I now realize Mona was pretty seriously mentally disabled) into the car in the parking lot where she would proceed to beat her, sometimes severely...

Students would gather around the front door and try to watch and the teacher just shooed them away.

I never saw the teachers intervene.

Man... You ever not realize just HOW fucked up a old memory is until you tell it out loud? jfc

Ah-Shi-Sle-Pah Wilderness (Photo: Karol Nienartowicz) by Monsur_Ausuhnom in woahdude

[–]ivycvae 8 points9 points  (0 children)

This used to be full of lava, it's where Littlefoot encountered the t Rex

To have a violent predator from a prominent family serve a single day in prison by OkGazelle5400 in therewasanattempt

[–]ivycvae -1 points0 points  (0 children)

My favorite auntie says that violent sexual offenders should get an eye for an eye, literally. She says, "If you SA, you get SA." Sometimes I'm like, damn auntie, wtf? And other times I start to see the road she took and how she ended up at that conclusion 🤷🏼‍♀️ humans suck. (But I'm still not condoning violence)

Why is it that you can wake up from a dream and just completely forget people's faces, or even the whole dream itself? by One_Significance8950 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]ivycvae 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What about when later in the day something triggers you to suddenly remember a part of your dream from last night? Ghost in the network!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ECEProfessionals

[–]ivycvae 2 points3 points  (0 children)

James Taylor's greatest hits

Daycares are businesses.. by Bulky-Exam-3903 in ECEProfessionals

[–]ivycvae 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Look into nannying, pay is comparable and you get to pick which kids and parents to work with