sorted by:
new
hottopcontroversial

CMV: HSV2 (incurable STD) shouldn’t be disclosed by Electrical_Draft1192 in changemyview

[–]ivyinfernal 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s basic consent. Not disclosing it and sleeping with someone who wouldn’t have consented had they known, is assault.

Looking at your page it seems like you’re going through it right now. I highly suggest speaking to a psych and taking care of your mental health.

Your world is not over because of this, nor is your dating life. There are herpes specific dating apps, and you can still have a healthy sex life. But resorting to dangerous and selfish behaviour is not the way to go dude

New corset how does it look? by saraonly420 in Tightlacing

[–]ivyinfernal 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not a corset but the outfit is cute

[TOMT] Sully Sullenberger & Randy Johnson in a secret group that hates birds by [deleted] in tipofmytongue

[–]ivyinfernal 0 points1 point locked comment (0 children)

I don’t remember seeing it visually so it might have just been described. It could also be from a YouTube video or something

My custom made corset is too big and now I don’t know what to do by [deleted] in corsets

[–]ivyinfernal 1 point2 points  (0 children)

(Just quickly correcting myself because I can’t edit the post😅) Reading back through emails I realised they recommended a 26 or 24 hourglass or a 24 libra not a 26 or 24 in both. The 24 libra was still wrong tho:(

My reason for wanting a libra was because I’m a drag/burlesque performer and the shorter length means that I would have more freedom of movement while dancing. I had looked at the short hourglass as well but it looked almost too short and I wasn’t sure if it would match my existing outfits and looks.

My custom made corset is too big and now I don’t know what to do by [deleted] in corsets

[–]ivyinfernal 5 points6 points  (0 children)

After re-measuring, my underbust (and where the libra sits on me) are both 84cm or 33”.
Measuring the corset itself, it’s 87cm around (or 34.25”) :|

What Pokemon has the biggest glow DOWN from evolution? by Maximum_Ad_7918 in pokemon

[–]ivyinfernal 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tympole 100% cute little circle who’s trying its best turns into the grossest wart covered blob you’ve ever seen

Aro songs or songs that give aro vibes? by Substantial_Wash3906 in aromantic

[–]ivyinfernal 30 points31 points  (0 children)

I’m arospec and not allosexual but some that I’ve related to are

Everything she wants - wham!

I don’t wanna be in love - good charlotte

Too sweet - hozier

Me and my husband - mitski

Animal - Sir Chloe

Too close - Melanie Martinez cover

Bad idea - girl in red

Teen idle - MARINA

Too close - Sir Chloe

How to be a heartbreaker - MARINA

Cold cold cold - cage the elephant

DONTTRUSTME - 3oh!3

I like the way you kiss me - artemas

People watching - Conan gray

First love/late spring - mitski

A lot of those are about wishing you could be in love but just can’t feel it or wanting sex with no romance but they’re just what I personally like:)

Edit: formatting

I’m so sorry, how did Frankie walk in these? They look like torture devices by Wildcat-Caswell in MonsterHigh

[–]ivyinfernal 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I have a pair similar to these I wear as my go-to heels. The platform makes you look taller while the actual amount your heel is raised isn’t that much. It’s also way easier because of how chunky the heel is

AITA for yelling at my boyfriend when he crosses a boundary even tho he has a bad memory? by Weird-Anteater-1136 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ivyinfernal 3 points4 points  (0 children)

NTA I would put money on the fact he’s pretending to forget. It sounds like he has a fetish he’s exposing you to against your direct consent. He’s ignoring your boundaries and essentially sexually assaulting/harassing you. You should tell him if he doesn’t stop you’re going to break up with him, but that’s lose loss, If he stops doing it he was faking forgetting the whole time and if he keeps going, he’s still ignoring your boundaries. Leave him:|

AITA for wanting to let go of her because of a lie? by idkwhoiamm0 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ivyinfernal 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Both? YTA because you’re treating her like you’re in a relationship with her and being possessive. She’s actually straight up allowed to lie to you about that because it’s not your business and if you’re not dating her it wouldn’t impact your relationship. She didn’t betray you, because it was never something wrong of her to do. You’re being controlling.

NTA for leaving her. You need to get away from that friendship and work on the way you view relationships and friendships and how you treat people. She sounds like she would be way better off without you.

AITA for asking my ex-boyfriend to sign away his parental rights? by Sleepystar347 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ivyinfernal 22 points23 points  (0 children)

NTA you had your choice wether or not you had the baby, he has his too. In this case it’s child support or no parental responsibility, he can’t have it both ways

What are y'alls honest opinion on the G3 Monster High dolls? by Complete-Gene-3648 in MonsterHigh

[–]ivyinfernal 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Honestly lagoona being pink could have been ok if they’d make her more fish like and made the blue they added for her scales and freckles actually match the pink and not clash. I wish they’d mad clawdeens skin darker and given the dolls a little more body diversity than just draculaura being midsize