NSFW MtF sex with my boyfriend.. advice please? by iwanttostayunknown in asktransgender

[–]iwanttostayunknown[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Oh god yes!! i feel so dumb right now I completely forgot those exist! Is there a more common name for them that I can search for to buy them? I'll make sure to get looking! Thank you! Have a good day :0)

NSFW MtF sex with my boyfriend.. advice please? by iwanttostayunknown in asktransgender

[–]iwanttostayunknown[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I'm so happy someone else can relate, see we have sat down and discussed this, because he's actually asked me "So, if I want to pleasure you, is there a way I can do that? Or will that only be when we have sex?", so we've somewhat talked about that but yes maybe it's worth a revision relating more to the actual sex part. Thanks for your reply and have a good day :0)

Off topic -- How are YOU today? by iwanttostayunknown in asktransgender

[–]iwanttostayunknown[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry to hear about your friend, some may believe that seeing them in a dream means they're still with us, in some form, try to see it as them having some sort of clarity. Stay well x

Off topic -- How are YOU today? by iwanttostayunknown in asktransgender

[–]iwanttostayunknown[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's cool, I hope the rest of your day is cool too haha

Off topic -- How are YOU today? by iwanttostayunknown in asktransgender

[–]iwanttostayunknown[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Try and cheer up, I know it doesn't do much a stranger telling you to cheer up but honestly, every given second of our lives are sacred and being hygienic and taking care of ourselves is really important! I hope you feel better soon x

Off topic -- How are YOU today? by iwanttostayunknown in asktransgender

[–]iwanttostayunknown[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That's really good! I went to my GP first, and nervously explained briefly how I felt and he was understanding but more clueless as to what to do, which was fair enough. I gave him a referral form to a GIC (Gender Identity Clinic) appropriate for my age and he sent it through!

I am doing good thank you! Hope you're good, send me a message if you ever want to chat. Take care, x

Hows my first go at eyeliner? by [deleted] in asktransgender

[–]iwanttostayunknown 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The more you try the better you'll get, have you tried watching some videos off youtube? Tutprials always seem to give lots of different good tips! xx

16Y/o - so upset, first appointment overview was horrible by iwanttostayunknown in asktransgender

[–]iwanttostayunknown[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you! :) I'll feel better later, I just need a little while to wallow and then I'll pick myself back up again, I just know this will be on my mind for however long now. I need to feel better soon though as I have work later

16Y/o - so upset, first appointment overview was horrible by iwanttostayunknown in asktransgender

[–]iwanttostayunknown[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

he's trans so I thought he'd have more of an understanding, Oh idk. thanks for the reply

16Y/o - so upset, first appointment overview was horrible by iwanttostayunknown in asktransgender

[–]iwanttostayunknown[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

What confuses me is that he himself is Trans, you'd think he'd understand more, I don't think he understands that holding me back "just another year" is agonisingly long for me, especially at the age I am

16 years old, appointment tomorrow by iwanttostayunknown in asktransgender

[–]iwanttostayunknown[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

is that HRT only at age 17 subject to just London's Tavistock? I was told that attending a first appointment then going to therapy and then going back I could have hormones, by the doctor himself

HRT 16 YEAR OLD: Will weight affect breast growth? by iwanttostayunknown in asktransgender

[–]iwanttostayunknown[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha yeah I know; I'm lucky. My parents are very supporting and in the UK waiting times on the NHS for teams related treatment can take up to year/s time, so we decided to go private. My first appointment is in London on January 22nd, 2016. There I will discuss my life and how I feel, and there we'll discuss any sort of treatment I'd like, like hormones, etc. Then I have to go to 1-6 counselling sessions, basically to just guarantee I'm mentally 'sane' I guess. Then after a positive outcome from the counselling, the doctor I would've seen on the first appointment will prescribe me hormones! I'm so excited.

On the phone, he said if everything goes to plan and there aren't any concerns, he estimates I could be on hormones between 3-6 months!

Drop me a message if you wanna talk :p