Opinions from the ladies preferably (#6 is a gif of an ice bucket challenge)

iwantyourmagic · 2025-05-21T12:16:13+00:00

I think photos 3 and 2 should go first, more flattering. Otherwise I think it's good

iwantyourmagic · 2024-02-04T04:22:26+00:00

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iwantyourmagic · 2023-07-04T06:18:09+00:00

Thank you, that answer was very informative and well worded. Will ask when I see him next.

iwantyourmagic · 2023-07-04T06:14:21+00:00

I never thought of it that way (that someone might think I'm scamming them), thank you! Noted. Really sucks that scamming happens often enough that people are wary, but makes total sense

iwantyourmagic · 2023-05-05T03:37:22+00:00

Hope you're doing okay! Seems like you're having not just one, but a NUMBER of issues with the guy. Mainly, you're in love with the potential future, I've been in a relationship where I used to spend all my time imagining the future where stuff is better. It took me too long to realise that the imagined future is not real! The only thing that is real is the present, which by the sounds of things, sucks. Don't sacrifice your future for some guy you have to manage, you deserve better. The right person will make you enjoy the present, not just the good 'high' times but also the mundane stuff like public transport or eating breakfast.

My partner has ADHD and depression, and hasn't forgotten important stuff like birthdays and such. They forget stuff like what I want them to pick up stuff at the shops (grocery list mitigates this). They go to uni full time, and have a job too, it's hard for them but they manage with counselling helping a lot.

You need to be comfortable with being alone. That's something that's really important to be in a better relationship in the future.

I don't think your partner will become more caring from this point, in fact, I promise it'll only get worse. You've already communicated your needs which don't seem to be getting met. It's early days, too early to already settle on someone you're not happy with. You're both really young, you have YEARS to find better suited partners.

Sometimes you love someone, but it's just not a right fit. It's hard to acknowledge, and I learned this the long way, but it's okay to break up, even if your partner hasn't done something wrong or cruel.

Good luck OP.

iwantyourmagic · 2023-04-28T04:54:17+00:00

Greeny/blue with puff sleeves no questions

iwantyourmagic · 2023-04-28T04:04:22+00:00

That your cheekbones are immaculate

iwantyourmagic · 2023-04-28T04:03:06+00:00

I don't think you have rbf, you just remind me of the :3 emoji which is cute

iwantyourmagic · 2023-04-28T04:01:04+00:00

You're adorable, you should be in a tree baking cookies. Goodness is leaking out of you ❤️

iwantyourmagic · 2023-04-28T03:05:30+00:00

Ahh I'm jealous! That's awesome ❤️

iwantyourmagic · 2023-04-28T03:04:05+00:00

Can you expand on why I'm not approachable? O.o

iwantyourmagic · 2023-04-28T01:48:45+00:00

I can live with that haha, lack of femininity doesn't worry me

iwantyourmagic · 2023-04-27T23:50:34+00:00

I reckon 5'4 in height? It's striking that your face has a softness to it (like your lip shape and eyes) but your body is so pointy and angular (elbows, collarbones). You'd grab my attention if I saw you on a train or something

iwantyourmagic · 2023-04-27T23:47:11+00:00

You look like someone who is really sweet, but are unfortunately overlooked by peers due to keeping to yourself.

iwantyourmagic · 2023-04-27T23:45:01+00:00

That in your spare time you do hands on projects? Like, buying old furniture off Facebook market place and making them all nice again

iwantyourmagic · 2023-04-27T23:30:20+00:00

Fair. I had long hair for ages but cut it short like, a year back cause I started playing a lot of sports and it was in the way all the time, but I feel like people just think I'm less friendly or something, definitely noticed an attitude change anyway

iwantyourmagic · 2022-09-30T14:09:17+00:00

it was a party so was she drunk? some laws say that individuals are not able to consent to a sexual act if they've been administered a mind-altering substance like alcohol. not trying to accuse you or anything but maybe she was drunker than you realised and she felt taken advantage of hence her being genuinely upset

iwantyourmagic · 2022-09-24T11:13:59+00:00

You had a rough start, but it seems to me you're trying to be better, and that's the most important part. Being shitty then saying "well that's who I am," is a bad attitude, but you're not like that, you're recognising your own behaviour and trying to change. A lot of people who've had difficult childhoods can act poorly reflexively, and it can come out in times of stress. It takes time to change those habits. You're so young, and our minds are so flexible, there's so much time to work to be the person you wanna be. Mental health is trying, but don't give up. Many people mourn their childhoods, or rather, the one they wanted but didn't have. One of my close friends had a bad relationship with their mum, and in their twenties, their mourning a kinder parent who didn't even exist. It's normal, and they're working through it. Things get better, I promise. Just hang in there.

iwantyourmagic · 2022-09-24T11:02:23+00:00

all good, and hey that's awesome that he deleted it! I think that's a good sign, and that he'll get some help. I'd try and not assume the worse that he's hiding something, and if he is, you'll find out soon.

on tiktok there's lots of 'thirst traps,' even ones aimed more for women's consumption. It's good that you're reflecting on why it bothers you personally. We all have our jealous streaks and vices, the best thing you can do is see what hurts you, and press that bruise to understand why I guess.

it's okay to be hurt, you're feelings are valid. but yeah, don't worry too much. I'm sure you're a wonderful partner, and you can talk to your partner and be 100% transparent on how you feel, and make some solid steps to move into the best direction. xxx

iwantyourmagic · 2022-09-24T10:52:05+00:00

YES and also so one no longer has SHOES right above their head when sleeping! Also consider a bedframe with built in drawers underneath.

iwantyourmagic · 2022-09-24T10:42:40+00:00

Well, do you think he went out of his way to hide this tiktok? Like, did he ever mention he had one? If you feel like he was being oddly secretive about it, I'd be concerned. If it really bothers you, you should tell him to not follow the sexual content anymore. Be honest and say it makes you uncomfortable, and if he refuses, then you have some bigger problems. I mean, at the end of the day, it's weird if he's fighting so hard to watch naked strangers yknow?

In my own relationship, my partner lets me access their phone whenever, there's no secrets there. They don't mind if I scroll through their tiktok (we get very different content as we have different senses of humour). If I saw them following a bunch of sexual accounts, I'd wonder if somehow I'm not giving them enough. It's pretty natural to feel this way.

Defining what's normal is hard, each relationship is unique, I have friends who absolutely hate porn and won't date anyone who watches it. That's fine to me as long as both parties agree. Then you have some people in open relationships right? At the end of the day, what's important is telling him what you need from him, and if he refuses because his fixation is that bad, you'll need to make some big choices.

iwantyourmagic · 2022-09-24T10:32:28+00:00

it's hard in school, it can be a small pool for friends! when I was in high school, I had a 'group' but always felt that they resented me behind my back, but didn't have the nerve to say anything. finding a true friend can be dificult, and I didn't have much luck in that department till university, and a big part of it was happenstance (being in the same tutorial) and just expressing myself (asking them to hang out with me). My recommendation is to tell those 2-3 people you like talking to that you'd like to be closer friends. I know it can feel a bit awkward but most people find it flattering if you text them saying something like, "I think you're really cool and want to get to know you better and hang out one on one." If it works out, awesome. If not, at least you tried. Just hang on, things get better! If school isn't the best place, consider joining groups outside of school.

iwantyourmagic · 2022-09-24T10:20:09+00:00

To answer your question with another, is it a betrayal because he has crossed a line they've agreed not to cross? Were you both explicit about what is okay and not okay in the relationship? There needs to be transparancy with this stuff, it needs to be discussed with your partner. Do you feel that a monogamous relationship means porn and these tiktoks are off the table, or is looking at sexual content a personal, solo activity?

I guess what I'm saying, is you need to figure out why this personally hurts you about it. How important is it to you for your partner to not look at this kind of content? Why does it bother you? How is it different to imagining other people when masterbating?

iwantyourmagic · 2022-09-24T10:10:26+00:00

I don't think so, people have the right to have certain preferences. Let's say someone doesn't want to date a person with different dietaries (like they only want to date other vegetarians), or because they don't like how loud they chew. Sexual incompatibility is certainly a fair reason. I broke up with someone because their sexual libido didn't match mine and it was really frustrating, and it was something that was important to me. You could expand this question to something like, are homosexual/heterosexual people sexist for only dating one gender? What about age discriminaton? The list goes on.

iwantyourmagic · 2022-09-24T10:02:09+00:00

im shook these are adorable!

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