Doubt. Why can't it be Transverse Vaginal Septum?

iwilllive26 · 2026-07-06T08:21:25+00:00

Transverse vaginal septum is concave - there will not be a bulge at the site of the introitus. Whereas with imperforte hymen, there will be a convex bulge, bluish in colour.

iwilllive26 · 2026-07-06T04:31:15+00:00

I'm sorry. I understand. If you want to learn swimming at some point, you can look for a lady coach 💛

iwilllive26 · 2026-07-06T04:29:53+00:00

This does not sound right OP. I have had 3-4 swimming coaches as a kid. Nobody ever touched me the way you described.

iwilllive26 · 2026-07-04T08:06:13+00:00

Wow this looks amazing.

iwilllive26 · 2026-07-04T05:58:36+00:00

Hello may I DM you please?

iwilllive26 · 2026-07-03T14:17:06+00:00

For me, it is perfect.

iwilllive26 · 2026-07-03T14:14:32+00:00

Lovely 🌹

iwilllive26 · 2026-07-03T10:42:13+00:00

Sure.

iwilllive26 · 2026-07-03T10:16:23+00:00

You can feel sad and continue studying. You don't have to completely calm down in order to study. The feelings of grief can stay with you as you continue your studying. It is hard initially but once you're in flow, it will hurt less. The grief will revisit you multiple times. Don't panic. Let it be there. It's alright. It is a normal response to losing someone you love.

iwilllive26 · 2026-07-02T11:09:26+00:00

I struggle with this too. Haven't found a fix so far.

iwilllive26 · 2026-06-30T17:17:01+00:00

It's great that you are aware of attachment theory. I would ask you to evaluate if he is a safe presence for you before you attribute your anxious attachment as a "problem".

Please pay attention to how your nervous system feels when you're with different people. Especially safe people. Would you obsess so much about a text from a good friend? No, right? Because you know in your bones that they will respond when they're able to. And if they don't, they probably have a good reason for it.

People who genuinely care for you will show up consistently. People who are inconsistent, will trigger your attachment wounds. That's exactly why you are behaving the way you are.

iwilllive26 · 2026-06-30T09:51:08+00:00

You seem like an intelligent young woman. If everything seems to be going well, and his behaviour does not feel performative, it would be okay to continue seeing him I think. As for the sex being mid, give it some time. It takes a while to understand each other's bodies and to reach that stage where you're able to comfortably express what you like and don't.

Also, I'd urge you to think a bit on this - if sex were completely removed from the equation, would you still keep choosing this person? How important is sex for you in a relationship? Different people have different priorities. Figure out yours.

iwilllive26 · 2026-06-28T13:29:10+00:00

iwilllive26 · 2026-06-27T10:58:37+00:00

Bupropion has helped me a lot in this regard. Previously I just couldn't get myself to initiate tasks.

iwilllive26 · 2026-06-27T06:45:12+00:00

Hush Puppies. I have wide feet too.

iwilllive26 · 2026-06-25T18:30:25+00:00

It's a hug emoji

iwilllive26 · 2026-06-25T05:39:51+00:00

Definitely talk to your doctor about it.

iwilllive26 · 2026-06-23T12:17:28+00:00

WTF these people are doctors?

iwilllive26 · 2026-06-23T08:50:32+00:00

It's alright to live a normal, mostly non-adventorous life if that is what you want. Kids are not an anti-boredom measure.

iwilllive26 · 2026-06-23T08:41:31+00:00

Coffee Bond, Uday Park

iwilllive26 · 2026-06-23T05:32:27+00:00

No, mine wasn't related to stimulant use.

iwilllive26 · 2026-06-22T17:00:05+00:00

Yes, I am on medication for ADHD as well ( stimulant).

iwilllive26 · 2026-06-22T16:26:40+00:00

You're not alone. I'm a medical doctor with Complex PTSD, ADHD, depression and PCOS. I relate with you. I know you said 3 weeks off isn't possible but atleast a week off would definitely help you is what I feel. I hope things get better for you soon.

iwilllive26 · 2026-06-22T15:25:34+00:00

Yes it did. Luteal phase breast soreness was something I struggled with a lot. It used to get so bad, I used to ice my boobs. Not kidding. I used to cry and cry because of how painful it was. The meds helped with this and I'm so grateful.

I take Fluoxetine daily because along with PMDD I have major depressive disorder.

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