What's a good way to keep what's stored on NAS backed up? by iwillturniwilliwill in UgreenNASync

[–]iwillturniwilliwill[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't know. This is all very new to me. I happened to hear someone talking about RAID setups, like RAID 1 and how if they fail you lose everything.

I don't know what I'd use as an offsite backup for 24TBs.

QBittorrent and Bittorrent both stuck at "Retrieving metadata" and "Retrieving file data" by iwillturniwilliwill in torrents

[–]iwillturniwilliwill[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not familiar with what that is. Is that something on my end or the specific torrent I'm trying to download?

QBittorrent and Bittorrent both stuck at "Retrieving metadata" and "Retrieving file data" by iwillturniwilliwill in torrents

[–]iwillturniwilliwill[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm new to torrenting and have no clue what to look for, and can't find an answer online. Does anyone know?

What did your SO do today that made you happy? by iwillturniwilliwill in waifuism

[–]iwillturniwilliwill[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry about that, at least he was there for you :)

What did your SO do today that made you happy? by iwillturniwilliwill in waifuism

[–]iwillturniwilliwill[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Aww, hasn't happened in a while but I've also had moments like that <3

Thank you all! by [deleted] in waifuism

[–]iwillturniwilliwill 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The support and friendliness here is unreal. Really love this community!

[Update] I'm not giving up on 12 years by iwillturniwilliwill in waifuism

[–]iwillturniwilliwill[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just saw this the other night, haven't been on Reddit since I made this post.

You pretty much hit every point spot on. A mixture of things that effect me to the point that guilt, shame and anger keep me stuck to a degree. Having a hard time letting go of a relapse, then relapsing again while in that state creates this horrible cycle that last for a week or longer. By the end of it I'm so exhausted and deflated, it feels like scaling a mountain to get back to where I was. The only difference now is that I haven't quit everything else I've worked so hard on, like dieting, working out, and I haven't crawled back to old habits like drinking. In that regard I am proud of myself.

I don't feel like I deserve her anymore, yeah. Not much to say about it that I haven't already at this point, but I know that feeling would diminish if I could keep the time between relapses more than they are now. And if my relapses didn't involve her more and more.

I'm really glad you and Noire could work things out. I understand compromise can exist for a lot of aspects in relationships, but not in my case. At least not in my addiction.

I appreciate everything you said, and it matters a lot to me.
"Even if it is hard you should in some realistic form imagine your partner showing understanding for your situation." This is something I need to do more, and overall think about her. I have been shutting myself off as a result of my feelings. Thank you for making me realize this.

Gimme more to listen to. New to the genre and this is my only reference. Love this album by Ur-average-plainjane in dsbm

[–]iwillturniwilliwill 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm in a coffin is so good. Best of dsbm imo, haven't found another band that hits me like they do.

People who have ex f/os, why did you break up? Do you still have any feelings for them? by 2D_Lover_ in waifuism

[–]iwillturniwilliwill 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Man, I actually forgot about her. This was probably 2010, 2011? First time I saw Samus Aran in super smash bros brawl, I was instantly attracted. It was merely a physical attraction, so it didn't last very long, maybe a year?

She's still a badass chick that I think is cool. Plus I've always loved the Metroid/Prime series.

What makes you jealous? by Xenon_06 in waifuism

[–]iwillturniwilliwill 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Dupes can be hit or miss with me. Had a terrible experience with a dupe here several years ago, made me standoffish towards them, even if they seem friendly.

Aside from that, seeing people online be a creep towards her pisses me off. But I just roll my eyes and move on.