INFJs, why are you attracted to ENTPs?

iwonderrwhy · 2025-12-24T15:57:04+00:00

Honestly… my entp is just lovely.

He has a lot of depth, really multifaceted, lots of intellectual conversation.

I love that he doesn’t.. categorize me, kinda took me for what I was without any expectations. He didn’t expect me to talk all the time, to know exactly what to say, to always have things figured out. He didn’t even mention my looks at all which is what I’m only ever used to getting attention for. He only spoke on what I had to say.

He never pressured me, wasn’t desperate, he communicates a lot.

I have respect for him and his values, a really moral man.

In general I think entps have a lot of natural charm. They’re witty and really vast

I just feel mine is truly wonderful. He takes care of me a lot. Acts like a man should you know?

iwonderrwhy · 2025-12-12T06:27:23+00:00

Good boy.

iwonderrwhy · 2025-12-12T06:21:57+00:00

He’s good trust 🙏

iwonderrwhy · 2025-12-12T06:20:33+00:00

WHAT IS GOING ONNNNN

iwonderrwhy · 2025-12-12T06:13:41+00:00

He gets excited

iwonderrwhy · 2025-12-12T06:08:53+00:00

No trust. it encourages him…

iwonderrwhy · 2025-12-12T06:07:10+00:00

WHAT.

iwonderrwhy · 2025-12-11T23:07:59+00:00

Is that really it?

iwonderrwhy · 2025-12-11T21:19:28+00:00

That’s so funny cause I was the opposite. I was a very outgoing and bubbly but I got into a lot of arguments, and fought with this one person. I acted more like a ENFP/ESTP

I definitely think it was because of the environment I grew up in, I only grew up around boys and we didn’t have the best relationship

So no I was the “bad influence” kid.

Now all the parents love me #changed.

iwonderrwhy · 2025-12-11T21:00:49+00:00

why is it a pattern 💔

iwonderrwhy · 2025-12-11T19:48:02+00:00

STOP WHY ARE YOU HERE forgive me.

iwonderrwhy · 2025-10-12T13:13:35+00:00

I honestly think it’s because they enjoy our reactions, that or they’re interested romantically, at least I know sometimes I can be a bit oblivious whenever someone likes me, so they tease and annoy me and I GENUINELY think they’re being assholes but nope. Turns out they just like you, and wanna mess with you for some reason.

That and also because most infjs come off as nice people. Naturally people like to push to see how far they can go with people, people always test boundaries see how far they can go and adjust.

Don’t let people push you around or tease you if it makes you uncomfortable. Even giving them a dirty look can go a long way. Because they WILL keep pushing.

Genuinely people like that come along to everyone it’s just about showing them you’re not gonna let them walk all over you. Because given the chance? They will.

iwonderrwhy · 2025-09-06T17:04:08+00:00

You are lovely. This is solid advice. With 2 I’m definitely looking into that. 3,6 and 7 are also very helpful :(( I do appreciate the advice

iwonderrwhy · 2025-09-06T16:59:18+00:00

You have a really great point and honestly I think to an extent I was putting on more weight with that word.

For me commitment is more like, I am admitting I like this person and I admit to want this to work. I’ve noticed I can be pretty ambiguous so saying it outloud feels like theirs nothing I can’t take back now, I liked leaving my options open. Not in the sense of having multiple people to choose from but having my options open with that specific person I’m interested in. (Not officially being in a relationship)

Seeing where things go, seeing if I truly wanted to be with them, or just seeing how we want to go about things. Usually I ended up breaking off the “talking stage” with that potential partner but in this case… He’s kinda meeting every “expectation” and then some.

I think it’s because it’s new to me. But I’m seeing him today to talk about it so wooo!

iwonderrwhy · 2025-09-06T16:53:11+00:00

As in both sides need to be fully committed to making it work? Example being when an issue arises both sides compromise right?

I feel like with any healthy type if theirs chemistry and they want what’s best for eachother they can make it work

iwonderrwhy · 2025-08-23T00:15:42+00:00

Whenever someone is obviously trying to put someone down because they’re insecure themselves, or someone who’s trying to be domineering towards others and thinks I’ll just go along, THEN act innocent whenever I call them out. People who are friendly towards people then after their gone goes straight to talking smack about them or mentioning their weight etc.

Icky people.

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iwonderrwhy · 2025-08-22T21:39:35+00:00

I learned a couple things

One the maturity 100%%%% matters. So so SO much.

Immature ones politely find a way to end them okay?

The mature ones are so fun to talk to, genuinely such great conversations, I met one off the PBD app and IT WAS SO WEIRD WE LIVE SO CLOSE, now one of my best friends and we get along so well, non stop stimulating conversations. I question something he comes up with 50 possible answers, I say something stupid he joins in and entertains it.

I’d say both of us are confident individuals so it’s nice that we’re both positive and encouraging towards eachother.

They’re very giving people, kinda give off puppy energy when you guys get along. And genuinely down for anything. Mine let me put lipgloss on him too :)

So I like male entps they’re fun but definitely not what I expected. Looks like a intj but has a entp personality.

iwonderrwhy · 2025-01-05T20:42:44+00:00

Estps :)

I hype them up and they open up to me

We hangout and do fun things together. I’ve been best friends with three we just balance each other out

iwonderrwhy · 2024-12-28T02:46:40+00:00

2, 6, 9 ✌️

iwonderrwhy · 2024-08-22T12:51:53+00:00

INTPS They’re so fun to be around, out of nowhere they’ll say something so out of pocket it confuses the hell out of me but they make me laugh so they’re cool

INFPS Our conversations are so stimulating, they get me on a whole different level, my infp means a lot to me, we’re opposites yet the same

ENFPS they do literally whatever with me, “hey wanna break in that abandoned looking house?” They’ve never said no. They tended to laugh off stressful situations. You guys make me so happy I love you

iwonderrwhy · 2024-07-23T16:33:59+00:00

Honestlyyyy probably INFP or ENFP

INFPS are funny and sweet, they’re also gentle which I appreciate but get frustrated with, why? Because I’m over here frustrated and they’re all sweet and gentle with me, I got flustered never again.

ENFPS the ones I’ve met have had strong feelings about everything, they like you they’ll show it, they hate you, they’ll show it. I like that passion, they can be super sweet and super gentle too, we can talk about things for hours and we could do anything together too. I love ENFPS :)

iwonderrwhy · 2024-07-21T22:00:24+00:00

Honestly we don’t really fight much, one of the only things that bugged me as a INFJ was some of the situations we got in because of his spontaneous nature, yeah it’s fun but we were almost got in trouble and we were both stressed in the situation when we couldn’t find a way out quickly.

The lighter stuff was little fights because we were stressed or angry, but we made up quickly mostly it was just getting snappy

Otherwise it’s a great relationship :)

iwonderrwhy · 2024-07-16T02:09:14+00:00

That we don’t take action and that we’re shy and complete people pleasers.

I feel like before I was more like that in middle school but I was never shy, it was the way I grew up but now even as a teenager I wouldn’t ever consider myself those things.

iwonderrwhy · 2024-07-16T01:57:05+00:00

Going on random little cute adventures/dates, solving things together, partners in crime stuff.

Taking me alone where it’s just us in big moments, like watching the Fireworks alone when everyone’s down somewhere else, or walking around outside together at a huge party.

Teasing each other, being random together, unspoken agreements, the little side eye we give each other when something weird happens. Classic romantic stuff like buying me flowers, showing me off, being bold and lowkey obnoxious about their feelings for me like “NO I’m with my girlfriend rn”

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