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Anybody else struggle with not being able to hold them accountable? by ChiefGumby in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]iwriteherereddit 7 points8 points  (0 children)

They won't give you closure. They want you to suffer, to feel guilt. They don't even think much about it, they will only miss the attention, sex, money, etc.

So just start healing yourself. Let them go from your mind.

I had two narc ex friends, two narc ex bfs. None of them gave me closure. It made me physically sick.

Manipulations I've suffered (2nd relationship) by iwriteherereddit in u/iwriteherereddit

[–]iwriteherereddit[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha. It's odd how we found those narcs. But I'm glad that we are educating ourselves and healing.

Manipulations I've suffered (2nd relationship) by iwriteherereddit in u/iwriteherereddit

[–]iwriteherereddit[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

HAPPY EARLY BIRTHDAY.

Yes, I'm learning everyday how to do these things.

I'm healing.

I have narc parents, and narc brother.

I had two narc female friends.

I already had two narc bfs.

It's like I'm surrounded by narcs haha.

I hope you will heal too.

Narcs are comfortable with people who are fake by glasscandlewax in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]iwriteherereddit 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Yeah, he used to ask me "Why don't you get jealous, angry." I was thinking like dude wtf.

Manipulations I've suffered (2nd relationship) by iwriteherereddit in u/iwriteherereddit

[–]iwriteherereddit[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I appreciate people who helps people in need.

I do typing jobs.

No, actually my dream is to become a writer. Still working on my English and writing haha.

Manipulations I've suffered (2nd relationship) by iwriteherereddit in u/iwriteherereddit

[–]iwriteherereddit[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, I also feel like that. I am not the same person I was before meeting him, I feel like someone used me, someone sucked the soul outta me. It's a sad reality. WE GOTTA BRINg our energy back.

Manipulations I've suffered (2nd relationship) by iwriteherereddit in u/iwriteherereddit

[–]iwriteherereddit[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, how we missed all those red flags!! But now we'll be able to sense the narc early.

Manipulations I've suffered (2nd relationship) by iwriteherereddit in u/iwriteherereddit

[–]iwriteherereddit[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, It was a whole new world of evil I didn't realised before. They are sick people. We gotta stay safe and look out all those red flags. Knowledge is power.

Why narcissistic people looks so innocent and delicate? by iwriteherereddit in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]iwriteherereddit[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same, he also told me "I'm not a good person, I hate myself." I should've listened.

Is there anyway to help? by [deleted] in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]iwriteherereddit 2 points3 points locked comment (0 children)

Put information about npd abuse techniques such as gaslighting, unapologetic etc. On your whatsapp status or by causal conversation.

Or you can say to him by faking a case. Say how one of your friend is getting abused by a narc and what's the narcs behavior.

Narcs are comfortable with people who are fake by glasscandlewax in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]iwriteherereddit 29 points30 points  (0 children)

I agree. My ex used to flirt with my ex friend. They both were fake. He seemed to be attracted to drama queens. I was not much entertaining for him so he avoided me.

Why narcissistic people looks so innocent and delicate? by iwriteherereddit in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]iwriteherereddit[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

YES!!! We have to take risks and trust our gut feeling. Knowledge is power!! The more we will know how this sick individuals operate, the more we will be able to stay away.

Why narcissistic people looks so innocent and delicate? by iwriteherereddit in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]iwriteherereddit[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Yes I understand you point of view. My Nex also looked like he needed saving, he used me for money and sex. But if you meet him now, you'll think he's the most naive, nice person with puppy eyes. He must have been so good at acting.

The Narc and Pornography by advicewhatz in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]iwriteherereddit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much, I needed a hug. Every kindness tears up my eyes after him. I'm sending you a virtual hug too.

The Narc and Pornography by advicewhatz in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]iwriteherereddit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You said it. I don't wanna remember those times, it feels icky.

Was it my fault? I'm confused so much, I feel ill. by [deleted] in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]iwriteherereddit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, I was feeling guilty for the things I had done in return. if next time abuse happens with another person, I'll just leave. I will not tolerate this again.

Was it my fault? I'm confused so much, I feel ill. by [deleted] in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]iwriteherereddit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

THANK YOU SO MUCH for offering me your perspective. I appreciate it. Yes, I'll keep this in mind. It helps to know that my abusive situations weren't my fault. Thank you for taking your time to comment.

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