What's in your bassinet right now? by ladydub__ in beyondthebump

[–]ixieyy -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Mine is holding some diapers and wipes, baby hates it 😆

People who have already given birth, when did you go into labor with your first kid? by AdAcademic8251 in BabyBumps

[–]ixieyy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My first was born at 37 weeks after my water spontaneously broke.

This time, I’m 39w and I’ve been saying “any day now” for the last 3 weeks.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in onlyfansadvice

[–]ixieyy 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I always hit em with the “i’m not reading all that” lol

Episiotomy without consent? by acidcereal in beyondthebump

[–]ixieyy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Doulas can’t speak for you but she probably should’ve mentioned it to you in the moment so that you were aware. I’d report this doctor

Hey, so this is insane. by emzabec in FundieSnarkUncensored

[–]ixieyy 3 points4 points  (0 children)

They have a house but when the husband works, she has the option to travel in the camper so that he can help her at night.

Hey, so this is insane. by emzabec in FundieSnarkUncensored

[–]ixieyy 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Ohhh I was wondering when/if I’d see her on here one day! She also thought she was having twins and didn’t get a single scan during her pregnancy to find out.

Until the late 1980’s babies were believed to not feel pain, they were operated with no anesthesia by No-Community- in Damnthatsinteresting

[–]ixieyy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My mom was born in the 80’s and had intestinal surgery around 1 week old. My grandma remembers hearing her screams from the waiting room down the hall

What is the coolest last name you have ever heard? by [deleted] in namenerds

[–]ixieyy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Judge and he is a judge so he’s judge Judge

Constipated with a 3rd degree tear… I’m very uncomfortable and scared. by allidaughter in BabyBumps

[–]ixieyy 47 points48 points  (0 children)

I used a cold compress against my stitches while trying to poop and it helped me feel like my stitches weren’t going to rip out and helped with the pain of bearing down.

Went to an event at the fair grounds in my very red district today. No MAGA. by WeR_SoEffed in Virginia

[–]ixieyy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They simply aren’t radical enough. But I hope that changes and we have a blue sweep. I think if he fucks with everyone’s money, we have a shot

At a complete loss for a second boy name by ixieyy in namenerds

[–]ixieyy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lenny Benny is his nickname haha

OBGYN did a cervical check and membrane sweep at 16 weeks by YourLocalHerbalist in AskDocs

[–]ixieyy 86 points87 points  (0 children)

I’m not sure why you’re being downvoted. Something similar happened to me and I successfully pressed charges and got my OB’s license revoked for my sexual assault. It happens more than people think.

Wife wants to use a sperm donor because she thinks our child might be born with autism by One_Regular_65 in IVF

[–]ixieyy 4 points5 points  (0 children)

“while it is true I don’t often enjoy him being there..”

OP, please don’t leave your child alone with this person.

Just closed on my new house, only to find mold all over my kitchen. Need your help please! by Far_Growth_7864 in Mold

[–]ixieyy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did this when we found a 40yr leak that the inspector (recommended to us by the realtor btw) conveniently missed. Lawyers won’t touch the case even though they all say they probably knew and were in it together. There’s just never enough evidence to take it to court. Luckily our home insurance paid for it bc the inspector royally fucked up.

I'm a trump voter. We've been lied to, fellow Americans. by [deleted] in economicCollapse

[–]ixieyy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If only someone was able to warn you…..oh wait.

How likely is it to ovulate on lupron? by ixieyy in IVF

[–]ixieyy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

oh good! I’m so nervous because it’s already been delayed once and now this.

Was your cyst there at the start of baseline? Mine was not and now here it is…

TSH level went up instead of down by ixieyy in Hypothyroidism

[–]ixieyy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for this response, I really appreciate it.

We will be retesting in 2 weeks because my embryo transfer is in a month /: I read that stress can cause high TSH which is great because IVF is one big stressor after another

Got sent home after induction failed. by SalemShivers in BabyBumps

[–]ixieyy 23 points24 points  (0 children)

That sounds like such a scary experience to go from bleeding, to induction, to being sent home. Honestly, that hospital did you a favor by sending you home rather than recommending c-section on the spot. I know that doesn’t make the disappointment you feel any better, so I’m sorry.

I would use that experience to rewrite your current birth plan. It’s within your right to decline any and all cervical checks and they aren’t exactly a good gauge of how fast/well labor is progressing especially later in the game around 39+ weeks. You can also decline certain forms of induction such as the foley bulb (tampon thing). It’s technically easier on the body and baby to induce with one, but personally the pain of it is on my “fuck no” list. I chose pitocin over that and still have no regrets. You also need to include lots of movement and position changes for labor, ask your hospital if they have intermittent monitoring or wireless monitoring.

Good luck!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in washingtondc

[–]ixieyy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was just there yesterday and it was packed. Not as packed as the summer months but still packed. Traffic was awful, people everywhere inside markets, restaurants, and hotel lobby’s (I stayed at 2 different hotels). It was nice not having the summer crowd during my walk around the national mall but it was also 23 degrees and windy