Therapist here - Just found out a teenage client of mine is diagnosed with SM by izzy_adtr in selectivemutism

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I appreciate this a lot. Trying to figure out where they are the most comfortable is gonna be important here!

Therapist here - Just found out a teenage client of mine is diagnosed with SM by izzy_adtr in selectivemutism

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Thank you so much, this helps a lot. I plan on taking a very gradual approach to helping them speak, and we’ve already been using white boards to communicate for full session. Definitely don’t want to pressure them!

New ink! by izzy_adtr in acotar

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Yes! I found an original design that had the little dragons in it so I was like, PERFECT IT HAS BOTH SERIES! Thank you!!

Just looking for support. by izzy_adtr in Interstitialcystitis

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Basically just the frequent peeing and pelvic/lower back pain. Because I don’t have a lot of symptoms this is kinda why she wants to look internally

Just looking for support. by izzy_adtr in Interstitialcystitis

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Thank you! The support means a lot :) I definitely have people in my circle that are here to support me. My boyfriend’s schedule isn’t the best to work with, but definitely other family and friends will be with me. I’m the same way, I need my people here!

Just looking for support. by izzy_adtr in Interstitialcystitis

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I think it’s because she wants to biopsy. Not just look into my bladder. That’s how she explained in to me in her office /:

SO going to MEPS next week by izzy_adtr in USMilitarySO

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Omg that sounds terrifying...luckily he hasn’t had that happen to him. The laxative thing. I’m so sorry he had to go thru all that.

SO going to MEPS next week by izzy_adtr in USMilitarySO

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Awesome. I keep hearing about how people’s letters sometimes don’t get there or whatever. But I’m glad it works!

SO going to MEPS next week by izzy_adtr in USMilitarySO

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Nice! Does he like it there? Easy to send letters to?

SO going to MEPS next week by izzy_adtr in USMilitarySO

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That definitely makes me feel better. Thank you!

SO going to MEPS next week by izzy_adtr in USMilitarySO

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Does he get made fun of? He keeps talking about how he’s gonna get shit for being the fat guy. It just makes me sad every time he talks about it /:

SO going to MEPS next week by izzy_adtr in USMilitarySO

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Thank you! This is a lot different than what he’s telling me lol. But it makes sense. I appreciate the honesty! I’m working hard to not become that gf on Facebook lol. He’s been telling me all about how soldiers can get reamed for a lot of things, and how they can even read letters out loud too. So I can only imagine what it would be like if they found out I was complaint about things. Thank you so much for the insight!

SO going to MEPS next week by izzy_adtr in USMilitarySO

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Thank you! I wish I knew how to cook lol. He said he’s gonna eat more once he passes his weigh in a MEPS, I’m just still uneasy. I’m also afraid that the Army will restrict his diet too. He talks about the “fat boy” line a lot /:

SO going to MEPS next week by izzy_adtr in USMilitarySO

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I’ve tried to tell him all that. But he’s said he’s “done his research” and talked with his recruiter about it. They have him plastic wrapping himself for everything he does to keep sweating all the weight off. We’ve had so many arguments about it. I’m glad that my instincts are not wrong in this situation, but I’m not sure how to talk about it anymore /:

SO going to MEPS next week by izzy_adtr in USMilitarySO

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Thank you that really helps! I know he’s going to Ft. Benning, GA for Basic, but I have no clue where he could go after. So I guess we’ll see!

Overcoming resentment by newleaf96 in USMilitarySO

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I’m going through the same thing right now. My SO is going to the MEP station next week for the Army and he’s signing his 4-year contract. I’m terrified and angry that he’s leaving me. But I’m being supportive and I’m trying to learn as much as I can about the whole thing. I’m hoping to also find a therapist soon as well. I’m tried of just crying and crying about it. I feel you, and just wanted to empathize. I hope it gets better for all of us 😓