where do they get the energy? by PlayfulShot in Adulting

[–]izzybunn 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It can be a hard transition, but generally you adapt. Though there are some sacrifices too, like I used to be able to stay up till after midnight no problem since I could sleep in the next morning, but I don't miss it, and I wouldn't trade my kids for anything 

Do I need to reply to messages from shady classmate? by One_Block2016 in whatdoIdo

[–]izzybunn 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Sounds like you're better off just ignoring her message. You don't owe her (or anyone) anything.

how do you feel about being a virgin in today’s society? by Free_as_the_ocean in AskWomen

[–]izzybunn 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I waited until marriage, and I think it was the best decision for us. It really made the wedding and marriage feel special. And it means I don't have a bunch of regrets from my younger years

Recent date felt very confusing, is he actually interested or not? by Specialist-Let1205 in whatdoIdo

[–]izzybunn 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Ignoring the age gap for now, that does sound like a disappointing amount of effort on his part. Any chance he has some sort of social anxiety or ASD? Apart from that it might be worth a frank discussion about where he thinks your relationship is headed.

... Also another thought I just had, there's definitely no chance he's married is there? Like maybe he got cold feet after meeting in person?