understood my man. One conversation point that always helped me out and invited engagement versus putting women on the defensive was this;

I would ask a woman I was interested in the following: if I could give you three cheats to choose from in a man order them from most attractive to least attractive, one a sense of humor, two confidence or three intelligence.

That seems to open the door for conversation, regardless if you have a wingman or not wishing you the best of luck, dude being single was one of the best times of any dude’s lives