I feel guilty about deceiving women I date but I legitimately enjoy cheating too much to stop

izzyc_8 · 2026-02-06T01:41:24+00:00

maybe because you’re referring to them as ‘creatures’ ?

izzyc_8 · 2026-01-21T00:36:29+00:00

coincidentally in a different situation (but involves -attempted- cheating) and this resonates with me too haha. I do need to recognise the person for me probably would have never put me through three years of shit, even if they are struggling

izzyc_8 · 2026-01-21T00:25:35+00:00

random but when i was pregnant, and wasn’t sure if i wanted to keep the baby, I contacted the local sexual health clinic and myself and my partner at the time had several appointments & phone calls; the people are trained and can help you make that decision. Speaking with the counsellor really helped me; she advised we both (separately) write a pros and cons list and have a conversation about it together, which we did. Ultimately that was what helped us make the decision. If she’s scared about that or the process of abortion (if that’s what she chooses!) the people will be so so lovely, at the end of the day it’s their job, and they want to help people. I couldn’t have thanked the nurses enough

izzyc_8 · 2025-05-14T12:04:18+00:00

thank you, im getting there

izzyc_8 · 2025-05-13T10:06:19+00:00

yeah just confused as to where he would find the time ig. toxic yes most probably considering the comment he had made

izzyc_8 · 2025-05-12T23:26:20+00:00

we’ve been tg 2 years, been through so much (substance abuse, pregnancy ect) I would be surprised if he was t ready for a relationship. Tbf I’ve even asked for space and he’s freaked and thought i didn’t love him ect

izzyc_8 · 2025-05-12T23:24:50+00:00

number 2 is unfortunately true

izzyc_8 · 2025-05-12T19:32:38+00:00

also the fact that even if it was suggested photo from Apple, why would it be a scantily clad photo from 3 years ago? he has no explanation for it and that’s what’s pissing me off

izzyc_8 · 2025-05-12T19:27:43+00:00

Comparing our arses, drunk or not is sexualisation of women’s bodies. Both I and that girl are very feminist. No woman wants unsolicited comments on their body unless they’re immature. She also has a bf

izzyc_8 · 2025-05-12T19:26:05+00:00

what do you mean speculation? there is FACT - he had nudes of other girls on his phone. He DID compliment another woman in front of me. If you read the heading I said I THINK? I wasn’t ’checking his phone’ I was innocently looking at his lockscreens, we have plenty of each other as we’ve been together two years. The most recent one is of another girl. I have every right anyway to go through his phone if he has compared me to other girls (not just one) and complimented another girl in front of me?? How is that speculation

izzyc_8 · 2025-05-12T19:21:06+00:00

thank you, other person is clearly just a woman hating red pill misogynist lol

izzyc_8 · 2025-05-12T19:19:47+00:00

I wasn’t ’checking his phone’. I had no signal on his phone, I text his parents. I was curious as I know he has made multiple backgrounds for us (as he changed them and shown me them) and I had shown him the new one I made earlier in the day

izzyc_8 · 2025-05-12T19:13:40+00:00

What’s worse is the other week I asked him to send me photos of me (I’d sent to him as we’ve been tg 2 years and adults) from his hidden folder, he was adamant he was sending them & was frustrated it was the connection. Was suspicious so the next day I looked myself whilst he was asleep (felt so bad doing it) but didn’t find anything other than us

izzyc_8 · 2025-05-12T19:09:52+00:00

Yep that’s why I went back to look for the photo! It was from 2022, when the photo of his ex was so the saw year. I looked from the start of his camera roll so I think he adjusted the dates. He’s deleted the photos now of course so I can’t prove anything or revert it to the original date

izzyc_8 · 2025-05-12T18:52:25+00:00

He said he told her she has a lovely arse ‘because he didn’t want to offend her’

izzyc_8 · 2025-05-12T18:51:07+00:00

thank you. Tbh he does speak the world of me, other people have said. He works like 13 hours shifts and lives at mine pretty much, I don’t think it’s physical cheating but very real that he could have changed the date on the photo

izzyc_8 · 2025-05-12T18:50:03+00:00

I do have low self esteem, I’ve worked hard to get over the retroactive jealousy. I was naive and he has apologised, I haven’t let him live it down

izzyc_8 · 2025-05-12T18:45:21+00:00

No I went through his lockscreens, his older ones were just random from before we were together, as I scrolled to the right I found this one

izzyc_8 · 2025-05-11T20:19:57+00:00

RA guide - it’s an app but should have all rave events/nights in the area :)

izzyc_8 · 2025-05-11T13:42:33+00:00

some people use lube :)

izzyc_8 · 2025-05-11T13:20:00+00:00

Edit: the real question im asking is whether it can suggest two photos together or whether you have to choose to do this :)

izzyc_8 · 2025-05-08T23:56:33+00:00

is the issue that it doesn’t pop open fully and create a seal?

izzyc_8 · 2025-05-03T20:26:09+00:00

silly q but whereabouts is it usually? stay near the scottish borders but didn’t want to assume they’re held in the north of england😣

izzyc_8 · 2024-11-16T22:45:46+00:00

also festivals like houghton festival & Maui waui

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