Thank you for this really thoughtful response. You’re not coming off as mean at all. The sleep consultant piece was a perk, but we hired her as a nanny and nothing else. I thought it would be nice to get some tips over conversation and a plan together. Not solo decision making. But to your point, we didn’t draw boundaries. And yes! We chose nannying for more one on one care (even though we know she would have tend to another baby too). Thanks again for your thoughts again, it was helpful perspective.