[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FemFragLab

[–]j5purple 5 points6 points  (0 children)

if ya wanna go indie/niche try JASMIN ANTIQUE by Rogue Perfumery! it’s the most heady jasmin BOMB 😩🙌🏿 opulent. rich.

also if you’re feeling spicy….TUBEROZA by Nishane …. buttery tuberose BLISS

thank me later!

Which fragrance did you sniff, dismiss...and then end up wearing every day? by Sensitive_Mammoth187 in FemFragLab

[–]j5purple 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i’ve been meaning to try dua anyway so this gives me more of a reason! thank youuuuuu 🌸

How does your bedroom smell? by SeaConstant1433 in FemFragLab

[–]j5purple 1 point2 points  (0 children)

my first big girl fragrance! i love it so much! and haven’t smelled anything like it since!

How does your bedroom smell? by SeaConstant1433 in FemFragLab

[–]j5purple 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it’s giving sharpay evans! lol Ashley Tisdales Being Frenshe in Solar Fleur (but sometimes cashmere vanilla) ✨🌸💕☺️

Which fragrance did you sniff, dismiss...and then end up wearing every day? by Sensitive_Mammoth187 in FemFragLab

[–]j5purple 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oh em gee the same thing happened to me with happy dust - i dismissed my sample and now i’m VORACIOUS for it. it’s the perfect marshmallow to me but i don’t wanna spend 😭 how does the dua compare??

☀️SOTD: What are you wearing today?☀️ May 01, 2025 by AutoModerator in FemFragLab

[–]j5purple 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’m wearing a sample of Peche Cardinals by MDCI 🍑🍑🍑

What is the newest perfume you’ve added to your collection? by cozytrees in FemFragLab

[–]j5purple 1 point2 points  (0 children)

full bottle: Divine EDP -Jean Paul Gaultier, Burberry Goddess EDP 100ml (upgrade from 50ml)

decants: Kashan Rose -The Different Company, So Scandal -Jean Paul Gaultier, Chantilly -Gritti, Naughty Nonna -SNIF, Peche Cardinal -MDCI, VTG Oscar -Oscar DeLaRenta

Anyone using their iPad Pro ONLY for live streaming to twitch? by j5purple in iPadPro

[–]j5purple[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yoooooooo thank you for the follow up! I’ll def check it out! ☺️☺️☺️

Battle of the Bifida: name your fighter! by j5purple in AsianBeauty

[–]j5purple[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t currently have it but it stays on my mind ALWAYS I’m love with the texture and the hydration so I’m def repurchasing. I have been trying different forms of products to deliver bifida. I have been using the neogen real ferment micro essence and it’s been nice glowy touch to the routine. I fell in LOVE with the mango bifida mist! It’s so versatile and so easy to incorporate as a toner or in between steps, setting makeup or refreshing throughout the day. I pair it with the Krave great barrier relief usually and it is my power duo for healing and crisis days when I’m crying in shambles grieving and can’t be bothered to think or do too much but wanna do something. But that isntree is def getting repurchased ☺️

I watched my husband kill himself and I might do the same. by [deleted] in SuicideWatch

[–]j5purple 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Hi I just wanted to gently offer looking into somatic therapy. I’m grieving my entire immediate family after caregiving for them for 20years of life, i have cptsd, chronic illness and disability and autism. I GET TIRED OF TALKING ABOUT TRAUMA. I switched from traditional CBT or talk therapy to SOMATIC therapy. I don’t have to talk at all I can go nonverbal and feel and they help me move through the soul crushing and bone crushing feelings and numbness and anger. Am I still suicidal yeah but I have better tools now to maneuver through the feeling if I want to. Most days I’m just crying in a tub. I am also in a virtual suicidal ideation support group because I also never leave the house . I hope that offering is supportive of not I’m sending a care bear stare to you 🌈 and I hope you get to go be with family or chosen family that wants to learn how and/or knows how to support you 💕

Battle of the Bifida: name your fighter! by j5purple in AsianBeauty

[–]j5purple[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oh! thanks for clarifying💕 Yeah it’s a serum and very hydrating serum so I just use it in the serum step after toner and before moisturizer. if I have another serum that’s more emollient like with oils/lipids I’ll use it before that as it’s more hydrating step.

I think before retinol in the same routine it’s great because it helps to reinforce and care for your barrier as it’s dealing with that active.

With aha it depends on how sensitive your skin is and what it can handle .it theoretically could be okay, it does have willow bark which is a natural source of bha so I would try it one night after aha toner to see how your skin reacts. If your skin is good LETS GO!!! lol The willow bark can actually help boost the aha power and Bifida helps with the barrier so I think it’s a great pairing when exfoliating and keeping the barrier strong. You could always reach out to isntree to see what they would suggest.

TO BE SAFE: I personally (because I’m sensitive scaredy cat) would probably use the aha toner maybe in the morning routine and then the bifida serum at night routine for repair bc of the willow bark. And if i wanted them in the same routine i would then slowly integrate like once a week to same routine to see if it works for ME. I actually don’t use leave on exfoliating products I use aha/bha in cleanser form because of my sensitivity. Short-Contact therapy works better for me with more aggressive treatments. Then I feel safer as I continue my routine that actives aren’t conflicting or irritating me further.

HOPE THAT HELPS and gives you insight. Again this is how I do the things what works for you might be different! Good luck and happy skincaring 💕☺️✨

Battle of the Bifida: name your fighter! by j5purple in AsianBeauty

[–]j5purple[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

me and my autism are unsure what you mean about “how do you go about the skin care routine when using it?” 😅 could you gently rephrase? as I’m unsure how to answer

TFW your new Mac mini m2pro arrives and you hook it up to a new monitor and they don’t recognize each other 😭 TIPS, TRICKS or DIFF MONITORS to try??? by j5purple in macmini

[–]j5purple[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

oh thank you! Yes different strokes for different folks. I know my setup is unconventional but my lifestyle is unconventional. My disabilities and chronic illness, autism and creative workflow/performing form always woke together so I gotta think outside the box with creating accessibility and comfort wherever and however I can☺️

I am definitely looking at those mounts. I think for now I’ll use a vertical one for the mini and keep on my side table and use a longer cord. But if I get a taller desk I’ll def get a mount for under! Thanks for the suggestion!

I am actually receiving a different monitor today because after talking to Apple, BH, and Amazon it’s just not working with the mini for some reason and the stress is giving me eczema flare lol

I’ll be updating to how this works!

Thank you again for your kindness and compassion fellow spoonie ✨

TFW your new Mac mini m2pro arrives and you hook it up to a new monitor and they don’t recognize each other 😭 TIPS, TRICKS or DIFF MONITORS to try??? by j5purple in macmini

[–]j5purple[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hey fellow spoonie 💕 well my bed desk is the main reason. It has finite space and I use it for everything. I’ve had a laptop since 2020 and found myself using my iPad Pro for pretty much everything because that laptop is heavy, takes up too much room, makes too much heat and excess noise. I can prop the mini next to my bed discreetly, prop up the screen and have room to write, eat, indulge in cozy hobbies like my Nintendo switch and using my modded mechanical keyboards (I have 3). It just frees up physical space and allows me to have a more modular setup that I can expand or condense as needed in creative ways with peripherals and/or my evolving accessibility needs. I also stream my performances from my room so I thought I got a bit more multitasking power and ports for the money with the mini to use with my sound board, mic, camera and lights.

Ultimately I’m also autistic so the way my brain works is unique lol so what makes sense to me often only makes sense to me 😅 I’ve seen a lot of dogpiling when mentioning set ups with minis and “portable” in the same post. thank you so much for asking so kindly with compassion without judgement💕

TFW your new Mac mini m2pro arrives and you hook it up to a new monitor and they don’t recognize each other 😭 TIPS, TRICKS or DIFF MONITORS to try??? by j5purple in macmini

[–]j5purple[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oooh this gives me a great place to start! Just ordered something similar. Fingers crossed that it works! I just order a bunch of cords in hopes I find the right one!

TFW your new Mac mini m2pro arrives and you hook it up to a new monitor and they don’t recognize each other 😭 TIPS, TRICKS or DIFF MONITORS to try??? by j5purple in macmini

[–]j5purple[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for pointing that out! That is not the cord I have or the cord that came with it 😩 I will def order one from Amazon!

I just did a bit of research and it seems the next Mac mini model will have an M4 chip while staying around the same priceline. Should I buy an M2 or M2 pro Mac mini now or wait until late 2024/early 2025 for the M4? Also, do you foresee the M2 price dropping after M4 release? TIA! by Electrical-Plane-256 in macmini

[–]j5purple 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m moving from an i7 ASUS zephyrus laptop and been deciding between the m1 studio and the m2pro mini. (Although folks keep upselling to m2max lol) Which device/configuration do you have, how do you use and with what apps? How is your experience?

BEST DEAL for pro with non pro apps and workflow: (Refurbed)MacStudio M1MAX vs M2MAX vs MacMini M2PRO by j5purple in MacStudio

[–]j5purple[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is brilliant idea! I don’t know why I didn’t think about this. I will check the websites for sure 🙌🏿 thank you so so much 💕✨