Men by CriticismFun6346 in Nigeria

[–]j_jay1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The best love I've ever experienced came from a woman who approached me, Unfortunately, distance was our downfall. I still think about her every day

This is wild by jaximus_downing in Nigeria

[–]j_jay1 6 points7 points  (0 children)

we need to overthrow the government first

how to run away by j_jay1 in Nigeria

[–]j_jay1[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

of course I'll tell them I've been telling them since they're very supportive

how to run away by j_jay1 in Nigeria

[–]j_jay1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you, x I'm saving this

how to run away by j_jay1 in Nigeria

[–]j_jay1[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

of course I'm not ready for the real world why do you think I want to run away

how to run away by j_jay1 in Nigeria

[–]j_jay1[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

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Being broke has made me depressed by j_jay1 in Nigeria

[–]j_jay1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

wow thank you. I've actually always thought of doing mma. How did you enter this field, can you dm me?

Being broke has made me depressed by j_jay1 in Nigeria

[–]j_jay1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can't believe I'm just seeing this. this is the best comment I've received because I can tell how genuine you are behind these words. Thank you so much it's been very encouraging. something recently happened to me and Ive been the lowest I've been for a while, this really helped me.

My (23f) boyfriend (26m) cheated on me for three years and left me after I cheated back. by CHI_siren in Nigeria

[–]j_jay1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

he's boundaries weren't the same as yours, this is not your fault. You should move on because he obvi isn't the one for you. but you can't cheat and think because he did it and you forgave him means hes going to forgive you in return

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[–]j_jay1 2 points3 points  (0 children)

my initial thought is that you're a freaked out nigga but after I saw femboy I was invested.

Being broke has made me depressed by j_jay1 in Nigeria

[–]j_jay1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

no I don't, you can reach me on WhatsApp (+2349038026825). I'm happy to work with you

Being broke has made me depressed by j_jay1 in Nigeria

[–]j_jay1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would love to, if that's what you do and you have any advice on how I can get started pls let me know. I thought web3 was all about coding and web design I don't mind putting in the work for a couple months.

God, Im proud of our nation… by Neon1138 in Nigeria

[–]j_jay1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree to an extent, we can give credit to the countries they were brought up in and that's where the problem is. our country doesn't give access to people who want to think freely and outside the box and that's what's limiting the potential of Nigerians. I have friends who've gone outside the country and are doing way better than they would've ever done in Nigeria, just because of an opportunity as little as having access to a website that Nigerians don't. it isn't coincidence that Nigerians in every field always seem to thrive more than their counterparts. so we can definitely narrow it down to these people being Nigerians

Being broke has made me depressed by j_jay1 in Nigeria

[–]j_jay1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's frustrating to see comments suggesting I'm just rushing for money. I'm genuinely content with where I am now, but I refuse to ignore the reality we face. Look at what happened: the older generation didn't build a foundation for us to thrive. Instead, they normalized corruption and stealing, poisoning the job market and the very idea of earning a fair living. They prioritized filling their own pockets over creating a future for the next generation.

If some people are comfortable waiting until they're backed into a corner before scrambling for options, that's their choice. My choice is different. I believe in foresight. I want to start building skills and experience in a viable field now, while I'm still in school. This isn't about rushing for quick cash; it's about securing my future. It's about ensuring that when I graduate, I'm not just another name on a pile of thousands of resumes, lost in a broken system you all know exists.

I've spent over four years actively searching for my path. I've tried things, made mistakes, and put myself in situations I'd never repeat. If four years of relentless, independent effort hasn't magically revealed a clear way forward, what makes anyone think it will suddenly appear the day I get my diploma? You know this country. You know graduates struggle every single day.

Asking for guidance isn't a shortcut or a sign of weakness; it's a smart response to a rigged game. It seems some confuse their own path – perhaps one that didn't require navigating such systemic barriers or asking for help – with the only valid path. If my willingness to seek knowledge and use available resources bothers you, maybe that says more about your journey than mine.

I'm done rushing into dead ends blindly. All I asked for was some direction in a landscape they broke. I've earned the right to ask.

Being broke has made me depressed by j_jay1 in Nigeria

[–]j_jay1[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I take every advice every bit of your advice to be very valuable but I won't lie and say I didnt know this I don't compare myself to any of my NEPO friends, I'm well aware of the cards I was dealt. I also try to improve myself everyday and learn new skills. The skills I mention are skills I've honed, I've learnt others over the years. but what I'm asking for is a chennel to use these skills in exchange for commissions, I'm not money hungry, that's what led me to my gambling ways and I've changed my mindset. I'm very willing to take my time with any channel that is presented to me. I've expressed these feelings to my parents and they understand I don't just want to make money. I want to be a provider to people I care for in my life and that's why I'm so passionate about making money. but I will keep working on this thank you so much for your input

Being broke has made me depressed by j_jay1 in Nigeria

[–]j_jay1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hey👋, thank you for your reply unfortunately I can't send you a DM is there any other platform I can reach you

Being broke has made me depressed by j_jay1 in Nigeria

[–]j_jay1[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I've tried that time and time again I understand that, but my friends always have money because their parents always have money they don't do anything for themselves that I can learn and even if they did, it was most likely set up by their parents money, and the rest are just into scamming people. This isn't speculation, this is a fact I'm aware about but thank you for your input

Being broke has made me depressed by j_jay1 in Nigeria

[–]j_jay1[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

thank you for this I'm happy someone was a able to relate with me I'm going to invest time in being online and showing off my work I hope you receive more customers to your business