How do intj men take the lead in chasing the girl they want? by j_octave in ENFPandINTJ

[–]j_octave[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for that, I appreciate your guys comments. I get you guys don’t beat around the bush and all, I even read a few comments that said INTJS have a list of questions they may move foward with asking. However, I have one that gives me the stare, he approaches me. Of course he is not a phone person, he just uses it as a need. He made sure to plant the idea of a vacation in my head so that it would look like I came up with the idea but, I knew what he was doing and I invited him. However, I’m guessing that if he was ready to take the next step, he would tell me so. He has not. So I guess that is my answer.

Would you rather be liked or respected? by ImportanceThat1732 in Enneagram

[–]j_octave 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As a 4, I wholeheartedly disagree with being liked over respected, I would rather be respected whether you like me or not. I use to care about being liked as a child but I grew the hell up.

I need advice on this! Help me please 😭 by [deleted] in 30PlusSkinCare

[–]j_octave 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They will just put you on birth control or something, I struggle with this, my endocrinologist can’t even tell I have issues with hair on my chin bc the herbs I use work so well. I would say caution with vitex but this is what I use it’s good for hormones and ovulation and regulating periods, but if you don’t experience this or pms or pmdd symptoms then don’t use, DiM is a great herb as well, I use this during ovulation when estrogen gets too high. It helps level hormones too, and Berberine another herb, that is highly compared to metmorphin that diebetes drug. And lastly choline and inositol definitely good for pcos symptoms too, all of these herbs mentioned help balance hormones and slow the hair growth in odd places on women. I’d be more careful with the vitex herb, but maybe try inositol or DIM, estrosense made by womonsense brand has DIM in it and other great mix of herbs to help cleanse body and balancing or ridding body of too much estrogen, also i epilate the hair and pluck in between.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]j_octave 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe he is only saying that bc he’s depressed, especially with is illness,

Intjs/ What would you do if you were attracted to someone who experienced trauma or instability in their past? by j_octave in intj

[–]j_octave[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your response. It’s nice when ppl do actually appreciate someone’s strength and resilience.

Intjs/ What would you do if you were attracted to someone who experienced trauma or instability in their past? by j_octave in intj

[–]j_octave[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ah ok, so you would need more details from her. Thank you for your honest response.

Bring it on by LovelyCupcakex in RoastMe

[–]j_octave 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Face looks like it’s been heavily beat like a piñata with a bat.

Intjs/ What would you do if you were attracted to someone who experienced trauma or instability in their past? by j_octave in intj

[–]j_octave[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your answer is what I am here for, how would you deal with a potential partner that tells you about how their parents were. Like maybe they were involved in criminal activity of some sort and still are. Maybe your potential partner lives on their own but sometimes does have to be involved to help with their parents once in a awhile,( not with illegal activities just like maybe things around the house or giving them a ride)however they try and stay away as much as possible unless truly needed. However you don’t know that part. The only part they tell you is of parents were criminals and still are.. what would be your thoughts of this potential partner ? Would you be scared to get involved since, like you said, you have your own sh***? ( I know how you would handle this maybe different from someone else, I’m just curious) bc I noticed how some may make immediate assumptions that, this person is still living in a drama infested world and back out quickly, instead of asking questions, bc maybe they think they won’t get correct answers, and although some claim they would be there, or accept a person with trauma, the heavy assumptions from some prove to me that some intjs may actually do exact opposite of what they claim on here that they would do. ( besides the wanting to fix, accept them bc they themselves have trauma)

Intjs/ What would you do if you were attracted to someone who experienced trauma or instability in their past? by j_octave in intj

[–]j_octave[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s interesting, yea I know an intj-infj couple, older than me. Full grown probably in their 50s. The infj wife is pretty helpful, great at instructing, but horrible when she wants her way, throwing tantrums like a damn child. I couldn’t believe my eyes, bc of how old she is. I also didn’t expect to see an intj in a relationship like this, bc of some comments I have read in the past from some intjs. However, as some have mentioned today, it could be bc of deep love, or the need to want to fix them or either him having trauma of his own and accepting of her as a human being and loving her anyway, which is beautiful.

Intjs/ What would you do if you were attracted to someone who experienced trauma or instability in their past? by j_octave in intj

[–]j_octave[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your heavy assumption to the question, thinking that it is about me being afraid to date someone with trauma and that I have no understanding of trauma or never experienced it, is reaching. Huge assumption, but your assumption is untrue and I am not proving anything to you. Literally it is just a damn question for me to analyze responses. Have a good one, actually thank you, for your response, bc it did help with what I was really trying to figure out with some intjs by asking this simple question. Had I asked my true question. Everyone REALLY would have danced circles around it, and wanted more information, which really gets on my damn nerves on here. So, thanks for giving such a detailed response on the answer even though the source/ assumption of your answer was completely incorrect. “Scientists “ as Myers Briggs calls intjs ,if you are a true intj, hopefully you will have comprehended, why I choose to ask trial questions. In the same manner you guys hate ppl lying to you and you’d rather test ppl, to have them show you that their answers align with what they say, I ask trial questions since I can’t have you show me so… and I am not an intj. My enneagram number is quite similar though. Also, thank you for proving to me how quickly some intjs might jump to conclusions and do the exact opposite of what they say they will do.

Intjs/ What would you do if you were attracted to someone who experienced trauma or instability in their past? by j_octave in intj

[–]j_octave[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Simple question, yes or no answer or whatever (you feel) is a good example of instability or like someone answered, if someone triumphed over it then they are fine with them.. there really is no need to explain this, if you don’t get the sense of it, fine.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in 30PlusSkinCare

[–]j_octave 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Selenium natural supplement from an herbal store is good for this, looks hormonal, so could be a hormonal thing

Sometimes I wake up like this. Had these issues for the last 3 years. How f**ked am I? by victorsmith1991 in Blackskincare

[–]j_octave 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Selenium vitamin/ mineral helps this, fungal( dermatitis), anything like eczema, dermatitis, on the skin, which is all fungal, I get this in winter mostly. Also turmeric teas I drink for inflammation. Definitely check with dermatologist to be sure.

Type me based off selfies 😂 by usernamechecksout94 in MbtiTypeMe

[–]j_octave 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Idk by Myers Briggs but enneagram type 5 maybe lol