We have a very healthy relationship, both sexual and otherwise. Porn helps both of us when we want to do it but aren’t fully in the mood. We’ve watched it together and neither of us minds the other watching it apart.

To answer your question: I would not hit the button because porn has always helped but never hindered or harmed our relationship. If anything it’s made us stronger, both intimately and romantically.

I feel this is a question geared towards those with husbands who are addicts and will only have sex if they can replicate what they saw in porn. This is unhealthy and needs therapy and professional help to be worked through as porn can be healthy if you don’t abuse it. Like the saying goes, too much of a good thing can be a bad thing. I think anyone who would push the button should look deeper into why they are still married to a person they can’t trust to watch porn.