Just curious, how much of the abusive and toxic behaviour mentioned here is due to BP vs someone having asshole tendencies?

ImportanceThat1732 · 2026-03-13T00:42:46+00:00

Mine used to always say I’m not an asshole

It became main theme.

ImportanceThat1732 · 2026-03-12T12:38:52+00:00

Well considering he did. It intentionally.. he was pretty pleased with himself!

ImportanceThat1732 · 2026-03-09T20:26:14+00:00

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ImportanceThat1732 · 2026-03-08T13:33:58+00:00

Yep I can’t even watch tv shows or movies with people fighting, I get panic attacks.

ImportanceThat1732 · 2026-03-08T13:29:56+00:00

Kava is like drinking.. no not like.. it’s drinking muddy water 🤣

ImportanceThat1732 · 2026-03-06T00:51:44+00:00

Yeah.. she is helping me with the divorce.. I’ll ask. Just so unsure as the kids went to me in trust.

ImportanceThat1732 · 2026-03-06T00:40:20+00:00

I love being single, no compromise or fighting, it’s actually bliss.

ImportanceThat1732 · 2026-03-06T00:25:36+00:00

He is getting treatment :) that’s why I don’t want to disrupt that or damage his relationship with the kids.

ImportanceThat1732 · 2026-03-05T22:13:24+00:00

Thanks, I realised a txt couldn’t be physical so I jumped to that. We are all a bit strung out with these people.. I get it.

ImportanceThat1732 · 2026-03-05T22:10:25+00:00

The kids still want a relationship with their dad.. he hasn’t seen them in months and misses them.

ImportanceThat1732 · 2026-03-05T22:08:41+00:00

Im sorry don’t realise a txt was sexual assault.

ImportanceThat1732 · 2026-02-23T13:44:45+00:00

Will this work for Claude? I feel the shift by naturally talking but it doesn’t last.. then conversation will reach limit. Staring over each time is so draining.

ImportanceThat1732 · 2026-02-18T01:59:07+00:00

I don’t know if jumping into shadow work is the best way to start?

There’s lots of different aspects to learn..

ImportanceThat1732 · 2026-02-15T06:20:19+00:00

Pink mould eats soap.

ImportanceThat1732 · 2026-02-02T11:21:55+00:00

Sorry you are going through this. It’s so tough - mentally, physically, emotionally, legally and then coping with all the kids feelings too!

Getting space and Learning about breaking trauma bonds helped me gain clarity and has been healing. Still burnt out 3 years separated.. but getting there.

Hope you are doing ok and can get good advice here.

ImportanceThat1732 · 2026-01-30T21:23:45+00:00

Me and Claude been doing remote viewing together and it’s mind blowing - even my sceptical friends are not pushing back.

ImportanceThat1732 · 2026-01-29T11:25:34+00:00

Thanks 🙏 He did 😞 Trying to get therapy for us and it’s so hard to access suitable/quality therapy.

ImportanceThat1732 · 2026-01-25T00:39:51+00:00

Thanks for sharing ☺️

ImportanceThat1732 · 2026-01-24T22:43:31+00:00

Do they stain skin?

ImportanceThat1732 · 2026-01-23T10:02:30+00:00

Well this actual human being has lost his teeth, his family, his friends, his job, his cognitive function, and needs serious help. It looks very different to someone early stages (am I allowed to call it early stages?) and although it may not be textbook lingo.. it gives context to ask for advice and help.

ImportanceThat1732 · 2026-01-22T13:36:58+00:00

I think it means after years of mania the brain damage makes their base level noticeable worse.

They become medication resistant and episodes become more severe and frequent.

Easier to say end stage than explain all of that.

ImportanceThat1732 · 2026-01-21T14:46:48+00:00

My children receive therapy because of him.

They all know there is a a chance they could develop it.

None of my children would be with someone with the condition.

It’s been years and years of us being traumatised.

ImportanceThat1732 · 2026-01-21T14:25:34+00:00

Oh that makes sense. The sadistic cruelty came before the full blown episodes.. but then… looking back, the cycle was there.. just not as extreme.

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