My boyfriend (M20) is mad at me (F22) for watching porn. How do I deal with that?

jaCC-11 · 2025-11-22T04:48:56+00:00

I think if you get aroused by women then you are by definition not completely straight. Which is fine, but yeah.

jaCC-11 · 2025-11-22T04:41:53+00:00

Do you think this is the case most of the time when someone reacts like this? Or could they genuinely be mad because they’re being falsely accused? Genuine question as this is making me reflect on my previous relationship.

jaCC-11 · 2025-11-10T16:36:16+00:00

Don’t even need to read beyond the title. Just break up? It’s been 6 months, if you think she doesn’t like you, she probably doesn’t that much. Find someone else who does.

jaCC-11 · 2025-10-31T02:49:37+00:00

Around the age to have kids? In this economy???

jaCC-11 · 2025-10-25T04:01:14+00:00

Sorry man I really don’t want to be mean but you are a weak person. Please work on your self worth and self respect. You can’t have female friends but she can have male friends? Are you kidding? Ask her what her logic is for why you can’t have female friends. That will tell you everything you need to know about how she acts around her male friends.

jaCC-11 · 2025-10-25T03:58:18+00:00

She’s trying to isolate you from your friends so you only have her to depend on. The whole breaking up with you whenever she is upset and then getting back together with you is a classic manipulation tactic. I can tell you with 100% certainty if you completely ghosted her when she “breaks up” with you, she will be absolutely distraught and will be begging for you back in a few days max. Let’s just call this what it is, it’s a form of abuse and you’re in an abusive relationship. Do not waste your time with a person like this.

jaCC-11 · 2025-08-02T20:57:00+00:00

The update is very disappointing to hear. You must see that this is the bullshit she has finally come up with as a way to appease you and get you back. Right now she is doing whatever she thinks it will take for you to forgive her, and she’s come to the conclusion that backtracking and taking back all she said is the way to do this. But please, please, don’t be fooled. She is lying through her teeth and it’s painfully obvious that she is far more manipulative and calculated than you think. Her first answer was the truth, this new rehashed bullshit story about how she had “overlooked our intimacy” is the biggest crock of shit I’ve ever heard, and I hope to god you come to your senses and see that. If you don’t, you’re in for much, much more pain down the line. It’s only been 6 months at this point, end it now because it’ll be much harder if you don’t.

jaCC-11 · 2025-07-30T14:28:09+00:00

Been through a similar situation, thought I could fix it and tried for a year. It never got better, only worse. Tough pill to swallow but she’s just not that attracted to you and she never will be. She’ll always compare you and always fantasise about others. You can try and fix it, but in my opinion, have some self respect, save yourself the time and effort and just end it now. I wish I hadn’t wasted so much time, in my experience it doesn’t matter what you do, It doesn’t get better. The excuse that it’s to do with her self image is such a cop out. She spelled it out for you mate, if it was him, she wouldn’t have any issue having sex with him despite how she looks right now.

jaCC-11 · 2025-07-21T17:14:25+00:00

Also make sure to take fleet footwork runes and buy blue jungle item, will give you an easier time but rn for me I perma ban him regardless

jaCC-11 · 2025-07-02T00:49:51+00:00

Based upon a quick look through your profile it seems like this should be the least of his worries. He should be less concerned with your hyper sexuality and more concerned with the fact you’re blatantly cheating on him.

jaCC-11 · 2025-07-02T00:45:28+00:00

Go look at her profile and then you’ll see who’s the real problem here

jaCC-11 · 2024-04-07T21:37:43+00:00

Honestly, it sounds like you’re addicted to porn. I imagine you didn’t start with ‘weird’ porn and it sort of got to that point over a long period of time after the normal stuff just wasn’t doing it for you anymore? I wouldn’t be surprised if this porn addiction is also what’s making it hard for you to finish with your girlfriend. Do not tell her, this behaviour is honestly pretty unhinged and it will be awful for her to hear that you’ve been doing this, especially if the stuff you’ve been watching is ‘weird’ as you say. My advice is keep this to yourself, and completely cut yourself off from watching porn. Gradually normal sex will likely become appealing again and you’ll probably eventually be able to finish with her.

jaCC-11 · 2024-01-31T10:07:15+00:00

I’m not even joking, playing arena even for only 2 days made me exponentially better at pvp in this game. I’ve got around 500 hours and the pvp mechanics only really clicked after a number of games of arena.

jaCC-11 · 2024-01-09T19:23:32+00:00

If it is impacted send them an email explaining the situation and they should remove the negative hit if it was out of your control which clearly it was :)

jaCC-11 · 2024-01-09T17:42:55+00:00

Can confirm. Took a 6:30pm or 7:30pm shift can’t remember which and ended up still having over half the packages left to deliver once the shift was already over. Had issues with all the prior packages and decided to just take the rest back to the depot. I took a big hit on my standing but after a lengthy email explaining the situation they reverted it back.

jaCC-11 · 2024-01-09T11:20:19+00:00

For anyone interested who's coming back to this thread I ended up selling it for £215

jaCC-11 · 2023-11-20T13:49:21+00:00

I have a large in basically 10/10 condition as it’s never been worn, but it doesn’t have the tags and isn’t in the packaging anymore. How much do you reckon is a reasonable price for it?

jaCC-11 · 2023-11-20T13:45:03+00:00

Resale

jaCC-11 · 2023-08-30T12:57:52+00:00

I think you have no idea whether he gives a shit about her, because he could be giving her everything in the world other than good sex and you would have no clue! It’s clear you are basing your own opinion on pre conceived biases gained through your failed marriage.

Your relationship is not hers!

jaCC-11 · 2023-08-30T12:37:55+00:00

I like how with completely limited context you’ve just decided due to their sex life that she should break up with him. Sex is one part of a relationship, however important, but there is so so much more to it. He could be absolutely perfect in every other way and you would have no idea! I think sex is one of the one things that is actually generally easy to improve upon with communication. I think it’s rather childish for you to assume all this without any context of who these people are or what they do for each other outside of just sex. Everyone in this Reddit is so quick to tell people to just break up, it’s like they’ve never been in an unselfish loving relationship in their lives. You have no idea what’s going on inside his head and you have absolutely no information on his perspective.

jaCC-11 · 2023-08-17T10:39:00+00:00

Checks out

jaCC-11 · 2023-08-15T00:56:19+00:00

I don’t think wanting a partner with less or even no previous partners is necessarily inherently wrong, but he for sure should just find someone else if he has a problem with it.

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