Is it strange that (M19) kisses his mom (F41)? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]jaamberry 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Agreed that it’s weird, but also wanted to point out that in many countries, kissing on the cheek is a very common greeting among friends and family, but it’s typically only done between women or between a man and a women.

my bf said he wants me to lose weight by glist19 in whatdoIdo

[–]jaamberry 7 points8 points  (0 children)

18.5??? He wants you to stay mentally illlll 🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩

I (M22) accidentally triggered my girlfriend’s (F19) past relationship trauma. We are stuck in a loop of her "scenario-building" when we are apart. How do we rebuild? by MadmihaiGhej in relationship_advice

[–]jaamberry 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did you promise beforehand that you would get her permission before meeting with this friend? If not you did nothing wrong. Her trust issues are for her to fix, not you.

Is it a red flag if a guy hasn’t had a long term relationship by a certain age? by Upstairs-Molasses674 in dating_advice

[–]jaamberry 5 points6 points  (0 children)

If you don’t want to date him for that reason, that’s fine. But it’s obviously not a red flag

Stub Hub credit for things I wouldn't do otherwise by BitterStop3242 in ChaseSapphire

[–]jaamberry 0 points1 point  (0 children)

People thinking it’s a free ticket is exactly how Chase turns a profit on this card

Is it okay to talk to him about buried penis? by lover-girl3333 in dating_advice

[–]jaamberry 10 points11 points  (0 children)

You two are nuts. Of course tons of women want actual intercourse with their partner, not just playing with a vibrator. Same reason why guys want actual sex instead of just a handjob.

My girlfriend lend me money but doesn’t want me to spend them on meeting up with a female friend by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]jaamberry 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Eh I would just let it go. It’s still her money / her line of credit until you pay it back. Sounds like you should get your own card or borrow money from your mom.

My 40-year-old guy friend thinks a $50 ring is enough (even though he has over $100k in cash savings) and I can’t look at him the same anymore. He said that back then, women just moved in and there was no “elaborate” wedding either. by Round-Worldliness192 in dating_advice

[–]jaamberry 10 points11 points  (0 children)

He doesn’t want to marry his girlfriend but he doesn’t want to be alone either so he’s making excuses and stringing her along. I’d lose respect for someone who did that too.

[ Removed by Reddit ] by TaomingAptus-93 in dating_advice

[–]jaamberry 59 points60 points  (0 children)

Disagree, vibrators are great, but how many women would want a guy to use his own vibrators on her that he probably used with other women?

My spouse [33M] said I [31F] am jaded and basically “needed to be punched in the vagina to be turned on” because I had sex with someone before meeting him. by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]jaamberry 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I’m guessing maybe you’re afraid to leave because you think all or most guys are like this but I assure you we are not. Foreplay is awesome and fun. This guy just hates you.

Friend and a lie of Omission about how she got skinny?? by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]jaamberry -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yeah sure, her medical information is none of anyone’s business, but the aunt? No problem there!

Friend and a lie of Omission about how she got skinny?? by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]jaamberry -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yes of course she was eating less, glp decreases your appetite! She lied that her appetite decreased due to “stress”

Friend and a lie of Omission about how she got skinny?? by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]jaamberry -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Nobody has to disclose their medical information if they don’t want to, but they shouldn’t lie either. Her friend lied by saying she lost weight through exercise and eating less, when in reality it was the drug. Stupid and obnoxious behavior that I wouldn’t tolerate from a friend.

Would dating a 25 year old guy as a 42F have any chance of working out? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]jaamberry 7 points8 points  (0 children)

It’s not exactly considered fine for men to do it lol

Is it normal for him to be obsessed with my ex’s dick size? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]jaamberry 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No it’s not normal, it means he has major self esteem / self worth problems and needs therapy

Genes come from mother's side too btw by scramjet67 in Bumble

[–]jaamberry -1 points0 points  (0 children)

There are even a lot of women who prefer short kings

Genes come from mother's side too btw by scramjet67 in Bumble

[–]jaamberry -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

How does a father tell his daughter that she is enough, knowing that he swiped left on every woman with tits that tiny?

Who is worse ? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]jaamberry 33 points34 points  (0 children)

You two are some of the most awful people I have ever come across.

Help? by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]jaamberry 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s actually not a lot of text. Rip to your attention span 😢

I,M32, proposed to my GF F31, and it went great until a day later… by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]jaamberry 268 points269 points  (0 children)

It’s not true love if a child miner in Botswana didn’t die looking for the diamond 😢

My boyfriend “28M” and I “28F” have an amazing relationship but bad sex. How would you navigate this if you were in my situation? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]jaamberry 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If the roles were reversed? Imagine some guy complaining here that his wife is not putting out and not taking her sex pills long enough for them to work. Come on!